21 Oct 2010, 5:44 pm
21 Oct 2010, 5:50 pm
sunshower wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I know , i know ...... the basis of evolutionary psychology and all this sh**.
Ironically , I had experienced this week what even a possible better "status" can magically do. It seems that there have been a rumor running around my workplace (since monday) that I will get promoted to a much higher position (which is partially true) and all of the sudden that girl who previously rejected to have lunch with me (during work time) and bluntly refused my dance advance in some event (when I was the entry level employee back then) started to flirt me left and right, complimenting my clothings , asking me what perfume I am wearing , asking me what I am doing while she leaning herself on my shoulder while I am sitting , coming all way from her office to ask me if I want some candy from the shop , sending me hi's on the internal instant messenger...... gawd, she's just a nuisance now.
and there's also that other girl that she was used to ask what's my first name for zillion times every time I talk to her , out of the blue, now she talks to me and she knows my full name! This is really miraculous : hear the miracle[/quote
A naturalistic case study in action! Wish I could have been there to take notes, compare previous and current data, etc. I think maybe I am too psychology obsessed. And derailing the thread.
Has anyone heard of the university based "will you have sex with me tonight?" study. It's a good one.
Ironically , I had experienced this week what even a possible better "status" can magically do. It seems that there have been a rumor running around my workplace (since monday) that I will get promoted to a much higher position (which is partially true) and all of the sudden that girl who previously rejected to have lunch with me (during work time) and bluntly refused my dance advance in some event (when I was the entry level employee back then) started to flirt me left and right, complimenting my clothings , asking me what perfume I am wearing , asking me what I am doing while she leaning herself on my shoulder while I am sitting , coming all way from her office to ask me if I want some candy from the shop , sending me hi's on the internal instant messenger...... gawd, she's just a nuisance now.
and there's also that other girl that she was used to ask what's my first name for zillion times every time I talk to her , out of the blue, now she talks to me and she knows my full name! This is really miraculous : hear the miracle[/quote
A naturalistic case study in action! Wish I could have been there to take notes, compare previous and current data, etc. I think maybe I am too psychology obsessed. And derailing the thread.
Has anyone heard of the university based "will you have sex with me tonight?" study. It's a good one.
yes, i have the book "Elephants on Acid and Other Bizarre Experiments", and the experiment is in there. fascinating. and weird.
21 Oct 2010, 6:07 pm
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22 Oct 2010, 4:20 pm
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22 Oct 2010, 4:55 pm
sunshower wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A naturalistic case study in action! Wish I could have been there to take notes, compare previous and current data, etc. I think maybe I am too psychology obsessed. And derailing the thread.
Has anyone heard of the university based "will you have sex with me tonight?" study. It's a good one.
I am flattered!
You want to study me that close?
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Day and night ? Everywhere and everytime? 
Making diagrams about me? Taking photos and describing my behaviors? 
........
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Don't dare to not use medical gloves ! ! O_o
22 Oct 2010, 5:16 pm
22 Oct 2010, 7:51 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sunshower wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A naturalistic case study in action! Wish I could have been there to take notes, compare previous and current data, etc. I think maybe I am too psychology obsessed. And derailing the thread.
Has anyone heard of the university based "will you have sex with me tonight?" study. It's a good one.
I am flattered!
You want to study me that close?
Day and night ? Everywhere and everytime? Making diagrams about me? Taking photos and describing my behaviors? ........
.....
Don't dare to not use medical gloves ! ! O_o
Note to self: keep strategic distance away from subject at all times.
22 Oct 2010, 9:52 pm
Hyperlexian, you make it sound like more than a small percentage of college students would be in a LTR.
Secondly, women are generally known to be emotional crock pots; if they're willing to cheat, it's pretty unlikely to be with someone they just met. I've mutually flirted with most of my at-the-time attached female friends to an extent that'd make a normal monogamous guy angry.
Thirdly, men will always cheat more than women because they are less emotional and sex is more pleasurable for us; this is for biological reasons. Over several posts, you're sounding like a man-hater; cut it out... or you'll make a very powerless enemy
hyperlexian wrote:
nothing suprising in the study, but it's sort of annoying. a high percentage of men on a college campus said they would have sex with a moderately attractive and unfamiliar interviewer. she said something like, "i find you attractive. would you go to bed with me?"
when faced with the same question by a male surveyer, women ALL said no and reacted with shock and anger.
it was a high percentage of the men who said yes- can't remember how many (75% or something), but it makes me sad because a whole bunch of those guys must have been in relationships. sick that they would throw it all away for some random woman.
when faced with the same question by a male surveyer, women ALL said no and reacted with shock and anger.
it was a high percentage of the men who said yes- can't remember how many (75% or something), but it makes me sad because a whole bunch of those guys must have been in relationships. sick that they would throw it all away for some random woman.
22 Oct 2010, 10:06 pm
22 Oct 2010, 10:57 pm
Preston wrote:
Hyperlexian, you make it sound like more than a small percentage of college students would be in a LTR.
Secondly, women are generally known to be emotional crock pots; if they're willing to cheat, it's pretty unlikely to be with someone they just met. I've mutually flirted with most of my at-the-time attached female friends to an extent that'd make a normal monogamous guy angry.
Thirdly, men will always cheat more than women because they are less emotional and sex is more pleasurable for us; this is for biological reasons. Over several posts, you're sounding like a man-hater; cut it out... or you'll make a very powerless enemy
Secondly, women are generally known to be emotional crock pots; if they're willing to cheat, it's pretty unlikely to be with someone they just met. I've mutually flirted with most of my at-the-time attached female friends to an extent that'd make a normal monogamous guy angry.
Thirdly, men will always cheat more than women because they are less emotional and sex is more pleasurable for us; this is for biological reasons. Over several posts, you're sounding like a man-hater; cut it out... or you'll make a very powerless enemy
hyperlexian wrote:
nothing suprising in the study, but it's sort of annoying. a high percentage of men on a college campus said they would have sex with a moderately attractive and unfamiliar interviewer. she said something like, "i find you attractive. would you go to bed with me?"
when faced with the same question by a male surveyer, women ALL said no and reacted with shock and anger.
it was a high percentage of the men who said yes- can't remember how many (75% or something), but it makes me sad because a whole bunch of those guys must have been in relationships. sick that they would throw it all away for some random woman.
when faced with the same question by a male surveyer, women ALL said no and reacted with shock and anger.
it was a high percentage of the men who said yes- can't remember how many (75% or something), but it makes me sad because a whole bunch of those guys must have been in relationships. sick that they would throw it all away for some random woman.
nope, i love men. but who cares if you think i hate men? my husband is very, very satsified with our relationship, and that's what matters - not what random people in a forum think.
i said the study annoyed me because i try to think that men should be above behaviour like that if they are in a relationship. i don't know the percent of college men who are in relationships of any sort, so i am not sure how many of the men would have been cheating if they had gone ahead with it. hard to find stats on that, so right now i am not sure either way.
emotional crock-pots.
that's kind of a weird thing to say. flirting is not equal to sex anyways. but... why were you flirting with them like that if you knew it would make other men mad? takes two to tango.
22 Oct 2010, 11:02 pm
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23 Oct 2010, 4:23 pm
sunshower wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sunshower wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A naturalistic case study in action! Wish I could have been there to take notes, compare previous and current data, etc. I think maybe I am too psychology obsessed. And derailing the thread.
Has anyone heard of the university based "will you have sex with me tonight?" study. It's a good one.
I am flattered!
You want to study me that close?
Day and night ? Everywhere and everytime? Making diagrams about me? Taking photos and describing my behaviors? ........
.....
Don't dare to not use medical gloves ! ! O_o
Note to self: keep strategic distance away from subject at all times.
I installed a rocket launcher on my left shoulder , a gatling gun on my right shoulder and a strategic missile defense system on my back , just in case.
23 Oct 2010, 8:27 pm
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