04 Oct 2011, 10:05 pm
04 Oct 2011, 10:43 pm
I wasn't looking for advice on how to get women...I was looking for advice on how to cope with the fact that I will NEVER have one.
Theres no cure for that one mate
You have two choices:
Decide to stop being stubborn and listen to the advice, because hey......it might do something spectacular like, i dunno, WORK!! !!
or......
You can stick to the dogmatic self-pity that so many of us could easily succumb to but don't. Continue to moan about it till the cows come home.
Honestly, you want to cope with the alleged "fact" that you will never have a woman in your life? Fast. Stop eating. According to muslims it will weaken your sex drive, thus enabling you to remain celibate. You try that instead.........
05 Oct 2011, 7:07 am
05 Oct 2011, 9:47 am
05 Oct 2011, 9:53 am
05 Oct 2011, 10:21 am
I read through this whole thread again......I can't believe how ridiculously depressing this whole thing is.
Now I've never been good with girls, but I have been downbeat about that, but I at least have some kind of introspection when I analyze events that have taken place, so I know that it is of my own doing as opposed to just women. There are a lot of women I have met, and most of them were not lying manipulative b*****s as you so put it, I was just seriously inept.
You are going to have to look within to find out how to cope and get over this. Stop bitching though, please, it's actually getting annoying.
The reason you (SadAspy and MR20) annoy people is not because you are supposedly ugly or have AS or anything like that, or unsocial or women all being b*****s or all of that stuff that you say is the reason. The reason you both annoy people is because you're downers. All you do is moan and complain, this is the reason why you turn people away from you, even online. We are STILL trying to help you, even though you have ignored us, chastised us for helping you, and held steadfast to false generalisations to fit your warped reality.
Yeah, I know what you're gonna say, "but we wouldn't be this way if you all didn't reject us, cry-cry-cry".....meh. If I had listened to all the people that "rejected" me in this life, I'd be in a mental institution. It doesn't matter. It just doesn't. Get over yourselves please, everyone here as been through what you have been through, and if not, something equivalent or worse.
One day when I am rich (hopefully soon), I will fly you both out to London and take you to Faces or a couple pubs round here and get you to talk to some girls and relax a little (you can hold me to it if I do lol), and I will show you that it is not that hard, and being rejected is not the end of life, the sky won't fall down. I used to hate being rejected, now I don't care, its actually kinda fun now
Seriously, stop bitching, get some counselling, take up a martial art, do some other activities, do anything, something, other than whine on the internet about women. It's really non-masculine. Come on man.......
05 Oct 2011, 5:21 pm
Now I've never been good with girls, but I have been downbeat about that, but I at least have some kind of introspection when I analyze events that have taken place, so I know that it is of my own doing as opposed to just women. There are a lot of women I have met, and most of them were not lying manipulative b*****s as you so put it, I was just seriously inept.
Girls/Women don't go out with me because I'm a pathetic and hopeless loser that doesn't have anything to offer them. Males don't hang out with me for the same reasons.
You are going to have to look within to find out how to cope and get over this. Stop bitching though, please, it's actually getting annoying.
You can't get over being alone, depressed, miserable, frustrated and bitter. Actually coping for me is coming here to blow off steam and "complain and whine" or whatever.
The reason you (SadAspy and MR20) annoy people is not because you are supposedly ugly or have AS or anything like that, or unsocial or women all being b*****s or all of that stuff that you say is the reason. The reason you both annoy people is because you're downers. All you do is moan and complain, this is the reason why you turn people away from you, even online. We are STILL trying to help you, even though you have ignored us, chastised us for helping you, and held steadfast to false generalisations to fit your warped reality.
The reason I annoy people is because I'm ugly, slow and stupid, poor, and I have low functioning AS. No one wants to look at an ugly person all the time, no one wants to be around someone that is slow and stupid for an extended period of time, no one wants to be around a person that has no idea how to act normal and socialize properly, and of course no one wants to be around a person that is poor, because they don't really identify with those type of people, and they even get kinda depressed when they're around them.
I never have talked about my problems or how I feel in public.
I don't really blame women for not going out with me
Yeah who could blame women for not going out with me, and who could blame men for not hanging out with me.
One day when I am rich (hopefully soon), I will fly you both out to London and take you to Faces or a couple pubs round here and get you to talk to some girls and relax a little (you can hold me to it if I do lol), and I will show you that it is not that hard, and being rejected is not the end of life, the sky won't fall down. I used to hate being rejected, now I don't care, its actually kinda fun now
Please, like if that ever happened you would visit this site again.
Seriously, stop bitching, get some counselling, take up a martial art, do some other activities, do anything, something, other than whine on the internet about women. It's really non-masculine. Come on man......
Well I have anime, porn, and video games, and I've always said I was a pathetic excuse for man.
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05 Oct 2011, 7:14 pm
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06 Oct 2011, 12:18 pm
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06 Oct 2011, 3:56 pm
That's because we're all kidding ourselves if we think we can defy our natural desires. Yes, even though I made that thread and all a while back. I was feeling glum about not being "Alpha".
My approach is to concentrate on just enjoying myself around women and not caring too much about "success". Sure, I want it to happen, but I might be waiting for the rest of my life for it, so might as well have fun while I'm at it.
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06 Oct 2011, 6:57 pm
How did you achieve this? I manage to accomplish it for short periods of time but it always returns with a vengeance - I simply cannot accept defeat, no matter how much I want to...
That's a good question. I'd say it has something to do with..... well you know the old saying, "the straw that broke the camel's back." In my case a girl FINALLY liked me....but there was some drama (let's just say she had a baby and a b/f), so I was pretty mad about it for a while, and then the anger turned to indifference. For example, I just took my mom to the clinic and along the way there were a lot of cute girls walking down the street (it's near a huge college) and I would look at them and think "oh, they're cute," and then after that I'd just shrug it off and continue. Like I'd feel this....this....huge tidal wave of indifference wash over me.
It helps that I have some pretty horrid luck in almost all aspects of my life. These girls not liking me is nothing in comparison to my other problems.
06 Oct 2011, 7:07 pm
That's been my approach lately and it's been great, I've had a lot of fun recently along these lines.
But then I go home to my empty apartment and it all comes back, it's like eating Chinese food: it's satisfying at the time, but an hour later you're hungry again.
Better than nothing though!
09 Oct 2011, 6:35 pm
09 Oct 2011, 6:41 pm
You want some anger SadAspy?
Here we go.
I'm SICK of men like you putting all the responsibility for YOUR feelings and YOUR problems on women.
It's not women's job to fall in love with you, have sex with you, spend time with you. It's your job to do what you can to make yourself attractive and if a woman still doesn't want you then accept that and find a way to be ok with it.
But no. Women owe you sex, women owe you a relationship, women owe you this, women owe you that.
I'm SICK of men who think women owe them something just because. GROW the hell up and SHUT the hell up.
I understand the sentiment, but the bolded is MUCH easier said than done. Insignificant, but I thought it relevant to add that.....
EDIT: If it was so easy to find a way and accept it, we wouldn't have raging guys like SadAspy running around preaching the "evils of women", however hideously misguided he is.
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09 Oct 2011, 6:44 pm
