Wolfheart wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
As for me I'll probably look like a burnt out metalhead/rocker chick when I'm 40......or sooner.
Many people in the music industry age quickly or poorly but I think that may be due to lifestyle, excessive make up use, drugs and alcohol dehydrate the skin and make people look older.
The best thing to do is stay out of the sun, stay away from smoking and alcohol, drink 8 pints of water a day and moisturise the skin three times a day.
why? to stay looking younger? how about people just allow themselves to age naturally so that we don't have such a false image of what aging is supposed to look like.
I doubt that's going to happen, some people have better genetics than others, some people have skin that dehydrates quicker than others, some people have oily skin which ages better, there will always be an imposed standard because of that. If people had equal genetics and aged in sync, perhaps things could be different but people are always going to age at different rates.
like i said before, aging "better" would be aging properly, otherwise it's a misnomer.
it's possible to change society, but people first have to let go of promoting the idea that youth is the ideal. in fact, it isn't the ideal sort of beauty in everyone's eyes, but promoting the idea that it IS the universal ideal makes it seem unnatural to appreciate people who have aged appropriately. better to promote the idea that people should appreciate themselves and each other
as they are.
even as recently as the 1950s, the most attractive women were those who looked mature. it was in the 1960s onward that eternal youth was pushed by the media. so it's not as though things have always been a certain way.
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