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25 Feb 2012, 10:59 am

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Some people just can't seem to realise that everyone is different. I supposedly have a Theory of Mind deficiency and I seem to be more mindful of that fact than a lot of 'normal' people.


Holy Carp! I had no idea whay you meant when you wrote "Theory of Mind deficiency", so I looked it up. Umm. Uhh. Really? We are supposed to have "Theory of Mind???" I do believe I'm missing that. And they say mind-reading isn't possible! Ha! Apparently "normal" people can do it! No wonder we can't understand them!! !


Theory of Mind works both ways-
the NT who empathizes with the Autistic is often few and far between (OPINION. OPINION. OPINION.)
but since they're "normal",
WE are the ones who are deficient for not understanding THEM.


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25 Feb 2012, 11:16 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:
Theory of Mind works both ways-
the NT who empathizes with the Autistic is often few and far between (OPINION. OPINION. OPINION.)
but since they're "normal",
WE are the ones who are deficient for not understanding THEM.


Well, I share your "opinion", so there's at least two of us. :D And my family is very big on being "normal". Majority rules. They seriously can not understand my liking be abnormal! :lol:



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25 Feb 2012, 11:27 am

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Can't be Fat or anorexic looking. It may sound shallow and harsh but fat really does say something about discipline in a person.


It's not shallow and harsh, just totally factually inaccurate.


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25 Feb 2012, 3:48 pm

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she isn't 80lb, unless she is about 4'3". this is a 5'4" woman (average height) at 80lb:

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the girls that weigh 80 pounds are roughly 5 feet and do not even look bony -_-


i was with the girl for a year and had seen her weigh herself multiple times on multiple scales. shes 4'11" and ranged from 80-85


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25 Feb 2012, 4:58 pm

i'll believe it when i see it. show me a pic of a person with that height and weight who does NOT look underweight and i will believe your assertion. but more importantly, why was she weighing herself in front of you?


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25 Feb 2012, 10:15 pm

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i'll believe it when i see it. show me a pic of a person with that height and weight who does NOT look underweight and i will believe your assertion. but more importantly, why was she weighing herself in front of you?

cuz shes crazy about that stuff but could never starve herself cuz she loved food so much :p

ill try to find a full body pic but her bones were deffinitly not sticking out like nicole richie XD


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25 Feb 2012, 10:47 pm

DiabloDave363 wrote:
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i'll believe it when i see it. show me a pic of a person with that height and weight who does NOT look underweight and i will believe your assertion. but more importantly, why was she weighing herself in front of you?

cuz shes crazy about that stuff but could never starve herself cuz she loved food so much :p

ill try to find a full body pic but her bones were deffinitly not sticking out like nicole richie XD

sounds like she may have had an eating disorder if she was repeatedly weighing herself in front of you. that's not typical behaviour.


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25 Feb 2012, 11:01 pm

I don't have a weight range or any other kind of range. But I don't date, so that's probably a moot point.



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26 Feb 2012, 1:51 pm

I'm 5'2", 109 pounds and you can count every one of my ribs and vertebrae.

Not everyone is built the same way.


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26 Feb 2012, 2:22 pm

^^ and you called yourself permanent obese??????????? :P



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26 Feb 2012, 2:25 pm

ValentineWiggin wrote:
I'm 5'2", 109 pounds and you can count every one of my ribs and vertebrae.


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Get it down you. ;)



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26 Feb 2012, 4:29 pm

No specific requirements, but bonus points if it seems she can kick my ass in a fight without resorting to "nether region shots."

Many more bonus points if she demonstrates being able to do so [1].

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[1] By invitation; unprovoked, uninvited violence is off-putting to say the least.



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26 Feb 2012, 5:41 pm

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i'll believe it when i see it. show me a pic of a person with that height and weight who does NOT look underweight and i will believe your assertion. but more importantly, why was she weighing herself in front of you?

cuz shes crazy about that stuff but could never starve herself cuz she loved food so much :p

ill try to find a full body pic but her bones were deffinitly not sticking out like nicole richie XD

sounds like she may have had an eating disorder if she was repeatedly weighing herself in front of you. that's not typical behaviour.

trust me she doesnt. she ate alll the time XD


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26 Feb 2012, 5:49 pm

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i'll believe it when i see it. show me a pic of a person with that height and weight who does NOT look underweight and i will believe your assertion. but more importantly, why was she weighing herself in front of you?

cuz shes crazy about that stuff but could never starve herself cuz she loved food so much :p

ill try to find a full body pic but her bones were deffinitly not sticking out like nicole richie XD

sounds like she may have had an eating disorder if she was repeatedly weighing herself in front of you. that's not typical behaviour.

trust me she doesnt. she ate alll the time XD

i am suspicious if she was weighing herself all the time. binging/purging is one way that people can still eat massively and be extremely thin. what was the conversation prior to the weighing? and what was the reason for multiple weigh-ins?


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27 Feb 2012, 5:55 am

DiabloDave363 wrote:
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she isn't 80lb, unless she is about 4'3". this is a 5'4" woman (average height) at 80lb:

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the girls that weigh 80 pounds are roughly 5 feet and do not even look bony -_-


i was with the girl for a year and had seen her weigh herself multiple times on multiple scales. shes 4'11" and ranged from 80-85


It's probably because they're young. And if they eat, they wouldn't be as dead looking as Rachel Zoe, as they would get nutrients. Snooki is around that height and weight and doesn't look underweight at all.

less than 5 foot is a lot shorter than 5'4". There's no way she would look as skinny as Rachel zoe. My sister is about 4 inches taller than me and can carry about 15 extra kilos without looking fatter.



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27 Feb 2012, 8:25 am

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i'll believe it when i see it. show me a pic of a person with that height and weight who does NOT look underweight and i will believe your assertion. but more importantly, why was she weighing herself in front of you?

cuz shes crazy about that stuff but could never starve herself cuz she loved food so much :p

ill try to find a full body pic but her bones were deffinitly not sticking out like nicole richie XD

sounds like she may have had an eating disorder if she was repeatedly weighing herself in front of you. that's not typical behaviour.

trust me she doesnt. she ate alll the time XD

i am suspicious if she was weighing herself all the time. binging/purging is one way that people can still eat massively and be extremely thin. what was the conversation prior to the weighing? and what was the reason for multiple weigh-ins?


because she thought she was fat. heres the thing, like i said, she ate all the time. i was with this girl 24/7 and she never threw up or did anything like that.


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