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28 Oct 2012, 3:18 pm

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Well, I have talked with guys that were obsessed with shaved female genitals.

You know, porn industry :? It's just so... "plastic".


That's what happens when people watch porn instead of real sex. It's twisted and warped and has very little to do with real human sexuality in my experience.



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28 Oct 2012, 3:29 pm

Ill say it again. Porn doesnt dictate what people want, people tell porn what they want to see. There once was a time where porn was all about the bush. But that changed. And many women ask their partners to shave/trim their genitals too.



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28 Oct 2012, 3:41 pm

BlueMax wrote:
BanjoGirl wrote:
Well, I have talked with guys that were obsessed with shaved female genitals.

You know, porn industry :? It's just so... "plastic".


That's what happens when people watch porn instead of real sex. It's twisted and warped and has very little to do with real human sexuality in my experience.


Some people even say pubic hair is not hygienic and that it has to be completely removed. Porn manipulation... and in my opinion porn movies can be very sexual (it is obvious) but they are not sensuous at all.


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28 Oct 2012, 4:16 pm

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it's like, men have to do more self-improvement as a person, in their life, than women do in order to be dating/relationship material, sex material, etc.

Just angers me, pisses me off


Are you effing KIDDING me?! !! How many ladies have suggested you wax your balls? Because I've had more than one guy ask me to shave/wax my area for them. How many ladies have told you that your ass is too jiggly? They totally love you but, really they think they'd love you more and you would just FEEL better if your ass didn't move when you ran. Or that maybe you should try a cleanse? Because 20 days of eating/drinking only lemon/pepper flavored water MIGHT make you loveable

How about you drop to 7% body fat and get implants and wax off every body hair except your scalp and *some* of your eyebrows and then talk to me about how men have to do more self-improvement as a person, in their life than women do. Oh, and if you should happen to have anything higher than a bachelors-in-anything? Forget it. No one will want your educated ass.

Cry me a F&$KING river. Men have to find a job. Full stop.


well men have to be confident, comfortable and content with themselves, have things going for them in their lives, have a lot going for them, women don't really have to



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28 Oct 2012, 4:29 pm

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Ill say it again. Porn doesnt dictate what people want, people tell porn what they want to see. There once was a time where porn was all about the bush. But that changed. And many women ask their partners to shave/trim their genitals too.


I don't know other women opinions but I find male genitals shaved are kind of... weird :?

And men on dates have said to me "I hope you are totally shaved down there". This fashion comes from porn, probably because it's more easy to watch the intercourse without pubic hair (or because it is a way to avoid the crab louses on the porn industry, I don't know). Porn has a lot of influence, it's a big industry and it has millions and millions of viewers.

Our society is very influenced by the media.


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28 Oct 2012, 4:46 pm

BanjoGirl wrote:
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Ill say it again. Porn doesnt dictate what people want, people tell porn what they want to see. There once was a time where porn was all about the bush. But that changed. And many women ask their partners to shave/trim their genitals too.


I don't know other women opinions but I find male genitals shaved are kind of... weird :?

And men on dates have said to me "I hope you are totally shaved down there". This fashion comes from porn, probably because it's more easy to watch the intercourse without pubic hair (or because it is a way to avoid the crab louses on the porn industry, I don't know). Porn has a lot of influence, it's a big industry and it has millions and millions of viewers.

Our society is very influenced by the media.


its why many ask them to trim and not shave

I agree with that on porn positions. But not on shaved/not shaved. The premise on shaving has more to do with being younger than simply because porn does it. And even the people who do live out porn positions do so because they lack knpwledge to do otherwise.

anyways, the discussion is pretty offtopic.



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28 Oct 2012, 11:24 pm

Shaving makes oral sex less messy but other than that it seems unnecessary. Another reason might be that it reminds of pre-teen.



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29 Oct 2012, 2:31 pm

men have to make themselves stand out way more than women do



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29 Oct 2012, 4:39 pm

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men have to make themselves stand out way more than women do

Yeah. I agree with you. Us men can't talk about adam sandler (Ok, I do talk about other things, Adam sandler is not
my only subject) but the point is, women can also talk about lame stuff too and get a man to date them.



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29 Oct 2012, 4:44 pm

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men have to make themselves stand out way more than women do

Yeah. I agree with you. Us men can't talk about adam sandler (Ok, I do talk about other things, Adam sandler is not
my only subject) but the point is, women can also talk about lame stuff too and get a man to date them.


exactly! :x



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29 Oct 2012, 6:42 pm

as ive told both of you. Its not the topic of the conversation, rather how interesting the conversation.



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29 Oct 2012, 6:47 pm

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as ive told both of you. Its not the topic of the conversation, rather how interesting the conversation.


i hate women, even my own mom



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29 Oct 2012, 6:49 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
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as ive told both of you. Its not the topic of the conversation, rather how interesting the conversation.


i hate women, even my own mom

then why do you bother looking for tips to get one?



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29 Oct 2012, 7:02 pm

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Shaving makes oral sex less messy but other than that it seems unnecessary. Another reason might be that it reminds of pre-teen.


Well, for me, it kind of is necessary because if I don't shave, my pubes will get trapped between my glans and my foreskin, and it will pull on the pubic hair, which doesn't feel good.



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29 Oct 2012, 7:10 pm

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as ive told both of you. Its not the topic of the conversation, rather how interesting the conversation.

That not my point. What I was saying is women can talk about lame stuff and still get men to date them.
A woman can talk about adam sandler and most men wouldn't care. But as a man you have to talk about whatever the woman find interesting. men have to have great and interesting conversation but women can get away with stupid and lame conversation



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29 Oct 2012, 7:34 pm

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MXH wrote:
as ive told both of you. Its not the topic of the conversation, rather how interesting the conversation.

That not my point. What I was saying is women can talk about lame stuff and still get men to date them.
A woman can talk about adam sandler and most men wouldn't care. But as a man you have to talk about whatever the woman find interesting. men have to have great and interesting conversation but women can get away with stupid and lame conversation


Last time I talked with a woman in a flirty matter we were talking about kitchen appliances. It doesnt get more bland than that. If theres enough involvement by both sides anything can be turned into a good conversation. But even the most exciting of things will be boring if its just one sided.