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Geekonychus
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15 Feb 2013, 12:29 pm

billiscool wrote:
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Then that is where your focus should be. Focus on making friends (both male and female.) Expand your social circle and more opportunities for romance might arise.


actual, in the past I did have a social circle and I did go to alot of parties. And I didn't get a gf. back when I was 20-22 years old, before I met my current ex gf. I had a some male friends, and I use to go to their ''beer parties'' and never did get laid or got a gf from them parties.
but alot them girls at them parties, made fun of how I talk ''ya, sound like this, you redneck''
but I am happy that my first sex partner wasn't some lousy party girl who didn't give a crap about me.
and maybe it's a good thing that them young women didn't like me, they were hot but they were not very nice.
(they weren't like mean, but they didn't treat me well either) they were the ''hot and popular'' girls..
I am sure you have encounter them type of young women before.
I mean, find real adult friends that share your interests. Find clubs, gatherings, etc. And don't go after obnoxious party girls or bar meat.



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15 Feb 2013, 1:26 pm

Geekonychus wrote:
I mean, find real adult friends that share your interests. Find clubs, gatherings, etc. And don't go after obnoxious party girls or bar meat.


I agree. But most ''how to get girls'' advice is always telling guys to go after bar and club girls. which I find annoying.
and I have gone to (hobby)clubs, gathering before still no gf.

remember I am still the same ''wimpy'' ''redneck'' guy. no matter where Im at. so even if I do join more hobby clubs and do gathering,
it probaly wouldn't make a difference but it doesn't hurt to try.

I make a ''good friend'' towards women, but not a not ''best friend'' or a ''boyfriend'' towards them. And as long as women have stigma
against ''social awkward men'' like myself, it going to be a very hard challenge for me (not impossible, but very hard)
unless I get lucky and find a woman who has no clue about ''how a man is suppose to be''

I am a ''special'' autism man ( I don't have a asperger) I am more ''lower level'' than the average aspie person.