The effect of looks

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someone who is a 7-10 to you may be a 3-5 to someone who likes atypical features or to someone who is concerned with aspects other than appearance. so in the end the comparison is meaningless to anyone except someone with your exact taste who also wants to have lots of meaningless casual sex.

i don't think you're coming across the way that you intend to. you have given some very good advice on the board and members have benefited from things you have told them. but when you back it up with empty bragging, it actually works against you. members won't take you seriously if you descend into marking your territory instead of simply letting your advice speak for itself.

More conversing from Plenty of Fish, haha.

"Her
I like all that stuff but I also like the other end of the spectrum too. I don't fall into a category.

Two things? I'm romantic and easy to talk too.

What would you say to Miss Right? X
Me
Haha yeah I had an ex girlfriend who made me watch all those kind of chick flick and Disney films, cute though but you gotta be willing to watch something like Top Gun now or be able to whistle the theme from it if you really want to impress me x

Well if there was a list, dark, tall, handsome, funny, muscular, athletic, , good with animals and kids! haha I just can't pick two things, haha. What's so romantic about you? what's the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you? x

Her
The only romantic thing that a guy has ever done was when my ex lit up candles in my room and played a cd to tell me he loved me... But that was all I was getting! No further romantic gestures through out the relationship (it lasted 4 years)

I love romance and everything about it... Love notes, flowers, candle lit dinners...

I can definitely do guy films! Top gun.. die hard.. Expendables.. I am open to any films!

Are you romantic? Xx"

You really have a pinched nerve somewhere. Let me know how many of those 50 actually go past 10 messages. Which is something a lot of the initial attraction advice all over this forum seems to forget. Especially in a place like online dating.



Yes, I've seen some of your lines. I think I recall sharing them. Hopefully the honesty there isn't the same as with your height. Which in the last 2 months has changed more than the temperatures.

I'm doing something instead of whining about my situation unlike 90% posts on this forum, I'm trying to help others and I'm not saying everyone has the same destination when it comes to dating. If you want to have a wife with five kids running around, that's your choice, I'm very aware that people are looking for different things when it comes to love & dating.

Maybe I haven't quite reached the stage of getting married but I have gotten some good fun experiences and I know more about what I'm looking for in a partner. What people don't understand is that to get to the stage of even getting laid or getting married is that you need to have the initial attraction first.

All I'm saying is I fail to see how you yourself have used any of the advice you've given out. All I've seen is bragging, which you were publicly told not to do

Like I said, if you think you're the man at it, get on a site and show us. Not just a few messages either but actually go out with a girl and get laid, that's all I'm going to say to you.

I have a laugh with it instead of writing desperate or long winded boring messages, I have learned from trial and error but I have also have good experiences from online dating, good enough that I don't feel the need to bash online dating websites. I realized that most people are just looking to have a fun time, not something so serious. If something like initial attraction can get someone like MR20 or Brianruns 20 dates a year even, don't you think that's helpful?

"Her
boo! x
Me
boo! so you like Die Hard! Have you ever screamed out yippie ki yay having an orgasm before? :') loved your perfect world bi in your profile, I don't usually read funny profiles but that was pretty funny haha! x
Her
haha, no I havent actually! LOL. but i do when i win an arguement and look like the smuggest person in the world! Your profile made me laugh to, its a shame that so many people on here are so serious. I was chatting to this chap called Morgan and I made a more-than freeman joke and he didnt get it. - safe to say i looked a complete tool x"

He's taken the "stuff", lifted, got some muscles which gets the attention of lots of ditzy, superficial bubbleheads who go nuts for that sort of thing.

Like filet mignon vs 100 potato chips. Quality over quantity. Some guys prefer the potato chips... easier and faster to acquire.

Wolfheart, stop posting the private messages and chats on here. other members have told the same thing before as well, it's not acceptable to do that here.

+2

Unless you have money, then its pretty easy

Fair enough, I'll stop that but in my honest opinion, I do think I'm right, I'm not bashing women and I'm not bashing internet dating. I'm not bitter, I'm not complaining about my situation, I'm just having a laugh and not exactly doing anything illegal or immoral by any means. I'm just showing how you can still approach internet dating, not care and have a better experience with it rather than taking dating so seriously as if it is some destination to find the perfect partner.

I'm bored reading this. What an utterly substance-free, vapid conversation it's been, thus far. I'd not date *either* of you, if this sample interaction were all I had to go on!

If that's not the goal of dating, then what is? "Perfection" doesn't exist. I thought the goal of dating *was* to find a partner, however..?

Reminds me of a naughty image posted around here before - where the girlie in question was bored by the thoughtful message from someone who read her profile and replied accordingly... then ...er... was excited by the message from muscle-headed jock-boy's "UR hot want sum f*k" message.

That so many of those humans exist (possibly the majority) dissolves my hope for the future of mankind.

Okay... now I am getting a little haughty. Time for a break.

Last edited by BlueMax on 27 Feb 2013, 12:42 pm, edited 1 time in total.

There has been a very big difference between us. That my advice and way of going after things is irk and yours is online. I've been asked out to dates or to casual sex on dating sites by attractive girls, but I just didn't go through because i didn't see even casual sex as living up to the same thing with the extra excitement of doing it face to face. Heck right now to my own surprise i might have a good candidate irl