How physically attractive do you think you are?

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I get what you're saying.
But what I was getting at is that if you're on the spectrum (and hetero male) it's way, way harder to get sex, relationships, etc. IF you want them.
So much so that an aspie male would often seem better off not being physically attractive. Because at least then they don't have NT females constantly putting it in their face (so to speak) reminding them of that which they pretty much can't have *. At least not without a huge, HUGE amount of heavy lifting compared to NT males (who, btw, already have a lot more on their plate than females in this regard). So huge as to make the rewards incompensatory.
Most autistic males would probably benefit from a t-shirt or sign that read "WARNING: Autistic weirdo guy. Do not flirt with."
Because of this life can actually get easier for us as we age and start to loose out looks.

So we see that there are actually TWO fundamentally different problems that being autistic and attractive have.
A: Not being able to get sex if that's what you want.
B: Not being able to just be friends if that's what you want.
Now why do I get the impression that problem A is mostly for aspie males while problem B is mostly for aspie females?
Hmmmmm.

* note: I am not saying that NT females are necessarily (and knowingly) dangling raw meat in front of a caged dog. They are, of course, just assuming that we're NT guys that they are trying to get interested in them who will, in turn, approach and interact with them (and not come off as complete weirdos the moment they open their mouths to say ANYTHING on their mind) and then ask THEM out, and do all that heavy lifting once they've been 'jump started' so to speak).
But really the end result is the same as if they were doing it all maliciously.


As for charges of misogyny. My only defense there is that just because one happens to be both autistic and male doesn't make them not human.
Sue me.

The hardest thing can be when you want it and you don't want it. When I was younger I was simultaneously attracted to and repulsed by the idea of a relationship.

For anyone who is complaining to be too attractive: you can easily uglify yourself and make yourself sexually repulsive.

How? How can I do it Boo? I'm so tired of women literally throwing themselves at me

I should be thankful that they threw stuff at me, if not their selves.

the answer is no.

I get told by other people that I'm curvy, have beautiful hair, pretty eyes, my skin has been compared to porcelain and I think that's a good indicator that I'm physically attractive. I feel good about how I look.

My girlfriend thinks I’m very sexually attractive, which is what really matters most to me. Also, this attraction is mutual.

My family tell me that I look like Pep Guardiola, personally I see more of a resemblance to Simone Zaza. People have been telling me I look normal my whole life, but I just don't feel it. I'd be amazed if any woman found me attractive. Sometimes I catch the odd one, "checking me out", but I'm never sure if it's in a good way or a bad way, so I just assume a bad way. I could really use one weirdo to like this weirdo right now.