cyberdad wrote:
There's a common pattern where a girl dating a male discovers he's a victim of bullying. The victim loses the girl not long after because females unconsciously want males who they perceive can protect them.
Almost all the men I know (note that I hang out mostly with nerds) have been severily bullied at some point of their lives - and most of them have stable girlfriends/wives.
Maybe this is the difference between a
victim and a
survivor - both are deeply scarred but only the victim is defined by their scars.
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Let's not confuse being normal with being mentally healthy.
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