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26 Feb 2021, 7:45 am

Screw revenge.

Revenge solves nothing and perpetuates a vicious cycle.



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26 Feb 2021, 7:45 am

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Let me get this straight, his wife wants him to back down because he could never win against a woman while at the same time be more assertive. Something just doesn't click between those two things.

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26 Feb 2021, 7:51 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Screw revenge.

Revenge solves nothing and perpetuates a vicious cycle.


"An eye for an eye makes the whole world go blind." 8)



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26 Feb 2021, 7:58 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
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^ Exactly this.
"You must do it out of genuine free decision or you will be punished."

That's why she expects me to read her mind. If she tells me what to do it's mere obedience. She wants me to do it freely.

But I'm plotting a fiendish revenge on her :twisted:

Fiendish revenge? It does not feel like moving towards more healthy relationship.


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26 Feb 2021, 9:33 am

Retro the Avenger.



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26 Feb 2021, 9:35 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Screw revenge.  Revenge solves nothing and perpetuates a vicious cycle.
"Revenge is very good eaten cold." -- Eugène Sue, in Memoirs of Matilda (c1846)

"Revenge is a dish that tastes best when it is cold." -- Marlon Brando, as Don Corleone, in The Godfather (1972)

"Kirk, old friend, do you know the Klingon proverb, 'Revenge is a dish best served cold'?" -- Ricardo Montalban, as Khan Noonian Singh, in The Wrath of Khan (1982)


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26 Feb 2021, 12:31 pm

Call me if you need help burying the body.


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26 Feb 2021, 12:36 pm

What body?

There is no body.
If there was, it was not dead.
If it was, then I do not know who killed it.
If I do, then I do not remember how.
If I do, then I do not remember why.
If I do, then the body deserved to be killed.


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26 Feb 2021, 6:00 pm

Fnord wrote:
What body?

There is no body.
If there was, it was not dead.
If it was, then I do not know who killed it.
If I do, then I do not remember how.
If I do, then I do not remember why.
If I do, then the body deserved to be killed.

We think alike. A fellow criminal mind, eh?



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26 Feb 2021, 6:05 pm

Rexi wrote:
Call me if you need help burying the body.


Phew!
For a second there I thought you were going to say:
Call me if you need help to *eat* the body. 8O

Didn't someone say you were a wolf? :scratch: :mrgreen:



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26 Feb 2021, 6:08 pm

Rexi wrote:
Call me if you need help burying the body.


I expected that you would want to eat it.

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26 Feb 2021, 6:08 pm

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26 Feb 2021, 6:09 pm

Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Call me if you need help burying the body.


Phew!
For a second there I thought you were going to say:
Call me if you need help to *eat* the body. 8O

Didn't someone say you were a wolf? :scratch: :mrgreen:



WHAT!! We thought the same thing.



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26 Feb 2021, 6:13 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
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What body?

There is no body.
If there was, it was not dead.
If it was, then I do not know who killed it.
If I do, then I do not remember how.
If I do, then I do not remember why.
If I do, then the body deserved to be killed.
We think alike. A fellow criminal mind, eh?
No, just a big fan of movies like "The Godfather" and "Goodfellas".


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27 Feb 2021, 2:17 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Screw revenge.

Revenge solves nothing and perpetuates a vicious cycle.

It's too late! I have enacted my ultimate revenge!



BEHOLD!

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I got my old arcade machine back from the friend I leant it to years ago and stuck it in the living room! Now she has to look at it every day! [manic laughter]


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27 Feb 2021, 4:11 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Screw revenge.

Revenge solves nothing and perpetuates a vicious cycle.

It's too late! I have enacted my ultimate revenge!



BEHOLD!

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I got my old arcade machine back from the friend I leant it to years ago and stuck it in the living room! Now she has to look at it every day! [manic laughter]


LOL! never a dull moment having an autistic husband :lol: