do you find autistic girls attractive?

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hartzofspace says




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I've often wondered about the likelihood of success, in an Aspie to Aspie relationship. The few men that I've known or met, with AS, either irritated me or aroused my pity. I've yet to feel attracted. This is not to say it's impossible, just what I've experienced so far. I think I would require a mate to be more perceptive than I. I fancy that otherwise, there would be a multitude of opportunities to cause each other emotional pain.
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slam dunk.


One of the reasons I'll (likely) never go to a WP Meet Up.


So ladies is the above a exception or the rule, I can understand why many here attend a WP meet up in a another country and not in their own city. Something I'll look in to.

I'm not sure. I do not actively know any ASD females, though it's entirely possible I do passively. Disregarding physical attraction as that's not an attribute of an ASD anyway, there have been a couple of females I have been attracted to personality-wise and thinking back on it, of the very few there have been, most could have likely been on the spectrum. So, I suppose yes, I am attracted to women with an ASD, pretty much because their minds are much more likely to mesh with mine. Not always certainly, but more likely than an NT, that's for certain.

Hi ,you said:

either irritated me or aroused my pity.


I was super keen on meeting up a WPP especially so a lady, though now I am not so keen after reading your thoughts, I'd be to paranoid as I'd have these thoughts going on in my mind.



And yes WP ladies are attractive even the "ugly" ones " no games ,no BS, and I often have similar interests. to them.

Au revoir.

Oh cut and pasted this and I added the "lack confidence" to your thoughts as it was related to a "lack confidence" thread.

Understand now

aroused my pity.

Well if you knew my AS life story it would more than arouse your self pity! so bad it even shocked my GP who's been in medicine for over 40 years!

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself!

Nice, your words?

Hi Hartzofspace,



Don't want to go in to details at this moment, I've had shocking health related "lobe injury " problems ALL my life only diagnosed AS after a "mental" breakdown it's a health condition that few in the WP community would be familiar with and quite possibly may have, I have a disability pension buddy with "lobe injury problems" who's been on every med under the sun, from anti depressants to anti seizure meds, I told him I suspect you may have the same condition as I and he did, his about to get on the meds, (he gave me a nice big man hug) which was nice ,do you think some people here may be interested on my You Tube, I'd like to be able to help some one.

You Tube vid will be done in the near future.

I haven't met many Autistic girls in person, so I can't really say. I've met a few that look good in photos, but never met them offline since for some reason, the majority of them tend to live in other far-away states or areas.

The last time I accepted a friend request on facebook from an Autistic girl, I got like 25 wall posts a day asking me every possible question about my life, yet she would ignore any request as to why she wants to know this information, or any questions from me.

Might it restore your confidence, if I share that I am currently dating an Aspie, and it is going great?

Hell yeah.

Though I'm in little old Brisbane, apparently Melbourne is AS central, artsy, much higher population . May be that's why I felt so comfortable their ( 2 week holiday)


Oh and your opinions on the You Tube vid?

Salute.

Might it restore your confidence, if I share that I am currently dating an Aspie, and it is going great?

Hell yeah.

Though I'm in little old Brisbane, apparently Melbourne is AS central, artsy, much higher population . May be that's why I felt so comfortable their ( 2 week holiday)


Oh and your opinions on the You Tube vid?

Salute.

OK now you have me confused, you mean the link to my You Tube, if yes that will be made in the (near) future,I know it will help some one out here , with their health problems. as I said I was able to help my friend (disability buddy) with his "lobe injury problems" I think it's a fairly interesting story even my vegan pen pal /blog "buddies" think so, if only I can delver it in said way.

Sorry if I seem a little exited, 33 years of $#@T health and it's finally coming good.

Congrats on the AS/AS match up.

If she can shoot and clean my guns, totally.