What the HELL is wrong with girls?

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What about those of us who don't mind dancing, but are incapable of learning it? (And even if we can manage to mimick the moves right, we move so stiffly we get accused of having a corn cob stuck someplace painful.)

It's mathematical, an aspie guy would face the same troubles through online dating* as in the real life , he still has to initiate conversation, he still needs to be social (because he's going to meet her), he still needs a good social and financial status
BUT the only thing that differentiate it from traditional dating is that the number of males are from 3 to 4 times more than females, don't you believe me? Go to your dating site or to any dating site and set the search to "A man seeking women" and compare the number of results with "A woman seeking men".



Oh come on, is there a stupid girl enough who's ready to move to another country in order to date some stranger? Would you come to my country for example?

When I set 'Man seeking women" and set Lebanon as location I just usually get 5 to 15 profiles with photos maximum and about ~30 clueless profiles , the vast majority of them (about ~70%) are inactive and many others are much older than me or much younger. (Well our population is just 4 millions)

How can this be expendable?



It's ok for the dancing advice , I agree dancing is a natural mating ritual after all and girls (like the females of most species) love it (doh!), but you are giving false hope to guys when you keep telling them that online dating is the magical solution for them and that's not ok. Soooo, I am gonna keep opposing this recommendation .

You are absolutely right about the current state of dating sites. Living in a rural area in America, there are even fewer results returned than that. However, it was great advice 10 years ago and not bad advice even 5 years ago. But yeah, they've degenerated into a sausage fest. Still, it doesn't hurt to look. For aspies whose taste in women tends more toward the mainstream, they may still find someone interesting. For those looking for substance over style, you can still look but don't get your hopes up.



Probably not even back in the days when the dating sites didn't suck. However, they were much more willing to talk to and meet men from other areas back then, when pickings (for them) were slimmer in their own locale. I had quite a bit of luck with them back in the day, but I had to do a lot of driving.

Wow! Now I am really glad that I canceled with them. What a load of stuff! OTOH, this proves that we are from another planet. Imagine telling someone, in so many words, that they are too weird to find a match for.

Yep, that's the answer -- you can meet girls from out of town, but you have to travel.

But -- you can meet girls from out of town!

LPP, if you can cite where I called OL-D the "magic solution", I'll be really impressed. You've only convinced me that aspies won't have it easy meeting girls online; you haven't convinced me that's a good reason to eliminate that avenue entirely.

Practice, practice, practice!

WhateverDude, I used to be you. I thought the exact same thoughts and felt the exact same emotions. I even used to use phrases I read in your posts. I feel for you, brother, I really do. I wish I could help you into a better place, but sadly all I can do is write posts.

I am in a relationship now, at age 29. I used to think it would never happen to me. When it happened, it was a total fluke. Total fluke. A random meeting online with an older woman, older only by a few years. And with a daughter. But that is a long story, and not for here.

We're all pulling for ya.

What? You thought i would run away scared of you for calling me names? I think i'm beginning to like you. You make me laugh.

I have to say that's true It's a sweet and romance gesture (I love it, even though I'm not fond of touching - I just would like the music to be lower)

It's too broad to say what's wrong with all woman, as I was in a lovely relationship with a wonderful women, and even after we broke up, we're still friends. If anything I would say what is wrong with vain mainstream women? I mean do they value nothing more than the superficial aspects to life? The culture they've caught themselves into is a vicious trap of lifestyle, that is self-destructive and intended only to dumb down and demean the true capacity of women. In result, turning them into nothing more than physical shells for men to f*** (without them realizing it) and have a highly predictable personality if you're intelligent enough to see through the superficial nature. Those vain mainstream women have no idea what scam has been played on them by the media and entertainment industry, treating them like money-cows to help fuel the corporate profits in fashion, beauty, diet and plastic surgery industries, and is that is why they are the way they are. Personally such vain mainstream women are way too shallow and insecure-but-in-denial for my tastes, and frankly if I only had them to choose from, I'd rather stay single, because I would go insane listening to all that superficial garbage all day, every day.

Now that makes a lot of sense. Both your theories and your conclusion.

You live in Lebanon PetitePrince, Im not the least bit suprised that online dating isnt very useful in Your country but in mine(the USA)its popularity is increasing far beyond peoples expectations.

Might I add: I want to admonish Social_Fantom and Loveablenerd that IME it is just as misguided to idealize women and it is to villify them. Women are really just PEOPLE like men, they still want the same basic things they just have different incentives and different needs. But why do ALL women deserve love but not ALL men, eh? Who the hell says men dont just wanna be loved? We DO!

Find one name I've called you. ONE.



This isn't about you, or what you like or don't like. I'm still all too aware that you've chased your son away from his own thread, and I hope others aren't forgetting it either.

There's not much doubt in my mind that his biggest problem is you. Try looking in a mirror some day.

Once again, YOU....DO....NOT...UNDERSTAND.

Also, sorry, ignored the literalness problem; "name calling"=insulting. It's posted for all to see.

I never even insinuated it (this misunderstanding) is about what i or anyone else likes. Read it all.

Edit for clarity.

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Chased ME away? ME?!?!?
You think I'm scared of my MOM?
She's 5'5". I'm 6'3".
I'm f****n insulted.