Do you miss someone right now?

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My middle school para-ed assistant, Kim, who died on June 1st from breast cancer. I miss her......... she meant a lot to me!

I miss the man my soon to be ex was when I first met him. He was still an alcoholic, but a gentleman and considerate and could be trusted with who I am. So many choices of his own changed sweet Dr Jekyll into a Mr Hyde, and I lived with that in a guarded way for years before I just had to stop to preserve my Self. Because I may be devoted to a relationship...but my first devotion is to my own integrity and sanity. So I miss the good things about him, but eventually the bad outweighed the good too much and it wasn't up to me to do anything about that. We are both stubborn as mules and I can choose to change, but I will not make anyone my puppet. He has to choose change on his own, but that's for his own good. It won't fix us. My trust is too broken with him. I do miss being able to really trust somebody that way too. It's been awhile.

I miss my x partner of 16 yrs. It's been 6 months since we split up, I went to one of my only friends house's the other night and his wife just hugged me. I did not realise how much I missed that.
I need hugging !.

I miss someone, but don't know who.

I miss the girl I love but she loves an NT *********. Story of my life.

I miss the first guy I dated back in my junior year of high school. We were great friends and always found something to talk about. We just had some sort of connection I guess. Suddenly he stopped talking to me last January for no reason, and we haven't talked since. I've met a lot of guys, and even gone I dates since then, but I just don't feel the same connection with any of these guys as I did with him. I wish that I were able to find that kind of friendship again. I miss it so much, although it has been a long time. If only I could apologize for whatever I did to hurt him, but I'm sure he would avoid me if I even tried to talk to him.

Yes. I miss my younger brother Ted. He died a few years ago this time of year. The cool weather reminds me of him.

Two people, who I thought were friends of mine, neither knows the other and in the space of 3 months both just stopped speaking to me with no explanation whatsoever. It hurts so much every day. Why couldn't they have said what was wrong and given me a chance to put things right if I were in the wrong?

Obviously because neither saw anything about their friendships with me that they felt was worth saving.

I miss some people who were helping, but they didn't realize they were overwhelming me by helping without being asked to, and helping in ways I felt crossed personal boundaries. I set boundaries (but not unreasonable ones) and if they asked the right way they might be allowed back.
I too had a "real hug" from a friend the other day, because I was really upset. I could use more hugs too.

I am not good at missing people. I just don't understand the concept, unless I need them for something. And this probably sounds selfish, and if it does I am sorry, but I miss my friends when I am down and need to talk (as a tangible example), but that doesn't mean I like being overwhelmed with too much of anyone. I can on the other hand, "really" miss someone I am involved romantically with, if they prove to be distant and sporadic with their contact. But too much, is also a turn off. Do I sound like a guy? Lol.

Every fricken day no matter how hurt I am I miss him. Stupid not being able to let go

I'm inattentive ADHD and my friend is a high functioning autist. We met in elementary school many years ago. We were both very shy but connected by our own respective uniqueness. We were friends, although we did not socialize outside of school. I was very chatty with him and from the beginning was smitten with him. He is very intelligent and I admired his interests in science and space.

Our paths crossed online this year after many years of living life. We have become very good and trusting friends again. We have even expressed our feelings from the past. Turns out in many ways it was mutual. I had just been diagnosed with ADD and only this year found out he was autistic.

Because we live so far apart, it seems impossible to have a "normal" romance. He has expressed frustration in the difficulty of dating NTs in his area in spite of that face that he is a very attractive, successful, intelligent, accomplished person. I have recommended this site for him as I believe he could derive at least some kinship in this quest for love.

I look forward to our future long term friendship as I have always cherished him and I have a rare trust in him.

But tonight, I am missing him deeply.

Yes, I miss Petr, my something like ex-boyfriend. Er... I dunno if he was a boyfriend in the classical sense of the word, maybe he was, well, we were on four or five dates. Then I lost my job, had to leave my apartment and moved back to my parents. Not very happy about this, but what can one do? We still mail each other twice/three times a month, but it´s a very odd reationship. Like if I was Amy and he was Sheldon. That kind of a relationship. But I miss him. Sorry, I could not have been briefer.

Yes - but not for long...

Yeah..

I have dated a lot in my time, but none of my relationships were substantial or held my interest for more than a month or two. My first "successful" relationship started falling apart this time last year. I am constantly reminded of the events that transpired on a daily basis one year ago, which leads my mind down the path of our breaking up all too often. She was the first person I had ever experienced tangible "love" for, but my being an undiagnosed Aspie (and not understanding the reasons behind my actions) drove her away. I don't blame her, really. Only because I recognize how my actions were perceived. Meh.

Even though she treated me like dirt towards the end and it defies all logic that I can surmise, I still miss her.

i miss more than one person.
main one i havent seen in ages and probably will never see again.
she didn't like me so i defriend her many years ago, sadly
it's sad how some people are bound to feel things deeply and others don't even care..