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Is sex only for two people who love each other?
Yes and I am a man. 16%  16%  [ 15 ]
No and I am a man. 43%  43%  [ 40 ]
Yes and I am a woman. 14%  14%  [ 13 ]
No and I am a woman. 28%  28%  [ 26 ]
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Craig28
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12 Sep 2010, 3:48 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Craig's mother procuring sex for him. That is disturbing to me.


Edited your quote, and this is what I got defensive about. If you were in my shoes, you'd know how humiliated I was having to be a 26 year old who got laid for the first time. At 28, I still can't get it right. The damage is done.



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12 Sep 2010, 4:05 pm

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the unlikelihood of a mother asking that question on this forum


It is not as unlikely as you might imagine.


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12 Sep 2010, 4:18 pm

Craig28 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Craig's mother procuring sex for him. That is disturbing to me.


Edited your quote, and this is what I got defensive about. If you were in my shoes, you'd know how humiliated I was having to be a 26 year old who got laid for the first time. At 28, I still can't get it right. The damage is done.
i used the name from the original post. how about you reread it please. it says:

JohnisBlind wrote:
i am the mother of craig who is 28 and has high functioning aspergers, he wants to experience sex but im not sure how to go about this for him, any ideas.


i didn't post any names that were not in the original posting... anyway, how would i know it was you? is craig your real name, even? you called yourself out. i was just quoting the name from JohnisBlind. if you didn't want people discussing this, you should have taken action several pages back.


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20 Sep 2010, 2:21 am

As an asexual, I never really got the sex = love, love = sex.

As someone who over analyzes as a way of being,
I also can't understand any sort of moral problem with something that harms no one.


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20 Sep 2010, 8:59 pm

Before marriage, sex was training for the real thing.

Now that I'm married, my husband benefits from my being a quick study.

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