I don't want to date poor people

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The_Face_of_Boo
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14 Mar 2011, 9:52 am

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emlion wrote:

boo - i don't get it? are you mocking me, or?

....

:shy:

now i'm more confused.
whatever.
it'd take too much of my ditzy blonde brain power to figure it out.

http://www.donself.com/images/confused-baby.bmp

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14 Mar 2011, 9:53 am

you think here of all places people would say what they mean.
i get sick of all that BS in real life.
i'm out of this thread.

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14 Mar 2011, 9:55 am

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you think here of all places people would say what they mean.
i get sick of all that BS in real life.
i'm out of this thread.

lol I was just over-saluting you for a true statement you said , it wasn't mocking.

I just felt like to tease you a bit

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14 Mar 2011, 12:39 pm

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Almost non of it is true. It's having Aspergers that keeps us single! Not being unemployed or living with your parents! In the UK millions of people are unemployed and about 40% of men (and alot of women too) in the their twenties live with their parents. Are they all single? I know for a fact they aren't and it's just not factual to claim otherwise

Living with parents is the norm where I live , but the west is becoming like the mid-east in that regard due to the sh***y world economy and the skyrocketing estate prices lol :p , it was always the case here because our economy was always ...sh***y. Welcome to the third-world.

I am not sure how your 40% number is accurate, hell, if that was true the UK people would revolt worse than the Egyptians.

Look, people subconsciously valuate other people on a "+" and "-" rating for each trait. The important of each trait may be perceived differently between one individual and another but there's a general trend.

For example, almost everyone prefer good looks , so it's a + for most of the girls.

For example , a girl who's too into looks might give about +10 for the good-looks trait in a guy , while another would just give it a +1 or 0 , very rare those who would give a minus for it.

Living with parents and being unemployed are usually big minuses , but they may have big + such as confidence , hobbies, adventurous personality to compensate them.

if you're an aspie then you're likely to be socially inept and lack social skills, those are big minuses.

Your whining is a big fat minus for every female organism crawling or walking or swimming on this planet , but I wouldn't count it since I doubt you would whine like this in real life, if you do then this is a disastrous minus , like about -100 in average.

To simplify things, I like to categorize those + and - in two main categories : The Security value and the Entertainment value. A female WP blogger used those two terms for valuating guys and I found them very true.

Things like hobbies, interesting personality , good looks increase the entertainment value , while things like income , car , house increase the security value. If you lack the security value then you need to increase the entertainment value and vice versa , I estimate that most aspies lack in the latter.

ie.
to a random hypothetical woman:

jamieboy's overall value:

Entertainment value:

Personality type : whiner and defeatist -100
no outdoor hobby : -10
no car: -10
no sex experience : -10
no humor : -20

total: -150

Security value:

no job: -50
degree: +20
living with parent/no apartment: -50
no car (yes, they often fall in both categories): -10

total: -90

overall total: -240 Failure.

Well, that's my perception anyways, if you have any positive traits, say them.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/82892 ... hings.html

"More than half the 22- to 24-year-old men in Britain, and a quarter of women, still live with their parents"

I also don't appreciate your "points system". Not only is it unpleasant and horribly personal. At least half your indicators are marked wrong due to you, well ,knowing absolutely f**k all about me as a human being.

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14 Mar 2011, 1:35 pm

Jamieboy

Not bad looking
socialist
feminist
encyclopaedic knowledge of music
Intelligent
Able to argue things logically (For example understanding the obvious truth that when millions of people are unemployed and live at home. They cant all be single)
Doesn't cruise the Love and dating forum looking for people whom he perceives as weaker than himself in order to humiliate them as a form of self -congratulation
Kind hearted and sweet natured
Doesn't judge people by their material wealth, personal achievements, their car ownership potential or anything else that's totally unimportant in the grand scheme of the universe.
Has a strong knowlege of self and sticks to his guns even when the whole world is telling him he should be something, or do something that's opposed to his core beliefs
Been through some horrible s**t including three years of schizophrenia- and survived intact and stronger than ever
A strong knowledge of Political systems and how they operate and could (and should) be changed for the better.
Huge penis.

I know theres more but i'll get back to them. :lol:

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14 Mar 2011, 1:38 pm

I am....speechless.

Just get rid of the whining and you're fine....probably.

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14 Mar 2011, 1:49 pm

Do you brusquely and matter of factly insult people like this is real life? That might be something to work on, if so.

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14 Mar 2011, 2:03 pm

My last comment was a compliment in fact.

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Just get rid of the whining and you're fine....probably.

Explanation : If you really have those positive traits as you claim then you're good ,most of those are ++ , in case you whine in real life you just have to get rid of this negative trait asap but if you only do this on WP then.....oh well....then it hurts little , they'd be just words on a soon- to-be-forgotten thread.

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14 Mar 2011, 2:06 pm

I dont even live in IRL mate. I maybe interact with a stranger once or twice a year, if that. That's my main problem. Aspergers, depression and anxiety are my problems. Not my character or it's traits.

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14 Mar 2011, 2:07 pm

You can't put it all down to them though. Plenty of people have AS, depression and anxiety and manage ok

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14 Mar 2011, 2:11 pm

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You can't put it all down to them though. Plenty of people have AS, depression and anxiety and manage ok

They're not all total recluses like me though. It's my way of coping and the only way i know of coping.

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14 Mar 2011, 2:14 pm

jamieboy wrote:

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You can't put it all down to them though. Plenty of people have AS, depression and anxiety and manage ok

They're not all total recluses like me though. It's my way of coping and the only way i know of coping.

So then your problem isn't AS - it's the fact that you only know how to cope by isolating yourself, isn't it?

Maybe you could find other ways to deal with it

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14 Mar 2011, 2:20 pm

I'm taking some small steps to interact with the world. Like going to AS meetings. Even that's difficult for me though because i need to sleep all the time. I cant get to sleep till 7 or 9 am some nights and my meeting this week is at 11 am

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14 Mar 2011, 2:23 pm

Great how threads like this remind me that dating is so often just organized prostitution.

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14 Mar 2011, 2:31 pm

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Ahhh ....a such lifestyle , whether it is chosen or a consequence, is always killer of any chance, regardless how many good traits you might have.

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14 Mar 2011, 2:49 pm

I absolutely can't date poor people, no can do.

Of course, my definition of poverty is ignorance, and my idea of wealth is knowledge. Having said that, all relationships are give and take, so if someone can't give me anything, then I can't be with them. It all depends on who you are and what you want, and if the other person can give you that.

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