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28 Jan 2012, 1:37 am

6 packs are nice but I much prefer my keg.


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28 Jan 2012, 3:05 am

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Many of the women who say they do not like muscular guys are lying. I don't know how many women I have heard say that (usually total BS) and then the same women stare drooling at some buff guy with his shirt off (the athlete/toned type, usually 6-packed, not the Arnold-type). There are even few studies show that muscular guys are more likely to have sexual partners, something that makes sense for my observations.


Maybe many just don't like the sort of personality that usually accompanies that sort of physique but they like to look at it nevertheless.


I can honestly say I don't like 6 packs. I have dated quite a few professional and B grade professional sportsmen in my time. When I was younger I did give into peer expectations and dated people who were stereotypically attractive even though it wasn't my prefered body type. A sports promotions model dating a larger man attracks lots of attention. I am confident now in expressing what I personally prefer in regards to body type and I prefer large men. My current boyfriend is over 300 pounds and I love his sexy body.


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28 Jan 2012, 3:22 am

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it doesn't explain why women in heavy makeup get so much attention at a party (or in the media) for example. they aren't necessarily women that men would want to date, but they get attention.


Because makeup simply attracts attention. Just like flashy clothing does, or flashy paint or chromey bits on a car attract attention. It screams "GIVE ME ATTENTION" and most people oblige and give it. Also, wearing makeup in general would show that you are actively seeking someone, when women get married, they almost immediately tone down on the makeup, simply because they're no longer in dating mode, their husbands no longer need to see them in makeup, as their husband now sees them at their worst. That's why when people get married they get all old and fat and ugly, they're stuck with eachother and don't care anymore. All makeup does really is go give you a sign that says "Hey, hit on me!" But that, I believe is what it comes down to. "Taken" girls don't wear makeup, as they don't need to impress people in public, but girls looking for a mate still wear makeup to attract mates.

I guess that's my perspective as a guy, and the little observational capacity I as a guy have.



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28 Jan 2012, 3:24 am

Solvejg wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Many of the women who say they do not like muscular guys are lying. I don't know how many women I have heard say that (usually total BS) and then the same women stare drooling at some buff guy with his shirt off (the athlete/toned type, usually 6-packed, not the Arnold-type). There are even few studies show that muscular guys are more likely to have sexual partners, something that makes sense for my observations.


Maybe many just don't like the sort of personality that usually accompanies that sort of physique but they like to look at it nevertheless.


I can honestly say I don't like 6 packs. I have dated quite a few professional and B grade professional sportsmen in my time. When I was younger I did give into peer expectations and dated people who were stereotypically attractive even though it wasn't my prefered body type. A sports promotions model dating a larger man attracks lots of attention. I am confident now in expressing what I personally prefer in regards to body type and I prefer large men. My current boyfriend is over 300 pounds and I love his sexy body.


I've been told a lot more girls than one would think are like that.


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28 Jan 2012, 11:08 am

1000Knives wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
it doesn't explain why women in heavy makeup get so much attention at a party (or in the media) for example. they aren't necessarily women that men would want to date, but they get attention.


Because makeup simply attracts attention. Just like flashy clothing does, or flashy paint or chromey bits on a car attract attention. It screams "GIVE ME ATTENTION" and most people oblige and give it. Also, wearing makeup in general would show that you are actively seeking someone, when women get married, they almost immediately tone down on the makeup, simply because they're no longer in dating mode, their husbands no longer need to see them in makeup, as their husband now sees them at their worst. That's why when people get married they get all old and fat and ugly, they're stuck with eachother and don't care anymore. All makeup does really is go give you a sign that says "Hey, hit on me!" But that, I believe is what it comes down to. "Taken" girls don't wear makeup, as they don't need to impress people in public, but girls looking for a mate still wear makeup to attract mates.

I guess that's my perspective as a guy, and the little observational capacity I as a guy have.

fair enough, and it fits perfectly with the comparison to 6-pack abs.


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28 Jan 2012, 11:11 am

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fair enough, and it fits perfectly with the comparison to 6-pack abs.

I agree with his description. Sadly makeup is easier to show off than a 6pack



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28 Jan 2012, 11:17 am

MXH wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
fair enough, and it fits perfectly with the comparison to 6-pack abs.

I agree with his description. Sadly makeup is easier to show off than a 6pack

hahaha true. though i've seen plenty of men life their shirts to show it off on FB or in bars


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28 Jan 2012, 11:20 am

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hyperlexian wrote:
fair enough, and it fits perfectly with the comparison to 6-pack abs.

I agree with his description. Sadly makeup is easier to show off than a 6pack

hahaha true. though i've seen plenty of men life their shirts to show it off on FB or in bars


But you can only do that when you already have attention to yourself. Cant go around flashing people



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28 Jan 2012, 11:24 am

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hyperlexian wrote:
fair enough, and it fits perfectly with the comparison to 6-pack abs.

I agree with his description. Sadly makeup is easier to show off than a 6pack

hahaha true. though i've seen plenty of men life their shirts to show it off on FB or in bars


But you can only do that when you already have attention to yourself. Cant go around flashing people

:lol: please do


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28 Jan 2012, 11:26 am

I have better things to show off than just abs.



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28 Jan 2012, 11:28 am

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I have better things to show off than just abs.

:D heeheehee


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28 Jan 2012, 11:38 am

hyperlexian wrote:
MXH wrote:
I have better things to show off than just abs.

:D heeheehee

I feel like im showing off now.



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28 Jan 2012, 11:44 am

Let me show off my chest's hair.



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28 Jan 2012, 11:47 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Let me show off my chest's hair.

only hair on my torso is a happy trail :(



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28 Jan 2012, 11:47 am

Hairless European...



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28 Jan 2012, 11:49 am

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Hairless European...

im not european though