11 Oct 2012, 12:23 am
DerStadtschutz wrote:
11 Oct 2012, 12:24 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:24 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:25 am
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Hyperlexian doesn't seem to have been about lately - she'd be on this thread like a heat-seeking missile! 
you have insulted me many times we are both likely to get infractions..well mxh too.I said you were ok if you didn't speak
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11 Oct 2012, 12:25 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:25 am
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
Your comments just don't make any sense to me
I think they are nice photos of a loving couple
11 Oct 2012, 12:26 am
nessa238 wrote:
I have some kind off flaw in my personality such that I prefer arguments to just getting along
Being all matey and nice doesn't really do it for me
Don't get me wrong here, I can be somewhat of a dick and enjoy it at times too, but most of the time I try not to because I live by the philosophy that we should all treat each other how we wish to be treated. I only dish it out when I feel it's been called for. Even then, sometimes it's just not worth it to me. Not like the world's anywhere near perfect now, but it can only be a sh***y place if we never let things go and always treat each other like s**t, ya know? Even if it seems justified at the time, maybe there's a reason beyond his control that makes him act this way. Maybe he's been conditioned by his parents or other people around him. We honestly don't know who he is, even though he doesn't come off as very nice here. He may have just been unfortunate, and I'd rather try helping him, at least initially, than just bragging that I can get laid. In fact, scratch that, I will never brag about getting laid because it's not some big accomplishment to me.
I'm not saying his behavior is justified either. I'm just saying, maybe he's developed his attitude as a defensive shell; a way to keep people out so that they never get close enough to hurt him anymore because they have in the past. The only way to change that is to prove to him that the shell isn't required. Kill 'em with kindness, if you will.
11 Oct 2012, 12:27 am
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
Your comments just don't make any sense to me
I think they are nice photos of a loving couple
11 Oct 2012, 12:28 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:28 am
DerStadtschutz wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I have some kind off flaw in my personality such that I prefer arguments to just getting along
Being all matey and nice doesn't really do it for me
Don't get me wrong here, I can be somewhat of a dick and enjoy it at times too, but most of the time I try not to because I live by the philosophy that we should all treat each other how we wish to be treated. I only dish it out when I feel it's been called for. Even then, sometimes it's just not worth it to me. Not like the world's anywhere near perfect now, but it can only be a sh***y place if we never let things go and always treat each other like sh**, ya know? Even if it seems justified at the time, maybe there's a reason beyond his control that makes him act this way. Maybe he's been conditioned by his parents or other people around him. We honestly don't know who he is, even though he doesn't come off as very nice here. He may have just been unfortunate, and I'd rather try helping him, at least initially, than just bragging that I can get laid. In fact, scratch that, I will never brag about getting laid because it's not some big accomplishment to me.
I'm not saying his behavior is justified either. I'm just saying, maybe he's developed his attitude as a defensive shell; a way to keep people out so that they never get close enough to hurt him anymore because they have in the past. The only way to change that is to prove to him that the shell isn't required. Kill 'em with kindness, if you will.
A very good philosophy - one I try to use sometimes
I just get fed up of being overlooked when I post neutral/informative stuff - being more insulting at least gets a reply whereas my posts are often ignored otherwise
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11 Oct 2012, 12:29 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:29 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:29 am
nessa238 wrote:
I wasn't insulting you, I was saying I resent the way forums are biased towards a particular type of dialogue. Heated debate is always frowned on and I think that's unfair as some of the most interesting stuff comes out when things get heated in my opinion
Otherwise it's people just trying to suck up to each other and being cliquey in a way that puts me off
People do not want intelligence on here, they seem to want some intangible quality I can't put a name to
Otherwise it's people just trying to suck up to each other and being cliquey in a way that puts me off
People do not want intelligence on here, they seem to want some intangible quality I can't put a name to
I can agree with that... there is a certain mindset that's "acceptable" and "not" - which is funny since this is the biggest thing Aspies are supposed to LACK!!
Any deviation from what most people seem to want is met with extreme hostility, especially from ringleaders for certain causes. There'll be a few champions for each cause... pro/anti-gay stuff, pro/anti-abortion, pro/anti-religion... some of them are very vocal and very nearly run the place.
It is what it is... life isn't fair to everyone and it never will be. Opinions are like a$$#01#$, everyone has 'em and they usually stink.
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11 Oct 2012, 12:30 am
11 Oct 2012, 12:31 am
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
Your comments just don't make any sense to me
I think they are nice photos of a loving couple
You moan about being insulted but you like dishing it out don't you?
I dread to think what you'd be saying about your psychology clients behind their backs!
11 Oct 2012, 12:31 am
