do you find autistic girls attractive?

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21 Nov 2009, 7:10 pm

The thought of meeting a WP lady kinda frightens me how would I behave?

May be it would be all right 2 frightened people may put everyones mind at ease :D



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21 Nov 2009, 7:12 pm

My girlfriend is autistic and she is really attractive, im just lucky to have her, but havent seeing her for a while its harder.


She's lucky to have you to, congrats.



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22 Nov 2009, 10:51 pm

i hvnt met any girls who hav it. if they were cute and not socially awkward then they would prolly b understanding. if i was able to relate to them then i would take her in a heartbeat



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22 Nov 2009, 10:54 pm

Looks are not part of the diagnosing criteria so I guess this is a trick question.


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22 Nov 2009, 11:21 pm

Yell Yes!

And I do think many of the female posters here are really cute, based on their avatars. :D


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23 Nov 2009, 6:08 pm

either irritated me or aroused my pity.



Hi are you sure it wasn't a one way street. :)

And whats wrong with being around irritating and pitiful people these are often the nicest people. :wink:


I'm staring to lose all faith in NT"s I frequent vegan blogs and their meant to be "nice" people and sometimes I see them turn on each other over the most of trivial of things than I think WTF?



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03 May 2010, 7:14 am

FordMan wrote:
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never met one. I would love to date an autistic woman.
Ditto, at least then I wouldn't be dealing with the same misunderstandings I deal with with the mother of my son, but that's a whole other thread that probably already exists on here, lol


Well now, after nearly 11 years and one Autistic child later you're free of the constraints this NT put on you (ie., please don't have affairs, don't hit me when I'm pregnant or at all), go and find your dream ASD girl although I think we both know that you've already been out with a couple and they too didn't like the way you treated them.

No offence to anyone here, maybe a warning though.



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03 May 2010, 12:58 pm

ABSOLUTELY!! !! !



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03 May 2010, 1:20 pm

Jamyle wrote:
FordMan wrote:
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never met one. I would love to date an autistic woman.
Ditto, at least then I wouldn't be dealing with the same misunderstandings I deal with with the mother of my son, but that's a whole other thread that probably already exists on here, lol


Well now, after nearly 11 years and one Autistic child later you're free of the constraints this NT put on you (ie., please don't have affairs, don't hit me when I'm pregnant or at all), go and find your dream ASD girl although I think we both know that you've already been out with a couple and they too didn't like the way you treated them.

No offence to anyone here, maybe a warning though.

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03 May 2010, 1:29 pm

There's one I definitely do.


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03 May 2010, 1:51 pm

I don't know; I haven't met all the autistic girls.



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03 May 2010, 3:11 pm

Unequivocally Yes. I am starting to realize that I am naturally wired to be drawn to women who are on (or just off) the spectrum. I do not believe that this is a conscious decision, as it happens even when I am initially unaware of the other's spectrum traits.

Also, I tend to find almost everything attractive about spectrum women - their body language/how they move, how they talk, their facial expressions (or lack thereof), the fact that they genuinely want/are able to communicate directly, I think that it is cute and endearing when they take things literally, etc...



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03 May 2010, 4:51 pm

Kaysea wrote:
Unequivocally Yes. I am starting to realize that I am naturally wired to be drawn to women who are on (or just off) the spectrum. I do not believe that this is a conscious decision, as it happens even when I am initially unaware of the other's spectrum traits.

Also, I tend to find almost everything attractive about spectrum women - their body language/how they move, how they talk, their facial expressions (or lack thereof), the fact that they genuinely want/are able to communicate directly, I think that it is cute and endearing when they take things literally, etc...
I agree. But even if it is the case that spectrum women are more appealing to me than the stereotypic neurotypical, I gather it has more to do with my primitive instincts which, no matter how logically you are able to deduce things, always seem to overpower my educated truths about equality between the sexes. Though I believe in a form of equality between our genders, I think it's best described as balanced, rather than equal. We both have different abilities and disabilities. That said, one of my theories about why I am attracted to socially awkward women (or in fact shy, innocent women), is because of an primordial preprogramming to protect them from dangerous animals and nasty competitors.


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03 May 2010, 4:57 pm

Kaysea wrote:
the fact that they genuinely want/are able to communicate directly, I think that it is cute and endearing when they take things literally, etc...


I love those things too.


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03 May 2010, 7:34 pm

Meh, i don't exactly see much physical difference from any other females. =/ Besides, i don't really have any favorites atm.



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03 May 2010, 7:49 pm

windscar15 wrote:
Be honest, guys.

I'm not saying there are no attractive autistic girls. There are certainly a lot of them that have great looks and great personalities.


Wait a minute.. look at the first part you wrote, and then the second part. Are you trying to convince me that just because a woman with AS who has great looks and great personality is NOT attractive? You might want to reconsider what you just said. By what definition do you use to determine what an attractive autistic girl is? You might consider reflecting on how you define the word "attractive."

Edit... never mind. I forgot about the "not" after I'm.. that's on me.


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