Kaysea wrote:
Unequivocally Yes. I am starting to realize that I am naturally wired to be drawn to women who are on (or just off) the spectrum. I do not believe that this is a conscious decision, as it happens even when I am initially unaware of the other's spectrum traits.
Also, I tend to find almost everything attractive about spectrum women - their body language/how they move, how they talk, their facial expressions (or lack thereof), the fact that they genuinely want/are able to communicate directly, I think that it is cute and endearing when they take things literally, etc...
I agree. But even if it
is the case that spectrum women are more appealing to me than the stereotypic neurotypical, I gather it has more to do with my primitive instincts which, no matter how logically you are able to deduce things, always seem to overpower my educated truths about equality between the sexes. Though I believe in a form of equality between our genders, I think it's best described as balanced, rather than equal. We both have different abilities and disabilities. That said, one of my theories about why I am attracted to socially awkward women (or in fact shy, innocent women), is because of an primordial preprogramming to protect them from dangerous animals and nasty competitors.
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