Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Male
23
Florida but not stuck here necessarily
Bisexual
Not significantly overweight but not in shape at all
Very passive, secular, vegetarian but don't have to date another
Dependant, want someone to escape with
Have NVLD and used to be paranoid but it's just turned into exhaustion
Very quiet, don't talk much in groups
Really nice but cynical

Interested in language, archery, video games/anime, haven't really focused on anything for awhile.

Looking for someone similar, diagnosis or interests aren't as important.

edit: n/m

I suppose it can't hurt to try this so here goes!

Female, early forties, seeking male companion - 35+, from the UK, maybe the Midlands area.

I am: kind, honest, loyal, caring, sensitive.

These are among some of the qualities that I like in a man.

My interests are: music, tv, reading, dolphins, cats, cycling, cooking.

I don't know what else to say.

Please pm me to find out more!

I'd really appreciate it.

Sex:Male
Age:21
Location:Ilion NY
Physical description:Average height, round but not obese, glasses, short brown hair.
Interests:Film, Anime, Literature, History, Politics, Pro Wrestling, Roleplaying, Writing
Sexual Orientation:Bisexual with preference for female

Hey, I'm Charl 23 from the UK

I'm looking for a polite gentleman, unlike you think alot of girls dislike nice guys well i do like nice guys, i also like mysterious intense but warm hearted ones but still in a gentleman fashion, i like black hair as i think this shows inner strength and i like small slim young guys and taller more mature strange guys i know thats a bit of a daft contrast lol, i also like eyes that look deeper. Well get past looks because i'm not shallow but if i'm not attracted to someone i don't want to waste there time.

Anyway getting past that i am unpredicatable so i don't mind if you have a unpredicatable personality though in the long run relationship stability counts for alot because i don't need to be messed around, if you are that type i will have already sussed you out and don't worry i have AS too so we can help each other overcome problems.

I'm loving romantic warm hearted and sensitive i'm so sweet caring and considerate, like alot of AS girls i can get obsessive in love but i don't like to be walked all over because even through i can seam fragile i believe i have a inner strength i did a art degree and i have a beautiful vision i do tend to over induldge in magical thinking, don't worry whatever obstacles you have in getting a e-mail to me from this message... i am understanding enough to look past them. I'm arkward and find it hard to feel comfortable in society, i get picked on and people are not usually nice to me because i'm a bit odd this just makes me want to be nicer.

I am also looking for someone i connect with in either a unusual way or if we share similar interlect or sense of humour, i'd love someone i can have a laugh with, engage in deep meaningful conversations and also be attracted to on all levels.

My degree is in technichal arts and special FX, i'm not a sci-fi geek i'm more of a romantic sculptor, i'm also into psychology, poetry, i love alot of different kinds of music and dancing, i love reading about planets and the universe and i see shapes in peoples faces, i also am a buddhist and i sense peoples auras i am trying to unleash my psychic intuition abilities and find out more on this matter, i really like the idea of visiting America. I love all things bohemian, i'm a freesprit at heart

Okay tell me about you if you reply to this, i'm intrested in your intrests...

As for love i usually don't tell people i like them which results in heartbreak, i don't have alot of hope, i don't even look for someone, i'm the lonley lady drinking coffee in the window of a french restraunt lol.

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OK! Here goes! I've never been in a romantic relationship before, but if someone is just as confused about interpersonal relationships as i am it might work out.

Sex: Female, but dress in male clothing and have short hair. Have some gender issues, i think. Depending on how i'm dressed, i've been called "he" and "sir" before(mostly by old people with bad eyesight).. which i don't mind at all. My voice is a dead giveaway that i'm female, though.
Orientation: I'm attracted to women.
Location: New Bern, NC
Diagnoses(all official): Asperger's, Inattentive ADHD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder(GAD), Depressive Disorder-NOS
Age: 22
Body Type: about 5'5", overweight
Interests and Likes: REPTILES, animals in general, evolution, ASDs, rollercoasters, 80s Goth Rock, video games, watching comedy
School: Highest level has been some college classes at the local community college, and i plan to take more. Despite being pretty smart i'm not very good at school due to organizational issues and such.
Job: Working part-time at Wal-Mart in the electronics department.
Pets: Boa Constrictor, Reticulated Python, Ball Python, Corn Snake, Argentine Black and White Tegu, two Leopard Geckos, two Tarantulas, three dogs, a cat.
Personality and stuff: I think people who know me think i'm nice. I try to be nice and helpful to people, but i, apparently, "lack empathy," so it doesn't always work out.. ha. You have to be very clear with me to get me to understand what you want from me. A lot of the time i'm quiet and oblivious to social stuff going on around me, but i'm also accused of being argumentative and i will speak up if i have an opinion or there's a topic i like. I think i have a tendency to correct people on details if they're talking about something i'm interested in.. And, if i don't know what else to talk about, i tend to bring up an interest and sometimes go into monologue-mode. I'm also not usually very emotionally expressive.. So, typical Aspie in a lot of ways. I can put up with crowds to an extent, though... In fact, one of my favorite things is going to amusement parks. As long as i have a little space and people i don't know aren't bothering me i'm fine for awhile.. Plus, i usually put up with customers at work just fine since it's mainly answering questions and i don't have to have skills in socializing. I don't like for people to unexpectedly touch me or bump into me, though. I can be very absent-minded a lot of the time, and when i'm thinking about something else i'll forget to do things often. For example, i've locked my keys in my car MANY times. I'm very obsessive and focus on details, problem is that it's usually not the "right" thing i should be focusing on at the time! That's all i can really think of right now.

^ Well perhaps I can answer that then.

You need to upload your photo to a photo storage site like photobucket and then link the image to here.


And BTW ladies, I am still available.

any older guys on here? 37-42? f,39-looks and has interests that are younger. Socially awkward in big groups esp. Interests in layman science, rollerblading, reading, some corny music...

While online dating makes me nervous (dad had terrible luck with it) I guess there's no harm in posting here.

I'm a female aspie that's 2 weeks shy of 21. I'm a professional writing major and a literature minor at a state school. I like renaissance faires (I dress up, use fake cockney accents and all), anime, and bead jewelry for fun. ^_^

hm. i've been alone for 3 years. i'm not even sure i know how to do this anymore.

39year old aspie divorced father of 3. i work as a programmer/tech guy. currently living in WV. my kids are living with their mother back in NY(she has custody)

like (er, particular topic obsessions of:) computers, history, politics, philosophy. D&D player. spend my free time on IRC helping people learn to code, and on facebook and working as a moderator for a self-injury support messageboard.

I hope there's no harm in giving this another shot! I met someone really nice through this thread some time ago, but he's clearly moved on and I should try the same.

The picture to the left is me. 27 years old, 5'4" and about 122 lbs.

I work in social services and am very passionate about what I do. I love to cook, hike, spend time outdoors and read. I also like to write and am considering starting work on an autobiography. I have a lot of things in my life to be thankful for and would like to have someone to share it with. I'm looking to meet someone who's sincere and grounded.

I don't mind doing a little driving to see someone I care about and am willing to compromise, but am looking for someone living close enough to Lancaster, PA to make seeing each other a reasonable day trip, so we could at least spend time together over weekends. Looks and tons of money aren't important, but character, personality and stability are! If you have kids or addiction problems, those aren't things I'll be able to handle.

If you think we might get along and would like to get to know each other better, let me know. Even if it doesn't work out, we might at least become friends!