Do you feel unattractive?

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Have you tried growing facial hair? That makes me look older

I feel exasperated. I am not what I look like. I am a disappointment to people who get to know me. I am too deep and very low maintenance and not enough of some things I am a supposed to be. I hate going through that process of attraction then disappointment that always happens. So mentally I do feel unnactractive. Plus I am a firecracker sometimes...I get over it, but I do have my meltdowns.

What if you love women (as in females with class and a nice personality) but [comment removed by lau].

Well many of them are like that in their 20's I like to think they mature and grow up by the time their in the 30's.

! I don't know [comment removed by lau] you explain to an NT woman that you've gone through an 8 year mental breakdown yes you read correctly 8 [comment removed by lau] years!! (sad and horrific story) anyways since I'm nearly recovered I'm now investigating my education options.

2. Your a 33 year old virgin.

3. You have your mother living with you in the house that you own (just like Seymour Skinner on the Simpsons!

I'm glad I'm borderline asexual so it's not to much of a concern either way.

You'll get their in the end I can assure you. No need to stress about it.

Last edited by aussiebloke on 13 Jan 2010, 9:07 pm, edited 2 times in total.

to me - women who care more about [comment removed by lau] and bank balance - and do not care about the guy himself - to me qualify as [comment removed by lau].

And they get what they deserve.....

I think I look unattractive, I always do. I don't care much anymore if I look attractive. I probably looked best at around 14 years of age.

People honestly tell me I'm really attractive, but I feel average at best.

Have you tried growing facial hair? That makes me look older.

It does, you look your age , with out ? 16/17 ??

Yes all the time. Mostly coz of my face though.

I do not see myself as being attractive in the slightest, physically or personality-wise. My parents and their friends always tell me I'm beautiful but I suspect it's just them being polite, because nobody has ever expressed any remote interest in me.

I was smoking hot in high school (looking back at the pictures) and nobody'd touch me with a ten foot pole. Nor was any interest expressed during college towards me, before I started getting heavy. It's very possible that you at least have a reasonably decent physical apperance that won't count for beans if you have quirks that make people hesitant to consider.

When im overweight, YES

When Im underweight I look skeletal, Its embarrising.

I am getting older, and cigarettes are taking their toll, Im not ugly yet and apparently I still look attractive on my better days. I'm sure being married with children doesn't hurt the good mate appearance either.

That's just weird. I can imagine women ignoring men for their quirkiness and I've experienced this myself quite often, but boys ignoring a "smoking hot" girl in high school seems hard to fanthom. Weren't there at least a handful of guys who tried to get you in bed just for your looks?!? I mean.... men will stay men after all

Not that I would have done such a thing, but I know my fellow man

I always went for the hot quirky girls. And they went for me. Thats how I met my wife.

I've always went for the quirky girls as well. Unfortunately, only one of my ex-girlfriends was really "hot" and none of them was mentally stable enough for that sort of commitment....

I hope perseverance will pay. I'm 28 and I can't really afford to wait that long anymore if I ever want children...

I'm probably packing 30 extra pounds but I have one of those faces with sharp features and very high cheekbones, so when I'm at a fashionable weight my face looks skeletal. I've had a friend tell me how bad I looked too and it was frustrating to be able to get into skinny jeans and still be told you look like death.