Constant rejection from women is making me suicidal

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i agree. SadAspy, i'd like you to understand that it is actually quite hurtful to make statements like that. women are human beings that do not deserve those words. you are targeting an entire gender with your anger and bitterness, but we are not responsible for it. you really need to stop this.

I think the misogynist thing may just be a phase he is going through. I....haven't seen all his posts, but I will be honest and say that when I was younger I went through the same thing. It took me a while but I got over it and realized that while there are jerks out there, there are also good people too. It's just kinda hard to find said good people, and I think that is where the frustration comes in.

if it is a phase, great. hopefully he will turn it around and will contribute to threads without introducing the hate. but misogyny is not welcome on WrongPlanet.

How about I'd be happy to talk to you because you're not Fullofstars?



Honestly...fine. Fullofstars is making the rest of you seem tolerable.



I'm five years older than you. When I was your age, I wasn't a misogynist. Believe it or not, I'm actually a patient person...I gave women plenty of chances.

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Personal attacks are against the rules. I hope you manage to find some peace. Your anger and rage are cometely impotent. They only hurt you, and you're already in such bad shape it's a pity you keep adding to it.

You've personally attacked me on multiple occasions now, and you just say ridiculous things.

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That wasn't sarcasm by the way. Anyone considering suicide is off limits for teasing, no matter how foolish, obnoxious, and repugnant his behavior.

when did she attack you? if it needs moderator attention please point me in the right direction...

I apologize, hyperlexian. I think I phrased what I said in my last post in the wrong manner.

What I meant was, the misogyny may be a phase and he could possibly get over it with time (like I did around my junior year of HS). I'm not trying to condone it, but rather find out more about him, as I've been there; I just had gotten lost in a sea of frustration and said things that I may end up regretting down the line., What I needed when it happened to me was a helping hand or a listening ear. I totally understand that misogyny (and misandry for that matter) are not welcome here. This is why I'm trying to talk to SadAspy, to see if maybe another member who has felt that type of frustration at one point could possibly help him in some way. Maybe I'm fighting an uphill battle, maybe not, I have no idea.

i understand, and i hope you will be a good friend to him.

Listen to yourself. 'Giving women chances'. As if women as a collective were akin to a naughty child who should be doing something but are not.

I had a very hard time meeting guys who weren't perverts, morons or 400 lbs, too. But you don't see me attacking the entire male gender. It's not men's fault that I am who I am. I'm harsh featured, asymmetric, and I have a fairly aggressive, hyperactive personality type that is not everyone's cup of tea. That's MY problem. It's not MEN'S JOB to be attracted to me - it's MY job to make myself more attractive or accept being single.

I'm 21. I've understood this since...what...17. And I was not an emotionally mature kid. If an emotionally immature and sometimes outright stupid 17 year old can understand this YOU can too.

just wanted to thank all the positive people who posted, and even the negative people -

The negative people I initially relate with, but the angels at work in here helped me see things a little better... I'm in a relationship but it's abusive at times and in general I'm frustrated at my lack of social skills and inability to be that normal guy that seems to be able to get a variety of girls and exciting sex over his life etc.


i refer to myself as a male lesbian as I relate to women more than men but ya- I'll just flip the genders - "not WOMEN'S JOB to be attracted to me - it's MY job to make myself more attractive or accept not being able to casually get random girls like the NT's"

the interesting part about this, I know in my soul that lack of exercise and motivation to even want to, is a big part of this, of course it's affecting my mental chemistry - so any effect on "making myself more attractive" will no doubt help my mental chemistry, and dressing more attractive will help me just deal with how simple people are and I have to jump through the same hoops they have jumped through long ago-.. anyway I'm rambling

peace and thanks again for the positive people in here, I find myself tired of life too often,i still am at times, but i have some better answers to resolve whats frustrating me so much

be well]
- Lord Profit The God

I know exactly how you feel: it's another Aspie trait of mine. I would spend hours making excuses and quitting on an exercise routine but on my fourth try I got it. The results have been amazing: I feel great, not only physically but mentally. I knew exercise would benefit me but never really realized it fully until someone pointed it out to me how much I've changed in just a few short months. I'm stronger, more confident, happier and feel like my body and mind are finally in balance. I'm no longer afraid of people and can now initiate conversations. I tried to do it to impress other people and failed but decided I wanted to be healthy for myself and myself only. I thought I would have been single forever but here I am: I've found a girl who is struggling the same path that I just succeeded on and I'm inspired to help her succeed as well.

unfortuneately men are not allowed to get validation from women

not true

ahaha