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The_Face_of_Boo
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13 Jun 2012, 6:47 am

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From 1-2 visitors rate for years to 10 in a month. :rollingeyes:



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13 Jun 2012, 11:15 am

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The girl who expressed desire to invite me to her place for a dinner (took my number and said she gonna call me...so i am waiting) is into games like Assassin's Creed and God of War.


yes but ac sucks (sorry it had to be said ) :oops:

uberslop = EA in differant clothing.


No it didn't have to be said man... I mean I know I'm not a mod but that's just not really respectful at all...



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13 Jun 2012, 11:16 am

I'd date blurry girl #3 ;)



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13 Jun 2012, 12:08 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The girl who expressed desire to invite me to her place for a dinner (took my number and said she gonna call me...so i am waiting) is into games like Assassin's Creed and God of War.


yes but ac sucks (sorry it had to be said ) :oops:

uberslop = EA in differant clothing.


No it didn't have to be said man... I mean I know I'm not a mod but that's just not really respectful at all...


Dude, it's just a videogame :lol:



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13 Jun 2012, 12:09 pm

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I'd date blurry girl #3 ;)


You're not her type, begone! begone!!

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8O what the hell just happened to me?

umm,.... whatever.

You can try, dude.



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13 Jun 2012, 12:27 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I'd date blurry girl #3 ;)


You're not her type, begone! begone!!

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8O what the hell just happened to me?

umm,.... whatever.

You can try, dude.


Hahaha! It's ok she's all yours :)



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13 Jun 2012, 12:32 pm

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I blame my today's dessert..



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13 Jun 2012, 6:44 pm

Xenu wrote:
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The girl who expressed desire to invite me to her place for a dinner (took my number and said she gonna call me...so i am waiting) is into games like Assassin's Creed and God of War.


yes but ac sucks (sorry it had to be said ) :oops:

uberslop = EA in differant clothing.


No it didn't have to be said man... I mean I know I'm not a mod but that's just not really respectful at all...


I was just told it's just a video game :wink:

I find it mildly amusing you take more offense that I criticise some ones poor taste in games over say some one who threatens you with violence.


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13 Jun 2012, 6:53 pm

Are you telling these lady's you just want sex otherwise it would be a strike bellow the belt?

Non?


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13 Jun 2012, 7:43 pm

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Haha. If he has his top off I most definitely will never message him, or reply to his message, that's for sure!! (But that's a whole different thread.)



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I am replying this in the other relevant okcupid thread.




Based on OKTrends, you can tell that the number of girls who find a shirtless pic offensive is less than the number of girls who would love to reply to a guy with a shirtless pic.

And this exactly how my experience was, in fact the few girls who found my shirtless pic offensive are the same girls who never messaged or replied to me when I had a modest geeky-style clothed profile pic.

So where's the loss here? not much.

And please, pre-spare me the quality over quantity speech, the girls being interested in me there are not at all the empty-headed shallow girls.

Surprisingly, MOST of them are well-educated liberal feminists (strongest prospects: a feminist journalist with geeky interests living in beirut , an atheist lebanese architect, a rebellious atheist egyptian who lived in Beirut before , an extremely liberal mexican into the Levant political science who visited the region and Lebanon several times and will again....etc), the ones who found my pic offensive were more of the conservative religious type.


Yes, maybe there are many girls like you that would skip a guy because of his shirtless pic, but that doesn't automatically mean that they would message/reply him if he had a normal pic, in fact it's not likely they would since from what i gather here, girls are very selective in replying/messaging.

ON THE OTHER HAND, a lot of girls would get a spark while seeing a shirtless pic and because of this spark they'd message/reply him, something that wouldn't happen if the same guy had a normal pic. ;)

Yes, I have certainly read with interest your success with the shirtless pic.

Most of my female friends would be turned off by that sort of pic (btw I have not seen YOUR pic, I'm talking about any guy). I do have one friend who is very smart, attractive, etc. etc. who probably would go for it. I also consider her somewhat naive in the dating world, and worry a bit about the sort of guy she might hook up with by the way I have seen her browse profiles on Oasis. *shrug*

Not having a topless pic certainly doesn't guarantee a reply from me. In fact, I'm extremely fussy. But a topless pic gives a guy much less chance than no topless pic. I have AS, so of course I am not a typical female. It appears that the typical female likes to see the shirt off. Cool.



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13 Jun 2012, 8:45 pm

I hear women that use shirtless pics have a 100% success rating ;)



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13 Jun 2012, 9:29 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
I'd date blurry girl #3 ;)

trust me, she viwed mu profile onve and i returned the favor. Why must she be so far?



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13 Jun 2012, 10:23 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
I'd date blurry girl #3 ;)


Dude, I'd hit that.



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13 Jun 2012, 10:23 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
I hear women that use shirtless pics have a 100% success rating ;)


I should do that... except, with someone else's picture.



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13 Jun 2012, 11:16 pm

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I hear women that use shirtless pics have a 100% success rating ;)


Nope, many guys get scared off because she's a crazy exhibitionist. :P


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13 Jun 2012, 11:38 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:
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I hear women that use shirtless pics have a 100% success rating ;)


Nope, many guys get scared off because she's a crazy exhibitionist. :P


I always pictured those guys saying "Hurray! Boobies!"