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09 Nov 2019, 3:12 pm

Suppose these women are just average as well and would totally date a over weight ugly poor loser like me right? :roll:

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09 Nov 2019, 3:15 pm

Yes, they are average, choosing the photos where they look good.
The problem is you describing yourself as "a over weight ugly poor loser".


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09 Nov 2019, 4:38 pm

magz wrote:
Yes, they are average, choosing the photos where they look good.
The problem is you describing yourself as "a over weight ugly poor loser".

Sly, teasing, but serious: I notice that you may not notice that you think that you are a over weight ugly poor loser.

As well as one can, if a thought works, keep it. If it doesn't, let it pass. I read a study that says happiness is correlated to delusion so that's particularly hard for AS folks (= honest). That said, I focused on probabilities to get through my hardship. Let's say there may be x% of women who would reject you ---and you estimate this to be 99.9%, then there are 0.1% who would accept you. Darn it, they are out there. Find a way to put yourself out there that is safe enough for you so you have that chance. (And when I finally submit another job application we'll be even.) ---Maybe we should start a friendly competition: your number of dates versus my number of job interviews.



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09 Nov 2019, 6:16 pm

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Yes, they are average, choosing the photos where they look good.
The problem is you describing yourself as "a over weight ugly poor loser".

It’s what others describe me it’s what I am
I’m near 290 pounds probably, don’t have a weigher anymore to check.
I have what people call a beer belly, I’m nit thin and fit, I don’t have a real job Or a car, and I play videos games.

And I wouldn’t say they average, since average American is obese, ie fat. Not thin.
Thin attractive women would never date me I’m beneath them. It only works other way thin attractive men dat bigger women.


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09 Nov 2019, 7:38 pm

I know a couple men who weigh that much (and more) and have long-term relationships. Both gentle, kind men who made minimum wage to start (one still). True, they are not with women who "look like that" (beautiful by fashion standards), but they are with women who "are like that" (beautiful anyways).



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10 Nov 2019, 3:58 am

sly279 wrote:
And I wouldn’t say they average, since average American is obese, ie fat. Not thin.
Thin attractive women would never date me I’m beneath them. It only works other way thin attractive men dat bigger women.

I can't understand the statistics here. Average women are fat but you meet only above-average ones?
Then where are all the women who make the "average" average?
By definition, there should be roughly the same number of above- and below average.


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10 Nov 2019, 4:10 am

magz wrote:
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And I wouldn’t say they average, since average American is obese, ie fat. Not thin.
Thin attractive women would never date me I’m beneath them. It only works other way thin attractive men dat bigger women.

I can't understand the statistics here. Average women are fat but you meet only above-average ones?
Then where are all the women who make the "average" average?
By definition, there should be roughly the same number of above- and below average.

Average for the USA. 60% of Americans are obese. Which means 40% are either fit or chubby.

My area seems to be mostly that 40% so other places must have more fat people then thin people, I’ve seen others here complain most women in their area are fat.


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10 Nov 2019, 4:28 am

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sly279 wrote:
And I wouldn’t say they average, since average American is obese, ie fat. Not thin.
Thin attractive women would never date me I’m beneath them. It only works other way thin attractive men dat bigger women.

I can't understand the statistics here. Average women are fat but you meet only above-average ones?
Then where are all the women who make the "average" average?
By definition, there should be roughly the same number of above- and below average.

Average for the USA. 60% of Americans are obese. Which means 40% are either fit or chubby.

My area seems to be mostly that 40% so other places must have more fat people then thin people, I’ve seen others here complain most women in their area are fat.

Where did you get these 60% obese?
Wikipedia:
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According to the CDC, "obesity is higher among middle age adults, 40-59 years old (39.5%) than among younger adults, age 20-39 (30.3%) or adults over 60 or above (35.4%) adults."

CDC:
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Percent of adults aged 20 and over with obesity: 39.8% (2015-2016)
Percent of adults aged 20 and over with overweight, including obesity: 71.6% (2015-2016)

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/obesity-overweight.htm

So, an average US woman our age is overweight but not obese. The girls you posted may be just it, especially when only the face is visible.


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10 Nov 2019, 4:53 am

One of the ladies is slightly buck-toothed, and has rather large eyes.

Some would find her “below average.”

I would still date her if she was nice.



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10 Nov 2019, 5:29 am

magz wrote:
sly279 wrote:
magz wrote:
sly279 wrote:
And I wouldn’t say they average, since average American is obese, ie fat. Not thin.
Thin attractive women would never date me I’m beneath them. It only works other way thin attractive men dat bigger women.

I can't understand the statistics here. Average women are fat but you meet only above-average ones?
Then where are all the women who make the "average" average?
By definition, there should be roughly the same number of above- and below average.

Average for the USA. 60% of Americans are obese. Which means 40% are either fit or chubby.

My area seems to be mostly that 40% so other places must have more fat people then thin people, I’ve seen others here complain most women in their area are fat.

Where did you get these 60% obese?
Wikipedia:
Quote:
According to the CDC, "obesity is higher among middle age adults, 40-59 years old (39.5%) than among younger adults, age 20-39 (30.3%) or adults over 60 or above (35.4%) adults."

CDC:
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Percent of adults aged 20 and over with obesity: 39.8% (2015-2016)
Percent of adults aged 20 and over with overweight, including obesity: 71.6% (2015-2016)

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/obesity-overweight.htm

So, an average US woman our age is overweight but not obese. The girls you posted may be just it, especially when only the face is visible.


http://www.healthdata.org/news-release/ ... blem-among

Most women I see here are thin.
Most guys I see aren’t thin though.


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10 Nov 2019, 5:32 am

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One of the ladies is slightly buck-toothed, and has rather large eyes.

Some would find her “below average.”

I would still date her if she was nice.

You seem to be looking for flaws though.

Some super hot well off guys might but most guys including super hot well off guys won’t and don’t. So why would any women setter for a loser like me?

If you think you’re good enough for a Porsche you won’t accept a Kia.


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10 Nov 2019, 5:34 am

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Some super hot well off guys might but most guys including super hot well off guys won’t and don’t. So why would any women setter for a loser like me?

If you think you’re good enough for a Porsche you won’t accept a Kia.

Somehow I see much more people driving Kias than Porsches on the streets.


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10 Nov 2019, 5:45 am

magz wrote:
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Some super hot well off guys might but most guys including super hot well off guys won’t and don’t. So why would any women setter for a loser like me?

If you think you’re good enough for a Porsche you won’t accept a Kia.

Somehow I see much more people driving Kias than Porsches on the streets.


Cause that’s what they can afford, you won’t see middle class or rich people driving them though, why would they settle instead of say bmw, Mercedes, Toyota or Volkswagen etc.
Kias are the worse car you can buy. Which is why they dirt cheap.

Thin pretty women are the rich people in this situation.
Though the fat women I see demand thin fit guys too.
I’d be a defective Kia. Thst even Kia drivers wouldn’t want.

Saw this post on face book today from woman
Further expanding whar a real man is.

She’s a big gamer herself. So seems super hypocritical

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10 Nov 2019, 6:38 am

sly279 wrote:
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Some super hot well off guys might but most guys including super hot well off guys won’t and don’t. So why would any women setter for a loser like me?

If you think you’re good enough for a Porsche you won’t accept a Kia.

Somehow I see much more people driving Kias than Porsches on the streets.


Cause that’s what they can afford, you won’t see middle class or rich people driving them though, why would they settle instead of say bmw, Mercedes, Toyota or Volkswagen etc.
Kias are the worse car you can buy. Which is why they dirt cheap.

Thin pretty women are the rich people in this situation.
Though the fat women I see demand thin fit guys too.
I’d be a defective Kia. Thst even Kia drivers wouldn’t want.

Saw this post on face book today from woman
Further expanding whar a real man is.

She’s a big gamer herself. So seems super hypocritical

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1. You would be an awful car dealer.
Look at this cozy Kia! You can park it on the tiniest spot! Do you know how much gas you save by driving it? Oh, yes, it's important to be eco-friendly and by driving an economic car you help care for our globe :heart:

2. Why do you care for the "thin pretty women" who "are the rich people in this situation" anyway? I guess you could sell a Kia to a rich person just for fancy - Tom Hanks accepted Fiat 126p https://metro.co.uk/2017/02/18/resident ... r-6456766/ - but typically people pair up with someone similar to them.

3. If you take all the f.c.book nonsense seriously, then life is impossible.
To me the quote seems just a word play she found funny, nothing deeper.


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10 Nov 2019, 8:55 am

It would seem I am a real man. 8O



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10 Nov 2019, 11:17 am

Temeraire wrote:
It would seem I am a real man. 8O


Can you check?