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0_equals_true
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01 Oct 2007, 4:30 pm

she is female I believe

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02 Oct 2007, 5:48 pm

Way to ruin my mysogenistic fun.

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03 Oct 2007, 6:10 am

Ticker wrote:

Who_Am_I wrote:

None of those are a reason to have a grudge against ALL NT women. I can see how it would make you more cautious, but saying that they are all b*****s or whatever is as bad as those people who have a bad relationship with an AS person, then decide that we are all selfish, uncaring and all those words that are used against us. Not everyone is the same.

The AS men shouldn't be so down on the NT women. I think among those NT if you try hard enough you will find compassionate women who might be good for an AS guy. On the other hand from reading a lot of AS women's posts I can't say we as a group are overly accepting and compassionate, unless of course you are a cat. A lot of us don't want to even be bothered by someone seeking a date or relationship. At least most NT women WANT to date.

I wouldn't be "down" on NT women without good reason in the first place, so don't tell me that I shouldn't be. Right now the woman that I like the most drinks a lot and has a gambling problem. We don't date for those reasons and she does not borrow money from me. My life would change horribly for the negative if we got together.

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03 Oct 2007, 9:03 am

Remnant wrote:

Ticker wrote:

Who_Am_I wrote:

I wouldn't dislike NT women if they weren't so deceptive all the time (or more importantly, expecting deception in return, indicated by the whole archetypical "does this dress make me look fat" conversation...)

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05 Oct 2007, 1:25 pm

this is why I'm with an NT man, aspie men don't get women of any kind. Nt men don't either, but at least they pretend they do.

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05 Oct 2007, 5:33 pm

caramateo wrote:

aspie men don't get women of any kind.

Pure BS

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05 Oct 2007, 9:08 pm

I think that Caramateo said: "Aspie men don't GET women" as in Aspie men don't understand women.

So what's the difference, actually? NTs don't understand women either. They just bluff. I understand women, maybe, but they don't want that.

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05 Oct 2007, 10:06 pm

Wouldn't it be more fun to date a Sid? Sids of both genders love to eat. Super Models are always on a diet. You also won't end up covered with bruises, if you shag with a Sid.

Sid:

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05 Oct 2007, 10:10 pm

Better yet, it would be ideal for all of us to seek mates who have the same body types that each of us have.

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05 Oct 2007, 10:27 pm

Remnant wrote:

I'll disagree with THAT interpretation,
as well. I understood my wife VERY
well. Maybe better than she did, at
times. Let her fool me with her own
delusions though. Thus always my
way.

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05 Oct 2007, 10:29 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:

Better yet, it would be ideal for all of us to seek mates who have the same body types that each of us have.

Eh. I'd prefer a more feminine body than I have.

Seriously though, sometimes match ups work fine
between people with different basic body types. People
have different tastes. It's TRICKY to find what you want,
which also wants you - but not impossible.

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06 Oct 2007, 12:31 pm

calandale wrote:

CockneyRebel wrote:

Better yet, it would be ideal for all of us to seek mates who have the same body types that each of us have.

Eh. I'd prefer a more feminine body than I have.

I think I'd prefer a more masculine body type than what I have. :lol:

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06 Oct 2007, 12:33 pm

Ignore what I've said about Sids. I was getting a little carried away with my "Fat Pride", again. :lol:

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06 Oct 2007, 7:37 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:

Ignore what I've said about Sids. I was getting a little carried away with my "Fat Pride", again. :lol:

Nothing wrong with that.
Everyone's got their own taste.

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10 Oct 2007, 6:58 pm

Aridarr wrote:

Whenever any of you makes the claim that all girls/women are like this, or that, you are utterly wrong.
Sorry guys; it's not them; it's you.
Think about it; if you met an overweight, unattractive girl, you would treat her badly in comparison to a beautiful supermodel type.

So you're saying it's wrong to assume all women are this or that. Yet you then state all men behave the same way. Dohhh!! !! !

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The way that women treat you is more a reflection on yourself than on the gender itself; just as the way that men treat me says more about me than the male gender.

WRONG
I mean, I admit, life isnt fair. The way people treat you often has very little to do with what you actually do and more to do with how they're wired to react to what they come across. People are exceedingly mechanical when it comes to what they're sexually attracted to. My advice is simply to never give up. But then again, dont try to elicit sympathy from other people who have never faced these circumstances! It only gives them an oppertunity to kick you which they will do with mechanical regularity.
In my particular case, I realized that while most women wont like me, there actually are some who will. Beyond the superficial things like looks, status, weath, power, & social skills the fundamental principle of sexual selection is just like mixing solvents in chemistry: Like pairs off with like. One of the main reasons why aspie men are seen as unattractive is because most women find that kind of person very hard to relate to. For me this is very much like an economics problem: I believe what I need to do first and formost is to try to put myself in contact with people who do find me attractive-essentially market myself to buyers who actually want what I have to offer.

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