Will any female here actually admit to liking jerks?

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How f*****g rude Mitha! I didnt ever care that he did. I was just joking. It was in the begiining of the relationship and I didnt want to. If you want whore yourself out to your man go ahead. If thats your idea of being a sucker in a relationship - no wonder it hasnt worked. How f*****g dare you put down that comment to me. Right Back at ya!

You can GROW UP too!

I disagree. Mitha was the one that started this and was just being a complete**** Go ahead f**k over this BS. I donot need some one putting me down because I am not comfortable to have sex. Thanks alot.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 03 Feb 2009, 11:56 am, edited 1 time in total.

I think your the one who needs to do that. Even a 14 year old girl is showing more maturity. Its true, if a guy is in the mood, and you turn him down, he needs some kind of satisfaction. And that would be pretty weird if the girl was then jealous of the porno mag.

I wasnt jealous. Dah! and don't tell me what I my boyfriend needed or didnt. Keep your personal judgements to yourself. You didnt know our relationship or anything at that time but still people are saying Im a jerk. I need to grow up. Just because I didnt want to have sex - Don't tell me that is immature. Sure you can tell a 14 year old your feeling up - You can handle me babe. Your so sexy and mature for your age...

Duh! I wasn't actually talking about you personally, just the situation in general. Plus, yeah, you would be unfair in my opinion, not for not wanting sex, but for finding it insulting that he goes and does it himself over porn. Lol! I hope thats a joke, either way, you need to apologise. I was saying she's showing more maturity about the situation than you are, and she's nearly 10 years younger.

Who shows more maturity? and No i don't care if you think they do. Don't f****n put me down. I am who I am and i don't need that. to be put down for the person i am. I am sick of it. Talk to me like I am a three years old. I have above average IQ. I am 23 and if i come across immature. Well Hell f**k maybe I am. I need this!

I stated first up I was joking. Don't go stirring s**t when you don't even care what I posted.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 03 Feb 2009, 12:23 pm, edited 1 time in total.

All I'm saying is that people have needs. Its well within your rights to not want sex but you have to understand that your partner does and his needs are important too.

If it makes me a whore to want to fill my partner's needs, than so be it.

no f*****g kidding. I am not stupid. JUST STOP PATRONISING ME. You know there was no need for your comment to begin with.
Lol, i am happy you think you got to me. Smiles mean everyhting. Ive had it with all this. Last i seen my boyfriend we had an argument. I have been feeling really angry. I don't want to see him anymore and he keeps driving past my place.
I have post traumatic issues comes back and I am trying to deal with and have been crying alot the last couple of days and i dont need this.
You want express your opinion. Just dont put me down.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 03 Feb 2009, 12:35 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Just for the record, I was not meaning to insult you personally BellaDonna. Obviously there are a lot of things and situations that no one can know but you and your partner.

However, there are many women who with hold sex for the fun of it and I would believe that action makes them jerks.

Yes you did so insult me. You said i was jerk for not having sex with him and that is exactly what you was implying. Dont try and back out of it.

Read it again. I said 'a woman refusing sex' was a jerk.

Because some women do it on purpose just to be jerks.

"Refusing sex" is quite a different matter than "withholding sex to get what you want." Perhaps the original statement could have been more clear.

Often they can be the same, imo.

Sure there are sometimes reasons why anyone may not want to have sex at a particular time. But the word 'refusing' seems to indicate that you are doing it on purpose to me.

He wouldnt leave me alone. I never wanted to have sex with him in the first place. We was just friends. He moved in with me for awhile and i said only on a friendship basis. It was only meant to be short term.
Then we become more friendly and he was really turning me on. We started doing everything else except sexual intercourse. It wasnt because i was with holding off to get what I wanted. I was scared. It wasnt that long since I had a other relationship and was heartbroken. We was on the bed playing around like we did and then we became in a postion. He pushed my legs right back and I let him go further. He turned me on. I couldnt resist. He was infactuated with me before we had sex. He would go crazy over looking at my ass. He loved my curves and now i look back it was stupid to let him move in with me. I did say just as friends.

He was wrapped that we was like girlfriend - boyfriend. I said 'Ok' we are because we continued to have sex.
We was very compatiable in that way and that is all. I never wanted to be with him in the first place but he was a p**** teaser.

So you happy now - you know the story and I say f**k off to any b*****s that call me a prick teaser.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 03 Feb 2009, 2:47 pm, edited 1 time in total.