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25 Oct 2012, 9:21 pm

Shatbat wrote:

I'm 5'6 =O. Although I already got over it, all my girlfriends have been roughly just as tall as me, and they didn't seem to care much about it. And more often than not girls are smaller, so it's no big issue.

Reminds me of the time where I had to hang up something and couldn't reach it, and a girl at the university offered to do it for me. She did it effortlessly. What a nice gal :lol:

i like to help women at the supermarket lol

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25 Oct 2012, 9:38 pm

What is a more interesting question to ask oneself when they find themselves unatractive is what their country/culture finds attractive and what others find attractive in comparison.
I think I am attractive. In my age group and area i would be considerd unattractive and undesierable to most women, but in some states of America I would probably be considered attractive and desirable. I have not let my local opinons affect my opinion of myself but i wonder how many people here have let their local opinion affect theirs.

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26 Oct 2012, 2:22 am

<- My self portrait embodies the answer more articulately and concisely than my words can

... but I will attempt a self critique anyway.
Bacteria flourish on my epidermal face, giving the warbled magenta tint ("pizza-face"),
my peculiar eating habits leave the flesh beneath lean and sickly.
My vulture-like neck leers at habitual diagonals ("bad posture")
while my observant, bulging eyes know no restraint or shame (nor should they),
and reveal my perpetual anticipation and optical inquisition.
My hair is unkempt and anarchistic. I have no time for styling gel or mustache wax.

At 1.57m tall. All other women must look down on me geometrically,
so most choose to look down on me figuratively as well.

In short, I score in lower sex appeal than a Lovecraftian ghoul or a Tolkien-ish ork.

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26 Oct 2012, 3:23 am

Fatal-Noogie wrote:

Bacteria flourish on my epidermal face, giving the warbled magenta tint ("pizza-face"),

Same thing here. I had very little acne problems during puberty, but instead, it all came at the age of 22.

My observation is that it's stress-related. Right before exams, I look really bad, and during vacation, it almost disappers.
(Unfortunately, I had to study for my exams during most of my vacation this year.)

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26 Oct 2012, 5:31 am

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Reminds me of this old joke: http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/4 ... SS500_.jpg (partial nudity)

Sorry... couldn't resist.

That's brilliant! :mrgreen:

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26 Oct 2012, 11:38 pm

Vectorspace wrote:

I sanitize frequently with tea tree oil and/or rubbing alcohol, but it never goes away completely.

The stress correlation is exasperating for me,
The two most stressful things for me are applying for jobs
and asking women out: both cases where I am judged most critically for appearance.

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27 Oct 2012, 3:30 am

Fatal-Noogie wrote:

I sanitize frequently with tea tree oil and/or rubbing alcohol, but it never goes away completely.

It's paradoxical because my skin is very dry and I have acne anyway.
So these products that dry out the skin just make it worse.

What does help me is skin cream that contains a lot fat and glycerol. It does not remove any "active" pimples, but it makes my face appear less red in general.

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27 Oct 2012, 3:34 am

Its interesting, now that i think about it everywhere ive went the past 2 months ive had women constantly oggling me. Either ive started picking up on it more or my newfound idgaf attitude is coming out better than expected

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27 Oct 2012, 8:11 am

I don't consider myself attractive but apparently many other people think I'm good-looking. Well, more beautiful than good-looking because I look somewhat like a girl - at least a beautiful girl, or so it seems.
Luckily I'm bisexual so I'm fine with being more androgynously beautiful and less masculine good-looking.

I look a lot younger, too. I'm 27 and I had to show my ID for buying a kitchen knife.

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27 Oct 2012, 3:01 pm

Im friggin hawt......lol

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27 Oct 2012, 5:46 pm

my mom should have aborted me as a fetus, in fact, my horrible luck with women has made me hate, despise, loathe my mom sometimes, eventhough my mom has never abused me

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27 Oct 2012, 6:25 pm

I do consider myself attractive, without my glasses. My glasses give me a nerdy kind of look. Many family members say I am handsome. Of course

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29 Oct 2012, 4:46 pm

i'm average probably

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29 Oct 2012, 5:03 pm

No, but I don't mind as I have a fear for any romantical attention.

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29 Oct 2012, 5:14 pm

Doesn't really matter what I think, if women don't find me attractive.

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31 Oct 2012, 8:27 pm

Woman always found me attractive when I was young, in my twenties and thirties. Now that I am old, wrinkly and bald I am not sure if I still have it or not. Time will tell. I am in the process of divorcing my wife of 22 years and never looked at another woman during my marriage. Why would I? My wife is beautiful and we were soul mates until stuff happened and distance slowly pushed us apart. No regrets.

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