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11 Oct 2012, 12:50 am

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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.



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11 Oct 2012, 12:52 am

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lol at people playing the "I put my penis in a better place than you put your penis" game

happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

heck, being happy with a hand or some silicone trumps being miserable with someone stereotypically attractive


you can just slap a name across babe. Though you have it a bit wrong. its playing the game of idiot hunting. Weve already found the idiot.


play the idiot's game if you want to

as you can see weve been playing a while


your personal thing with me is hilarious and all but the wtfdouche/troll and the hoops that are being jumped with him are more interesting

I don't make you prove you'll use images of another human being to prove your worth, I already know you're kinda terrible


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11 Oct 2012, 12:52 am

Wolfheart wrote:
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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.


Amazingly I agree with this!

Monogamy is heavily influenced by religion

Before the church started dictating to people how they should live their lives, people were a lot more random in who they went with - and probably a lot happier!



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11 Oct 2012, 12:52 am

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sad thing is you think i wouldnt do anything to stop you. Im much more vocal and insulting in real life. Especially when im going easy on you to start with
lol you are not very scary. You would need a knife to stop me. My IQ is high as well. Did you even graduate college?[/quote]

pfft, whos trying to be scary around here? Im in it just to show you're an idiot, and i feel ive done a damn good job of it. now i laugh at you going for physical threats. Ill let you in on a little secret, i know puertorican judo.
You know, IQ test isnt like a test in middle school where an 80 was a good score. And graduating college isnt a sign of being smarter, considering most classes are just about remembering stuff and putting it on paper. Which isnt what being smart is about. then again i didnt expect you to know that



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11 Oct 2012, 12:53 am

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lmfao you are right i would never do THAT LOL


So hypothetically, what if a larger person came to you as one of your psychology clients? (if you become a qualified psychologist)

Would you treat them with the lack of respect for larger people that you have shown on this thread?

Your comments give a window on your mindset and you seem to be rather intolerant - not a good
quality for a person seeking to assist others in coping with life
im getting attached here what do you want me to say?
Your advanced autism prevents you from having empathy.


That makes no sense

You are the one insulting larger people on this thread - this indicates that it is you who lacks empathy as you seem to not be aware of the pain your comments could potentially cause

Do you mean attached or attacked?

I would say I'm asking you a reasonable question, not attacking you at all
the large male creature insulted me.
so now I have autism? I went from NT to autistic.


If you do have autism perhaps psychology isn't the best field for you?

Surely you can see that insulting people is not decent or mature behaviour? It's cruel and nasty - not qualities anyone who was seeking a psychologist would want. You aren't suited to the role as you don't seem to be a very caring person.
LOL I have letters of recommendation lined up in stacks for graduate schools. psychology is the field for me thanks for the concern LOL.


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11 Oct 2012, 12:53 am

Wolfheart wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.


Some people are happy being monks, too...

Anyway, what if WTFID2 is just trolling us as a psychology experiment for psychology class?
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11 Oct 2012, 12:54 am

wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
lmfao you are right i would never do THAT LOL


So hypothetically, what if a larger person came to you as one of your psychology clients? (if you become a qualified psychologist)

Would you treat them with the lack of respect for larger people that you have shown on this thread?

Your comments give a window on your mindset and you seem to be rather intolerant - not a good
quality for a person seeking to assist others in coping with life
im getting attached here what do you want me to say?
Your advanced autism prevents you from having empathy.


That makes no sense

You are the one insulting larger people on this thread - this indicates that it is you who lacks empathy as you seem to not be aware of the pain your comments could potentially cause

Do you mean attached or attacked?

I would say I'm asking you a reasonable question, not attacking you at all
the large male creature insulted me.
so now I have autism? I went from NT to autistic.


If you do have autism perhaps psychology isn't the best field for you?

Surely you can see that insulting people is not decent or mature behaviour? It's cruel and nasty - not qualities anyone who was seeking a psychologist would want. You aren't suited to the role as you don't seem to be a very caring person.
LOL I have letters of recommendation lined up in stacks for graduate schools. psychology is the field for me thanks for the concern LOL.


Be sure to feed back how it all works out for you then



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11 Oct 2012, 12:55 am

wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
lmfao you are right i would never do THAT LOL


So hypothetically, what if a larger person came to you as one of your psychology clients? (if you become a qualified psychologist)

Would you treat them with the lack of respect for larger people that you have shown on this thread?

Your comments give a window on your mindset and you seem to be rather intolerant - not a good
quality for a person seeking to assist others in coping with life
im getting attached here what do you want me to say?
Your advanced autism prevents you from having empathy.


That makes no sense

You are the one insulting larger people on this thread - this indicates that it is you who lacks empathy as you seem to not be aware of the pain your comments could potentially cause

Do you mean attached or attacked?

I would say I'm asking you a reasonable question, not attacking you at all
the large male creature insulted me.
so now I have autism? I went from NT to autistic.


If you do have autism perhaps psychology isn't the best field for you?

Surely you can see that insulting people is not decent or mature behaviour? It's cruel and nasty - not qualities anyone who was seeking a psychologist would want. You aren't suited to the role as you don't seem to be a very caring person.
LOL I have letters of recommendation lined up in stacks for graduate schools. psychology is the field for me thanks for the concern LOL.


Well this explains a lot about why I never got along with psychologists ever.



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11 Oct 2012, 12:55 am

MXH wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
sad thing is you think i wouldnt do anything to stop you. Im much more vocal and insulting in real life. Especially when im going easy on you to start with
lol you are not very scary. You would need a knife to stop me. My IQ is high as well. Did you even graduate college?


pfft, whos trying to be scary around here? Im in it just to show you're an idiot, and i feel ive done a damn good job of it. now i laugh at you going for physical threats. Ill let you in on a little secret, i know puertorican judo.
You know, IQ test isnt like a test in middle school where an 80 was a good score. And graduating college isnt a sign of being smarter, considering most classes are just about remembering stuff and putting it on paper. Which isnt what being smart is about. then again i didnt expect you to know that[/quote] explain to me how in the ell i would need a knife to stop you lmfao. Hey mods are threats allowed here?My safety is violated here. wow judo i do mma and am a better athlete than you..mma>judo My reach is very strong too.


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11 Oct 2012, 12:56 am

1000Knives wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.


Some people are happy being monks, too...

Anyway, what if WTFID2 is just trolling us as a psychology experiment for psychology class?
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Lol he just doesn't come across as that bright

The intellect required to be a psychologist in America seems a lot lower than in the UK - that's all I can say!



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11 Oct 2012, 12:56 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
MXH wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
MXH wrote:
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lol at people playing the "I put my penis in a better place than you put your penis" game

happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

heck, being happy with a hand or some silicone trumps being miserable with someone stereotypically attractive


you can just slap a name across babe. Though you have it a bit wrong. its playing the game of idiot hunting. Weve already found the idiot.


play the idiot's game if you want to

as you can see weve been playing a while


your personal thing with me is hilarious and all but the wtfdouche/troll and the hoops that are being jumped with him are more interesting

I don't make you prove you'll use images of another human being to prove your worth, I already know you're kinda terrible


I dont have a personal thing with you, its rather silly to think that. I have a thing against the things you say.

im not showing any sense of worth with them. if you actually read the thread (in any point but to jump on me for the same reason you always do) youd notice i posted the first one in a joking manner as a picture of myself smiling, he tried going all alpha male and i showed him what he was talking about. Now the fact that you come in and pinpoint 2 posts of mine out of 10 pages is just hard proof that you like coming after me.



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11 Oct 2012, 12:57 am

1000Knives wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
lmfao you are right i would never do THAT LOL


So hypothetically, what if a larger person came to you as one of your psychology clients? (if you become a qualified psychologist)

Would you treat them with the lack of respect for larger people that you have shown on this thread?

Your comments give a window on your mindset and you seem to be rather intolerant - not a good
quality for a person seeking to assist others in coping with life
im getting attached here what do you want me to say?
Your advanced autism prevents you from having empathy.


That makes no sense

You are the one insulting larger people on this thread - this indicates that it is you who lacks empathy as you seem to not be aware of the pain your comments could potentially cause

Do you mean attached or attacked?

I would say I'm asking you a reasonable question, not attacking you at all
the large male creature insulted me.
so now I have autism? I went from NT to autistic.


If you do have autism perhaps psychology isn't the best field for you?

Surely you can see that insulting people is not decent or mature behaviour? It's cruel and nasty - not qualities anyone who was seeking a psychologist would want. You aren't suited to the role as you don't seem to be a very caring person.
LOL I have letters of recommendation lined up in stacks for graduate schools. psychology is the field for me thanks for the concern LOL.


Well this explains a lot about why I never got along with psychologists ever.
i've been civil to you.


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11 Oct 2012, 12:57 am

1000Knives wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.


Some people are happy being monks, too...

Anyway, what if WTFID2 is just trolling us as a psychology experiment for psychology class?
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Exactly, each to their own, nobody should feel pressured by religion or societal pressures to meet a rigid or narrow view of what happiness is or what it should be. Happiness is subjective and what you define it to be, it doesn't have to be the words of some priest or spiritual dating guru.



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11 Oct 2012, 12:57 am

Wolfheart wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.


then they are happy with what they've got going on
pretty much anything is better than being a bitter competitive douche

I don't have any issue with non-monogamy...but if it's just status seeking with the bro's, yeah imo, kinda pathetic

people who are happy/content with their relationship situation > people who are miserable trying to prove how cool they are


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11 Oct 2012, 12:58 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oXCm4N3J_M[/youtube]

90% of my psychologist visits go like this...



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11 Oct 2012, 12:58 am

MXH wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
MXH wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
MXH wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
lol at people playing the "I put my penis in a better place than you put your penis" game

happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

heck, being happy with a hand or some silicone trumps being miserable with someone stereotypically attractive


you can just slap a name across babe. Though you have it a bit wrong. its playing the game of idiot hunting. Weve already found the idiot.


play the idiot's game if you want to

as you can see weve been playing a while


your personal thing with me is hilarious and all but the wtfdouche/troll and the hoops that are being jumped with him are more interesting

I don't make you prove you'll use images of another human being to prove your worth, I already know you're kinda terrible


I dont have a personal thing with you, its rather silly to think that. I have a thing against the things you say.

im not showing any sense of worth with them. if you actually read the thread (in any point but to jump on me for the same reason you always do) youd notice i posted the first one in a joking manner as a picture of myself smiling, he tried going all alpha male and i showed him what he was talking about. Now the fact that you come in and pinpoint 2 posts of mine out of 10 pages is just hard proof that you like coming after me.
you have to make her cum before you man..alpha male


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