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29 Nov 2012, 3:56 pm

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hahaha go and read my post - i like the power of acting like a MAN not a WOMAN....


But you are a woman, so for you it's the best of both worlds.
As a guy I can't change which system I use.



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29 Nov 2012, 3:59 pm

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hahaha go and read my post - i like the power of acting like a MAN not a WOMAN....


But you are a woman, so for you it's the best of both worlds.
As a guy I can't change which system I use.

no, it's not the best of both worlds. i did not date men who asked me out, so the female method was obsolete in my case. instead, i asked men out or it was mutual (which is an option for both genders but you do have to get good at reading people). i got rejected just like any man, but i also got to have the power of choice.


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29 Nov 2012, 4:01 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
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hyperlexian wrote:
hahaha go and read my post - i like the power of acting like a MAN not a WOMAN....


But you are a woman, so for you it's the best of both worlds.
As a guy I can't change which system I use.

no, it's not the best of both worlds. i did not date men who asked me out, so the female method was obsolete in my case. instead, i asked men out or it was mutual (which is an option for both genders but you do have to get good at reading people). i got rejected just like any man, but i also got to have the power of choice.


I act like a man in some aspects of relationships eg I like to have a man on the back burner in case my current relationship doesn't last but in the choosing I prefer the man to approach me first so I am sure his liking is strong enough.



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29 Nov 2012, 4:07 pm

Perhaps secretly women want to be the ones to do the approaching they dont want to admit it though but when it comes to women who do the approaching they have a choice what man they want to snag instead of having some man they dont like or find as a creep or loser approach them.


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29 Nov 2012, 4:37 pm

I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well


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29 Nov 2012, 4:42 pm

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I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


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29 Nov 2012, 4:45 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
sbarne3 wrote:
I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:



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29 Nov 2012, 4:49 pm

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wtfid2 wrote:
sbarne3 wrote:
I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyalty!


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29 Nov 2012, 4:51 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
sbarne3 wrote:
I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyaltee!


I don't know what they are but they don't make it easy on themselves by chasing the very worst kind of women!



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29 Nov 2012, 4:54 pm

nessa238 wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
sbarne3 wrote:
I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyaltee!


I don't know what they are but they don't make it easy on themselves by chasing the very worst kind of women!
Because our reproductive appendage is like a dousing rod!


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29 Nov 2012, 5:01 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
sbarne3 wrote:
I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyaltee!


I don't know what they are but they don't make it easy on themselves by chasing the very worst kind of women!
Because our reproductive appendage is like a dousing rod!


I can well believe it!

You certainly have a way with words! :P



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29 Nov 2012, 5:04 pm

nessa238 wrote:
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Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyaltee!


I don't know what they are but they don't make it easy on themselves by chasing the very worst kind of women!

Don't you think it cuts both ways though? Guys are naturally attracted to girls they can't have and girls are attracted to guys they can't have... Make it too easy and the attraction factor goes way down... which is kind of what I was eluding to in my OP


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29 Nov 2012, 5:07 pm

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nessa238 wrote:
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nessa238 wrote:
Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyaltee!


I don't know what they are but they don't make it easy on themselves by chasing the very worst kind of women!

Don't you think it cuts both ways though? Guys are naturally attracted to girls they can't have and girls are attracted to guys they can't have... Make it too easy and the attraction factor goes way down... which is kind of what I was eluding to in my OP


Alluding to

Yes you're right but it's still annoying to see men chase this kind of woman



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nessa238 wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
sbarne3 wrote:
I think the approacher or the approachee both have equally difficult tasks
On the surface it seems like the approachee would have it easier because they only have to accept or reject, but anyone who has even the smallest concern for the approachers feelings knows how difficult it can be to reject someone
I'm referring mostly to face-to-face approaches here, but I think it somewhat applies in online dating as well
yah I had a girl flirt with me at costco. She asked ''if i was single would you date me''. I would not have dated her but I said uh yeah sure. Proceeding this she asked me if I thought she was cute, which I lied about as well lol.


Gender stereotypical 'girly' behaviour - teasing you to see if you like her - she'd almost certainly slap you down as soon as look at you if she did actually become free - I hate this kind of woman but men seem to lap it up! :roll:
Because we men are dogs?...Side note dogs are well known for their loyaltee!


I don't know what they are but they don't make it easy on themselves by chasing the very worst kind of women!
Because our reproductive appendage is like a dousing rod!


I can well believe it!

You certainly have a way with words! :P
Hai *bows*Arrigato gozaiyimas


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29 Nov 2012, 6:14 pm

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no, it's not the best of both worlds. i did not date men who asked me out, so the female method was obsolete in my case. instead, i asked men out or it was mutual (which is an option for both genders but you do have to get good at reading people). i got rejected just like any man, but i also got to have the power of choice.


But as a woman, you have a natural advantage. I doubt many guys would say no to a woman approaching them, it takes all the risk out of the equation and all is left is opportunity.

Why are people so blindly stupid these days?



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29 Nov 2012, 6:17 pm

J-Greens wrote:
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no, it's not the best of both worlds. i did not date men who asked me out, so the female method was obsolete in my case. instead, i asked men out or it was mutual (which is an option for both genders but you do have to get good at reading people). i got rejected just like any man, but i also got to have the power of choice.


But as a woman, you have a natural advantage. I doubt many guys would say no to a woman approaching them, it takes all the risk out of the equation and all is left is opportunity.

Why are people so blindly stupid these days?


Are you kidding??!

Unless the woman fits the precise requirements of the man (and probably all his mates as well)
in terms of looks and figure she will certainly not be assured a good reception!