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I was imploring Blackmenaceic not to lose hope, basically.

I've been inviting you out regularly because I thought you were one of these cautious men who needed a bit of encouragement. I invited you along because I like you and want to spend time with you. I see you as more than a friend.

In my life, was never a fine dresser. I was a tee-shirt and jeans man for the longest time. I'm not the most eloquent in speech--both written and spoken. I'm a rather blunt person. I was never suave. I was never sophisticated.

But I also believe in some of the "niceties" involved in being an old-fashioned suitor. If a woman wanted me to meet her parents, say, I accepted readily.

I've been like that with all 3 of the girlfriends I had & I tried to seek out women who would like that. However the only 3 women who have been interested in me were both my exes & current girlfriend. Lots of women friends had been telling me I'm a great guy & nice & sweet but they were NOT interested in a romantic realtionship with me. Some of those women seemed like they were attracted to guys who were the opposite way.

I've had a BOATLOAD of women tell me they have NO interest in being romantic with me.......for various reasons.

That's just the way the ball bounces....

Sigh. I meant that just being mannery isn't enough. I fell for guy with amazing manners, but he just didn't want to spend time with me. Manners aren't enough is my point. There has to be more there.

-You will not die if you date a guy 1 inch shorter than you. And no it will not make you inferior , stop caring how your stupid ret*d friends will think of you.


- For those who complain that no guys approach them: If you want to be approachable by some nice guys in gym or some gathering avenue, then take off your f*****g damn earphones which are glued into your ears 24/7 - and take some break from these long endless and meaningless voice message conversations with your female-friends . It is ok if you put your phone in your purse while you're out so you can give a chance to others to....you know, talk to you in flesh.

Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.

My wife is 12 years older than me.

I've had older women, younger women.

Most of the women have been around my height, though. Maybe from 5 foot 3 to 5 foot 6 most of the time.

^ I am attracted to people older and younger than myself as well. The woman I ended up marrying was 7 years older than myself. I would say height does factor into how attracted I am into another more so, I am generally attracted to those who are shorter than myself.

Perhaps we are the minority and the majority make it seem like all men are not interested in older women. I am sorry if you get that impression ladies.

^ It's just that a lot of men I've interacted with want to describe the female proclivity to date taller, financially successful men as female "hypergamy," but refuse to acknowledge their preference for (much) younger, prettier women as male "hypergamy."

It's nonsense.

It's okay to be: intelligent, educated, well-spoken, well-dressed, well-bred, well-mannered, cultured, intellectually curious, polite, tasteful, respectful, reserved, modest, stoical, shy, introverted, plain, tall, plump, pale.

It's not necessarily okay: to be badly dressed, to be impolite, to use profanity, to talk about sex openly, to have coarse tastes, not to shower, to blaspheme, to speak bad English, to be excessively thin. Etc. Etc.

That's one thing I've never understood about the "incel" nonsense. I approve of both preferences for good social and biological reasons, even though I'm short. I am wealthy, though.

If you really want to charm me, give me a blue Stahlhelm for Christmas.

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