Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys?

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07 Sep 2005, 7:47 pm

I see. Interesting post you've made, Thagomizer -- I'll keep that in mind in future.

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I'm arrogant? Then I should be getting a lot of chicks then, right?


No, not you, the statement you have made.



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07 Sep 2005, 9:28 pm

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Maybe so, but it's the best advice I can give here. The moment you stop caring about meeting the shallow expectations of NT women whom you probably won't like much in the long-run anyway, and start raising your own standards, and seek kinship with those more like you is the moment your chances will increase ten-fold.


Well then I pity any poor aspie guy that tries to court me.

And seeking only aspies would decrease my chances ten fold, to be honest.

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I just did: preference.


FLOP FLOP.

What are the resons for the preference? Because someone 10,000 years ago pulled some ideas out or their arse that people should like a certain type of person? I think not.

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I must be quite arrogant because i am only attracted to who my body tells me to be attracted to.


same here.

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One of the things that always seems to lure me to someone is are they cute?


I don't want sex with cute guys. They just don't cut it. They have to be "hot" - not neccicarily apperance wise - but to jerk a reaction inside of me to want them bad.

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I'm arrogant? Then I should be getting a lot of chicks then, right?


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



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07 Sep 2005, 9:28 pm

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I use its general crappiness of exterior to weed out the materialistic minded women.



Hehe, I'm gonna need some help choosing names though! She's white, so I was thinking Fred, George, Snowflake or Buttercup. ALL fall into the category of Aspie humour, so don't even THINK about telling me off for using boring names or girly ones! :wink: Fred cos I'm Fred, George cos it's wicked, Snowflake cos it's white and as a name for a car it's purely hilarious, and Buttercup cos it's possibly even funnier than Snowflake! :lol:


Ohhhh, you name your vehicles too!? Well, my car goes by different names. My friend calls it old swedish, sometimes I call it the swedish coughdrop (its coughdrop red), it also goes by the Scarlet Pimpernell (because its a dark, scarlet red color and its looks belie its performance) and finally, Spongebob mobile because its square and a pair of spongebob plush dolls inhabit the rear window deck. I suggest something that has to do with the meaning of the vehicle, yet it has to be equally random. Out of the current crop now, I like snowflake the best. Maybe buttercup, but that is strictly off a powerpuff girls reference...she was the badass of the show.



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07 Sep 2005, 9:31 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Well then I pity any poor aspie guy that tries to court me.


Why is that?

GA



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07 Sep 2005, 9:32 pm

GalileoAce wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Well then I pity any poor aspie guy that tries to court me.


Why is that?

GA


Because chances are I probably won't love, understand and respect them for who they are - just because they are an aspie.

There are aspies here that I wouldn't date if I was paid to, and to be honest I don't understand alot of the things they do.



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07 Sep 2005, 9:36 pm

Ah :: nods ::

(and yes I do understand, it's not just a placating remark)

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08 Sep 2005, 10:39 am

People are sooo judgmental and shallow, then tend to whine about how their being treated.



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08 Sep 2005, 3:21 pm

Thagomizer great post



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08 Sep 2005, 4:48 pm

My thought - alpha genetics, plane and simple. That may be cutting it too close to the quick but when you look at the things they do and the things they go for, those are all signs of alpha and secondary things where you see that base animal instinct is the biggest thing governing sex drive for men or for women (ie. barring any major complications like, oh...say... aspergers...).


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09 Sep 2005, 7:03 pm

Women go for cocky, arrogant men because these men are suited to women in that both groups have refused to grow up and are like children. Women are overemotional, illogical and want everything their own way. And do you know why they act like this???? For the same reason every animal does what it does........because they can!



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09 Sep 2005, 11:42 pm

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Women go for cocky, arrogant men because these men are suited to women in that both groups have refused to grow up and are like children. Women are overemotional, illogical and want everything their own way. And do you know why they act like this???? For the same reason every animal does what it does........because they can!


People just seem to be attracted to 'flair' in general, guys and girls. People wanna talk about confidence but I really almost think everyone in this abismal world really just wants entertainment, someone who makes em laugh, cracks em up, but regardless keeps em from thinking about themselves in that bleak light that comes on when they don't have their minds on something else. They say man tends to be his own worst company, well, I think that goes even more heavily for NTs than it does for us. Getting drunk and high all the time is another thing where again, it's like people really wanna escape.


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10 Sep 2005, 1:11 am

eamonn wrote:
Women are overemotional, illogical and want everything their own way.


all of us, eamonn? 8O ;)



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10 Sep 2005, 1:51 am

No, not all of you just most high western women in the modern world. It's a bad day when i stay in a country with a population of 60 million yet there is no-one good enough for me. That is why i have sent away for catalogues of traditional hardworking Eastern European and Asian women with less fat on their bones and i will be treated like the king i am. More work, less mouth. Lower maintenance. Good deal for me.



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10 Sep 2005, 2:00 am

i'm assuming you're joking, right?

apart from anything else, if you've seen all of the women in a population of 60 million, then can i please borrow your time/travel machine?



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10 Sep 2005, 2:09 am

I no longer have any desire to leave the house apart from the odd drink here and there. Lions have it all worked out. Woman should earn money and bring in food and i should have the lion's share of it and in return she will have a dominant partner who will protect her and my territory.



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10 Sep 2005, 3:21 am

blimey - a bear in the veggie thread, a lion here..

i spot a recurring theme... ;)

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