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I will not be two-timed.

*sulk*

You're all hooked up with a skinny blonde. I don't think you'll have any time for a lady with a huge bottom like mine.

Here is Grisha's twin: Grisha himself would NEVER allow this photo to be published...

Check.
Mate.

LOL poor Grisha.

Who was doing that to you?

Excuse me - that's Grisha's identical twin

But since you ask, he was getting highlights done by his cosmetologist ex-wife.

He thinks you're hot BTW...

It's okay, language is fun like that I guess. >.<

Is the corset really necessary?

My current language skills are: Finnish, English, Japanese, French, Swedish, Chinese and Latin.. I'm native speaker of Finnish, hopefully fluent enough in English and semi-fluent in Japanese, the rest are to some extend conversational level

Even if you went by that logic as to finding a spouse to survive, you don't need to lose weight to find a spouse. You are already attractive. I used to tell my ex the same thing. She thought since she was overweight that she wasn't attractive, and guys don't like her for it. She said that one of her ex's made a comment about her stomach saying that she had to get rid of it. I said nonsense. Her body was amazing, and except for her one ex, she attracted quite a bit of guys. Her sister is overweight too, and is married with two kids.

Your psychologist was an idiot for saying not to go to college. It is your choice to go or not, but it sounds like he thought of you as a wanna be that will amount to nothing. Obviously, he's wrong. I'm thought of that way too. I know how it feels. I recently applied for an IT job and never got it, because they said they chose someone else who they thought "knew more and had more experience" than I did. It's obviously BS, as I know that the higher ups want someone who looks qualified on paper, even though I answered all but two questions right in the interview. The higher ups thought I was a wanna be. Granted, most of the knowledge I knew for that job I learned with my special interests, and I knew quite a bit, but I could still do the just just as good as anyone else who "looked good on paper".

And I never started driving until I was 20, and I had to go to a driving school, but I did it. I think the Zoloft I was on helped that when it was helping, but just keep at it and you will eventually get it.



Holy crap! You've just described all the features of the Perfect Woman Robot myself and other nerds are trying to build! We never knew women like you existed! Where do we sign up? Although, I'd install the big butt accessory on my robot.



I simply could not stop laugning!

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Now, where is Grisha's evidence to prove he has a twin?

He's bluffing. His twin isn't real.

I am not bluffing. You can tell that's me, and not some random pic I've lifted off the net.

Check my awkward Aspie arms, that don't know how to hang.

I can't do sexy poses. [/quote]

Is the corset really necessary?[/quote]

I love the outfit, I'm into corsets as well

I would prefer to not be overweight though, as I feel that I have more to prove to guys as it stands now. I have to prove to them that I'm worth their time, even though I'm not the conventional beauty.

Yeah, my English teacher bitched the school psychologist out for saying that I can't write because of my AS during the meeting they had with my teachers and mom. That teacher supported me so much and without her, I may not have made it into college. Or not with the same resolve anyway.

I just need to practice in a smaller car. Mom was having me practice in a Ford Escape. It's too big and the acceleration pedal is waaay too sensitive. I don't feel like I'm in control of that car. So I need a tiny thing with a less sensitive pedal. >.<

Guys, why do you all have to quote pics so much?

I don't want to leave pics of myself all over the place. It was only there for a while. I've lifted it now. But you've all gone and quoted it left right and centre.

*sigh*

Anyone who's polite enough to care might perhaps take pity on a paranoid person, and consider editing it out of their quote...

Forum etiquette seems to vary greatly here from other places I'm used to!

It's a good thing I wiped out my face!

*phew*

emuman100, what can I say? That's genuinely my vocation: to be an attentive sexy housewife. If that makes me a robot, I apologise.

No, actually, I don't apologise. I've done nothing wrong.

Why am I always apologising for things that aren't my fault?

I'm serious! Everything I said was true! I wasn't playing around! I was describing my dream. Why does that make me a robot?

*runs away to sob and hide her corset away in a drawer*

Wow, Lilya. That's quite a list.

If your claims are geninue, then pardon me for being skeptical, and you have my utmost admiration. As a fellow linguist, I have to say, though, that I'm baffled by your statement that your skills in Latin extend to conversational level. Like ancient Greek, Latin is considered a dead language and in the linguistic world no one "speaks" Latin. They "read" it at university.

At least, that's how we say it in English. But I'm aware English is not your native language. Perhaps you've just made a tiny mistake.

You know, I'm kinda sad to see this thread degenerate into yet another "flirt with" thread, cause there are several of those already (for anyone interested in reading and/or participating). This thread actually had some substance, that could perhaps help someone....can't you folks PM each other or something?

At any rate, @all_white, I wasn't being unkind, nor was I being harsh. You are giving @Erisad advice that didn't work for you - that doesn't make any sense to me at all. You were actually a step ahead of @Erisad in that regard: you have a body that is clearly appealing to men (at least appealing enough to snag a husband). But you "married a monster" - so you've seemingly lived to regret that choice. I'm still at a loss as to why you could encourage @Erisad to go down the same road.

There is no shame in having a disability. There is no shame in needing job training, or help identifying an appropriate career, or help navigating the social security system to get disability benefits if you truly can't work. In the U.S., those services exist at all levels of government: city, county, township, state, federal. What I clearly don't agree with is giving up before starting. A few summer jobs are not adequate experiences to base a lifelong decision on: that one is unemployable. Yes, any disability comes with limitations, but I think @Erisad's approach is incredibly self-limiting. I like her - I think she's a nice girl. I would hate to see her convince herself that her only choice is to be dependent on someone else (either her mother or some random guy) for survival. That may be how you feel, and for all I know, it may be reality for you. But that doesn't mean it's reality for @Erisad. She's already proven people wrong by getting through college - and she wouldn't have done that if she had listened to people tell her she couldn't do it. It seems to me there are plenty of people in her life who are very willing to tell her all the things she can't do, and what she should be willing to settle for - I'm taking the other side.

I only wish I had a corset.

HopeGrows, I take your point. She's younger than me, and people know she has a disability. Her situation is different. I wasn't encouraging her to go out and look for a monster. I pointed out that not all men are monsters. Some of them are kind.

I didn't knowingly marry a monster. I wouldn't be that stupid. When I married him he was all charm. And I had no idea I was disabled back then. I was just broken and helpless and exhausted and desperate, without knowing why.

All I was doing was saying that I identify with how she feels. Is that so bad?

My apologies, that is correct.. I am yet to hear recorded speech in Latin Although, I do know a community in Helsinki that gathers together once a month to discuss contemporary topics in Latin together.. It's another story, though, how similar their pronouncination is to the level of ancient Romans Very glad to meet a fellow linguist!

I really need to brush up my skills in Latin and Chinese.. I think I'm getting rusty.