guywithAS wrote:
it also had the rather important side benefit of dramatically improving my personality and how easy i am to get along with. its had a dramatic impact on my work relationships as well since everything transfers across. remember, i am a diagnosed aspie, just like most everyone here. (actually i was professionally diagnosed twice, as well as self diagnosed).
It´s great that you have "improved" your personality, I used to do something similar in the past but I got tired of having to pretend that I was a fun, outgoing person... and I started looking for someone who accepts me as I am.
Taking into account most people in the past were mad at me when I couldnt keep up with the "personality" for long Im having more success but to each its own I guess.
guywithAS wrote:
i am convinced it can help any aspie develop emotional maturity, theory of mind and generally become a nice person. and yes, it can absolutely teach you how to get married to the girl of your dreams -- but not just how to find her, once you get good at the material you'll be able to KEEP her and have a HAPPY relationship unlike most people with aspergers who subscribe to the "poor us, we can never get better" school of thought.
Are you sure we are talking about the same thing?. I fail to see how someone could become a nicer person after learning PUA.Unless of course that person realizes the damage PUA does to women and tries to make up for it by being a better person but that doesnt seem to be the case here.
I don´t suscribe to the "poor us we cant get better" but I do believe that there are better ways of earning confidence to be comfortable around women that dont demean them and I plan on doing so for a long time(I already explained my technique of gaining confidence at my first post on this thread)