Coping with being an ugly male

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11 Oct 2012, 12:58 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.

then they are happy with what they've got going on
pretty much anything is better than being a bitter competitive douche

I don't have any issue with non-monogamy...but if it's just status seeking with the bro's, yeah imo, kinda pathetic

people who are happy/content with their relationship situation > people who are miserable trying to prove how cool they are

What's with your avatar photo then??

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11 Oct 2012, 12:59 am

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Before the church started dictating to people how they should live their lives, people were a lot more random in who they went with - and probably a lot happier!

Some people might be. I'm happier knowing someone I love isn't getting potentially stolen away by some other man, and she won't be crawling with sexual diseases which run rampant when you involve multiple partners.

Use condoms, you say? Another bonus to monogamy is you don't HAVE to - especially since they reduce sexual pleasure by a HUGE factor!

(Hey, this thread is as derailed as it gets... why not??)

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11 Oct 2012, 1:00 am

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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

they look happy man lol. He even admitted he's happy.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:00 am

nessa238 wrote:

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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

Amazingly I agree with this!

Monogamy is heavily influenced by religion

Before the church started dictating to people how they should live their lives, people were a lot more random in who they went with - and probably a lot happier!

Also there was human sacrifice and infanticide. But whatevs, 'dem evil church people and all ruining society.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:01 am

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explain to me how in the ell i would need a knife to stop you lmfao. Hey mods are threats allowed here?My safety is violated here. wow judo i do mma and am a better athlete than you..mma>judo My reach is very strong too.

you do know after your last post (which contained an actual threat) i can contact mods and get you banned? I didnt think you knew that. But while you're in the topic of being super macho man, i bet youve never even been in a physical altercation. or even know how to spell it.
Also, reach isnt measured in strength, its measured in distance.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:01 am

BlueMax wrote:

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Before the church started dictating to people how they should live their lives, people were a lot more random in who they went with - and probably a lot happier!

Everyone's different

Just because you don't' stick to one person forever doesn't mean you're sleeping around; it can just mean you don't want to be tied permanently to one person but still want to see one person at a time.

Personally I find the idea of sex with the same person for the rest of your life horrific!

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11 Oct 2012, 1:02 am

lol at bluemax ignoring my post.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:02 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

Fair enough but it's wrong to assume that people who live a non-monogamous lifestyle or don't intend on marriage or children are always living that way for the wrong reasons or to brag about how they aren't tied down.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:02 am

1000Knives wrote:

nessa238 wrote:

Wolfheart wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

Also there was human sacrifice and infanticide. But whatevs, 'dem evil church people and all ruining society.

There was also the Spanish Inquisition ie witch and heretic burning!

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11 Oct 2012, 1:03 am

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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week

which is how ive always been, but got tired of a certain "bro"s words and decided to put him in his place. and i did a good job.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:04 am

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You threatened me...al i was saying was don;t threaten someone who would flick you away with one hand judo skills or not.
strong reach is a saying....you really need to get out more.
I thought you weren't butt hurt..lol at you trying to get me banned.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:04 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXuCoQ3oQXc[/youtube]

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11 Oct 2012, 1:04 am

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There was also the Spanish Inquisition ie witch and heretic burning!

NOBODY EXPECTS THE SPANISH INQUISITION!

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11 Oct 2012, 1:05 am

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Also there was human sacrifice and infanticide. But whatevs, 'dem evil church people and all ruining society.

There was also the Spanish Inquisition ie witch and heretic burning![/quote]

And there's plenty of a**hole, murdering, pillaging atheists too... Religion or not - it's still a gaggle of irrational humans at the helm.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:06 am

you continually attack me and all i said was you wouldn't be so ballsy in real life bc if you attacked me i would flick you away like the girl you are. The fat kid's gf has a better shot at me than you broski.

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11 Oct 2012, 1:06 am

MXH wrote:

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There was also the Spanish Inquisition ie witch and heretic burning!

NOBODY EXPECTS THE SPANISH INQUISITION!

Yay! Someone said it!

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