Slys dating site advice help thread.

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Being a girl sounds like so much fun

Now you know why some of my little gay boy friends dress up like this to go to parties.

It wasn’t a wall of text, OkCupid says not to send short messages the tlonger ones get more responses. It was like two to 4 sentence message. And she’d respond similarly then one sentence. This happens when they lose interest they start out sending big messages then one sentence then just one word replies.

Most the women here live in Europe or uk, nick was just extremely lucky.

I post in politics sometimes. My interests don’t seem to align with any of the forum sections here. I’m not into computers or it, I’m not very knowledgeable or into books, or health and working out. I’m not in college or school. I have no imput for work and finding a job, I not a parent, I’m not into art, writing or music. I tried the video games section but it’s mostly pc people and I’m solely console gamer .
I posted in the adult section for while but I lack sexual experiences and thus ran out of input. If. Wasn’t forever alone I doubt I’d be on wp. I don’t have much in common with other aspies besides being so defective I’m alone forever.

Now another one messaged me. The seem to come in pairs. Once a year or two.

^I comment in parents, even though I'm not a parent. Some of the parents are looking for some idea of how their child might find adult life, so the more honest opinions the better.

You’d have to have a relationship to have relationship problems. Most aspies here don’t have relationships. Most the ones who got relationships stopped coming to wp it seems lack of relationship and love was their only reason being here. I suspect there’d be a lot less aspies on wp if we all had relationships

I hardly have time to with how fast and many the one sends she must not be doing it either.

I don’t imagine they’d like my input on the matter truth or not.
There a Shave guy who kid just got diagnosed with Autism, I told him about my childhood and struggles but not about how horrible adulthood is for us. I doubt he would wanted to hear it. Took a lot for me to post what I did publicly

That was nice of you, it will have helped him even if he isn't immediately aware of how much. Yes I think you were right not to tell him about adulthood if his kid is only just diagnosed, he can ask when he's ready. Some parents seem to assume an Asperger diagnosis or HFA means their kid will automatically become an astrophysicist.

I suspect aspies would accomplish a lot less if we all had relationships, too.

Seriously.

I've been single my whole life & while it's frustrating and depressing at times that no one I've ever truly been interested in was mutually attracted to me (well, so far, never know - could happen, life is a long time.), I've decided that I am Okay with being single for the foreseeable future because I have some incredibly large goals to accomplish and they're going to take the next decade or so to achieve.

My point is that many of us make the most of our singleness. There are a lot of Aspie engineers and researchers and such that make incredibly valuable contributions to the world who might not have ever done so if they were distracted by a typical NT style relationship, a 9-5job, wife, couple kids, mortgage blah blah. f**k all that s**t, we're made for higher purposes - to create, design, engineer, discover, invent, & change the world!

IF I happen to meet the most perfect-for-me little homo who's mutually attracted to me, sure, okay, maybe I'll date someone. If not, I really couldn't give a flying f**k less for at least the next 10 years - I have work to do.

Get a long term goal to strive towards, sly, it's so much better coping with life feeling like it's Okay to be single because you're working on fulfilling a much bigger purpose. For real. I honest to God hope you have some sort of flash of inspiration of something you want to achieve or become as it'll give you direction and purpose and then maybe like myself you won't be bothered so much by being single.

I dont know if I’ll keep talking to them according to women in wp I’m a horrible worthless person who should never be in a relationship and just need to accept everything is my fault and I’m a loser.

Falling in love can be very distracting. Seriously. It's really hard for me to keep studying when GF is telling me to come back to bed and cuddle her.

Sly: Why don’t you pick up some new/additional interests then? You have a lit to choose from.

How depressing. You must feel so bad about yourself.

Should I keep talking to these ladies? They messaged me more but people here say I’m horrible and shouldn’t be in a relationship so now I’m anxious

Nobody said you are horrible.

Message the ladies, for crissakes!