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14 Jul 2019, 5:04 am

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It's okay to be: intelligent, educated, well-spoken, well-dressed, well-bred, well-mannered, cultured, intellectually curious, polite, tasteful, respectful, reserved, modest, stoical, shy, introverted, plain, tall, plump, pale.

It's not necessarily okay: to be badly dressed, to be impolite, to use profanity, to talk about sex openly, to have coarse tastes, not to shower, to blaspheme, to speak bad English, to be excessively thin. Etc. Etc.
Some guys have opposite taste thou. I used to be attracted to Sarah Silverman but I've also been attracted to women who were the type you like.


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No, a fish-like vagina smell is not usual, most others don’t smell like that, so do your research and go see a doctor asap.
Sarah Silverman talked about this :arrow:


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14 Jul 2019, 6:10 am

nick007 wrote:
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It's okay to be: intelligent, educated, well-spoken, well-dressed, well-bred, well-mannered, cultured, intellectually curious, polite, tasteful, respectful, reserved, modest, stoical, shy, introverted, plain, tall, plump, pale.

It's not necessarily okay: to be badly dressed, to be impolite, to use profanity, to talk about sex openly, to have coarse tastes, not to shower, to blaspheme, to speak bad English, to be excessively thin. Etc. Etc.
Some guys have opposite taste thou. I used to be attracted to Sarah Silverman but I've also been attracted to women who were the type you like.



I had to look her up on Wikipedia, but she appears to be literally the opposite of what I'm attracted to in a woman. I suppose that was your point. I still have compassion for her though, like for all similar women.



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14 Jul 2019, 6:45 am

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It's okay to be: intelligent, educated, well-spoken, well-dressed, well-bred, well-mannered, cultured, intellectually curious, polite, tasteful, respectful, reserved, modest, stoical, shy, introverted, plain, tall, plump, pale.

It's not necessarily okay: to be badly dressed, to be impolite, to use profanity, to talk about sex openly, to have coarse tastes, not to shower, to blaspheme, to speak bad English, to be excessively thin. Etc. Etc.
Some guys have opposite taste thou. I used to be attracted to Sarah Silverman but I've also been attracted to women who were the type you like.



I had to look her up on Wikipedia, but she appears to be literally the opposite of what I'm attracted to in a woman. I suppose that was your point. I still have compassion for her though, like for all similar women.
I can like different things in different people including things that are seemingly opposites. I'm in love with Miranda Cosgrove & she has pretty much all the things you mentioned you like & those are major reasons why I love her. Women you do not need to try & change yourself or put on an act for me to like you. You just have to be a decent person & treat me nicely. Just cuz I like a quality in someone that you don't have does NOT mean I like you any less for not having it. I want you to be you.


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14 Jul 2019, 7:09 am

Again, I had to look her up, and thought she looked/sounded sweet, but I'm still not attracted to her. I can't think of any famous examples of women I find attractive. In films, for example, it tends to be the unlikely, background characters.



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14 Jul 2019, 7:40 am

Umm. Maybe I can ask on this thread "Does any lady find me attractive?" But then I would run and hide after asking it... But it makes me think sometimes. Would I have to change and have a lifetime of masking pretending to be someone else to find a lady to be my wife? I could not do this. I am scared that a lady should not see me as I am as if she doesn't, then evreything will go wrong when she really gets to know me. Mind you, if I was married and found I had a wife who had a sudden destructive rage against me I would run. I would be hiding somewhere too scared to come back! I would stay in a hedge somewhere until she calms down and finds me... :(

I need a wife who is right for me. :) Umm. Not easy to find...


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14 Jul 2019, 10:41 am

I'm starting to think being w another is about not being selfish and also keeping good boundaries.



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14 Jul 2019, 11:46 am

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Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.


Women reach menopause. Men don't. It's not uncommon for women to refuse to date men who are younger than them either.


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14 Jul 2019, 12:37 pm

^^ Actually it's them, not us, who usually make a big deal of man being younger than woman, for instance on dating profiles, men usually put a range of younger and older ie. man is 35, he may put 25-38, while 90% of women are so religiously strict about the age difference, ie. if you see a woman who is 35 , you can 99% accurately predict that she will put 36+ as target age.

God forbids for them to put a range even 1 year less. /sarcasm.

So I should also have added: You will not die if you date a man who is 1-2 or even 5 years younger than you, it's not the end of the world, stop thinking that you may look older than him in front of others.

Actually, stop thinking too much about how your female friends will think of you, this is a very common plague among you.



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14 Jul 2019, 12:43 pm

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^ I am attracted to people older and younger than myself as well. The woman I ended up marrying was 7 years older than myself. I would say height does factor into how attracted I am into another more so, I am generally attracted to those who are shorter than myself.

Perhaps we are the minority and the majority make it seem like all men are not interested in older women. I am sorry if you get that impression ladies.


Of course, most respondents here from both genders know only the NTs of the opposite gender, let's stop being so politically correct - aspies' numbers are nothing in the world and most of us never met one in flesh.



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14 Jul 2019, 4:10 pm

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Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.


Women reach menopause. Men don't.


The NHS in the UK says differently https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/male-menopause/


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14 Jul 2019, 4:13 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
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Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.


Women reach menopause. Men don't.


The NHS in the UK says differently https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/male-menopause/


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The "male menopause" (sometimes called the andropause) is an unhelpful term sometimes used in the media.

This label is misleading because it suggests the symptoms are the result of a sudden drop in testosterone in middle age, similar to what occurs in the female menopause. This is not true.

Although testosterone levels fall as men age, the decline is steady at less than 2% a year from around the age of 30 to 40, and this is unlikely to cause any problems in itself.

A testosterone deficiency that develops later in life, also known as late-onset hypogonadism, can sometimes be responsible for these symptoms, but in many cases the symptoms are nothing to do with hormones.


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14 Jul 2019, 4:21 pm

Kurgan wrote:
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Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.


Women reach menopause. Men don't. It's not uncommon for women to refuse to date men who are younger than them either.


Women should have womenopause?


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14 Jul 2019, 5:06 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.


Women reach menopause. Men don't.


The NHS in the UK says differently https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/male-menopause/


Does it?

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The "male menopause" (sometimes called the andropause) is an unhelpful term sometimes used in the media.

This label is misleading because it suggests the symptoms are the result of a sudden drop in testosterone in middle age, similar to what occurs in the female menopause. This is not true.

Although testosterone levels fall as men age, the decline is steady at less than 2% a year from around the age of 30 to 40, and this is unlikely to cause any problems in itself.

A testosterone deficiency that develops later in life, also known as late-onset hypogonadism, can sometimes be responsible for these symptoms, but in many cases the symptoms are nothing to do with hormones.


My bad , I didn't read that far down.


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14 Jul 2019, 5:28 pm

Kurgan wrote:
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Likewise, men won't die if they date a woman older than them.


Women reach menopause. Men don't. It's not uncommon for women to refuse to date men who are younger than them either.


No, it's mostly men who cry and screech about not wanting to date "old" women, where "old" is any woman over 25.


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14 Jul 2019, 5:30 pm

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^^ Actually it's them, not us, who usually make a big deal of man being younger than woman, for instance on dating profiles, men usually put a range of younger and older ie. man is 35, he may put 25-38, while 90% of women are so religiously strict about the age difference, ie. if you see a woman who is 35 , you can 99% accurately predict that she will put 36+ as target age.

God forbids for them to put a range even 1 year less. /sarcasm.

So I should also have added: You will not die if you date a man who is 1-2 or even 5 years younger than you, it's not the end of the world, stop thinking that you may look older than him in front of others.

Actually, stop thinking too much about how your female friends will think of you, this is a very common plague among you.


Of course. All modern dating problems are caused exclusively by women. /s


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14 Jul 2019, 5:49 pm

For my part, I'd marry a woman as much as twice my age, if she met all my other requirements, though I'd prefer a woman somewhere in her twenties.