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09 Jul 2022, 3:04 pm

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No I haven't. ^ I don't even know who they are. I think the first one has something to do with cars. No idea of the second one. I don't follow celebrities or media, just like I don't esteem people with money and media influence.


I have a nose at them from time to time cos I just love a good story of how someone became unfathomably rich.

Look at that transformation. Just oozing confidence after somehow being awkward looking guys for their entire early adult life.

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Nothing about those guys says confidence. Jesus had confidence. Socrates did. Bezos and Musk hate themselves. Isn't that why people value crap like money in the first place?



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09 Jul 2022, 3:10 pm

Seems like you have a bit of obsession with men's looks and women's opinions, Nades.


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09 Jul 2022, 3:28 pm

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Seems like you have a bit of obsession with men's looks and women's opinions, Nades.


How?



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09 Jul 2022, 3:32 pm

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Nothing about those guys says confidence. Jesus had confidence. Socrates did. Bezos and Musk hate themselves. Isn't that why people value crap like money in the first place?
Jesus was a good person---I say this as an atheist---but he was arrogant in the way he spoke. I mean, really: "You are of this world, I'm not of this world. You are from below, I'm from above." What he said may have been true---when I was a kid, my life felt like walking through a sewage pit while wearing a tuxedo. But he still should have phrased his statements better. As for Socrates, he was forced to drink hemlock for supporting "wrong" ideas, so it didn't matter. The liberal (read: tyrannical) government he lived under would have killed him no matter how confident or humble he was.

While I have little in common with the ultra-rich, the enemy of my enemy is my friend. Which I why I like Elon Musk (a staunch conservative) and hate Jeff Bezos and George Soros (both liberals).



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09 Jul 2022, 3:36 pm

^^

Concerning yourself with how other men age, especially autistic men, "having a nose at them" from time to time, judging them for looking "awkward" and then "oozing confidence" if they become unfathomably rich, assuming that women feel the same way about the men's looks and success, calling your own looks "disgusting" as a younger man, assuming that women who avoided you did so because of your looks, attributing judgmental reactions to women including sex workers, thinking about it years after the fact, assuming that when women did approach you at 26-27 it was because of your looks and no other reason.

Were they the exact same women, and had nothing else changed in your life or your personality since age 20?


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09 Jul 2022, 3:42 pm

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^^

Concerning yourself with how other men age, especially autistic men, "having a nose at them" from time to time, judging them for looking "awkward" and then "oozing confidence" if they become unfathomably rich, assuming that women feel the same way about the men's looks and success, calling your own looks "disgusting" as a younger man, assuming that women who avoided you did so because of your looks, attributing judgmental reactions to women including sex workers, thinking about it years after the fact, assuming that when women did approach you at 26-27 it was because of your looks and no other reason.

Were they the exact same women, and had nothing else changed in your life or your personality since age 20?


Lol what?

That post I made about Elon Musk and Jeff was literally the very first post on WP I've ever explicitly made about someone's look ever.

Where on earth are you getting all these assumptions? Have you got me partially mixed up for someone else?



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09 Jul 2022, 3:48 pm

I got it all from the posts you just made with those pictures.
I know it was only one set of pictures and one commentary, but you do seem overly concerned with appearance.

When I said they looked better before, it's as if my opinion wasn't valid.
You had to try proving me wrong.


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09 Jul 2022, 3:55 pm

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I got it all from the posts you just made with those pictures.
I know it was only one set of pictures and one commentary, but you do seem overly concerned with appearance.

When I said they looked better before, it's as if my opinion wasn't valid.
You had to try proving me wrong.


You posted a post about how you prefer their younger looks and then without me responding you posted a second minutes later saying I had an obsession with looks. When I asked how you assumed that, you said I rebutted your preferences to their younger looks despite me making no reference to that first post at all.



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09 Jul 2022, 3:59 pm

OK fine. If it was out of order then you didn't rebut my opinion, but you did make assumptions about the other women from your past. I just wish that men didn't worry so much about their appearance or their bank balance, or try to guess what women think about it.

I wish more men (and women, and all people), spent time working on their character instead.


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09 Jul 2022, 4:12 pm

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I wish more men (and women, and all people), spent time working on their character instead.
When it comes to genes, "character" means NOTHING! Looks are an outward sign of a man's inner genetic makeup. An ugly man could be a Catholic saint, and go down in history as such, but his genes would still be garbage.



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09 Jul 2022, 4:16 pm

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OK fine. If it was out of order then you didn't rebut my opinion, but you did make assumptions about the other women from your past. I just wish that men didn't worry so much about their appearance or their bank balance, or try to guess what women think about it.

I wish more men (and women, and all people), spent time working on their character instead.


These assumptions of women from their past were entirely what they've done in their lives and how they behaved. It's linked to character.

What's the problem?



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09 Jul 2022, 4:17 pm

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I wish more men (and women, and all people), spent time working on their character instead.
When it comes to genes, "character" means NOTHING! Looks are an outward sign of a man's inner genetic makeup. An ugly man could be a Catholic saint, and go down in history as such, but his genes would still be garbage.


When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?



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09 Jul 2022, 4:25 pm

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When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?
Autism wasn't even in the equation until 1980's. Nobody knew about it. Before then, it was much simpler:
* good looks = good genes
* bad looks = bad genes

Until 1960's, there was also the social control that pushed people to marry young regardless of their marital partner's looks and/or genetic desirability. But I'll get issued a warning if I discuss it in any more detail than this.

In addition, most autistic men don't look attractive during their young years, because nature. So it all checks out.



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09 Jul 2022, 4:39 pm

Looks matter less to most people than many would think.

It might be easier to blame dating difficulties on something that’s not entirely in our control, like our looks or supposed traits about the opposite sex. That way we don’t have to do things that are difficult, like try or change. (This is not always the case, but I think it might be here.)



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09 Jul 2022, 4:53 pm

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When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?
Autism wasn't even in the equation until 1980's. Nobody knew about it. Before then, it was much simpler:
* good looks = good genes
* bad looks = bad genes

Until 1960's, there was also the social control that pushed people to marry young regardless of their marital partner's looks and/or genetic desirability. But I'll get issued a warning if I discuss it in any more detail than this.

In addition, most autistic men don't look attractive during their young years, because nature. So it all checks out.


What about the looks of autistic girls and women in their young years, because nature?

Why do they get raped and preyed upon by men whether NT or Autistic?

Is that just part of male genetics?


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09 Jul 2022, 5:07 pm

Oh wait. I forgot. Autistic women usually have vaginas. ^

Silly me.


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