men who won't date fat women

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11 Jun 2013, 4:54 pm

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12 Jun 2013, 3:22 am

Usually they are fat themselves! Check out hangover 3 with Allen and his new wife!


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12 Jun 2013, 11:00 am

Wouldn’t that be a good opportunity to do something (yes, I mean lots of things :twisted:) together to lose weight?


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12 Jun 2013, 11:22 am

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Wouldn’t that be a good opportunity to do something (yes, I mean lots of things :twisted:) together to lose weight?

Hell Yes!


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12 Jun 2013, 11:25 am

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Even Okcupid is aware of the (looks-based) leagues thing, if you are let's say for example very low-rated in looks (rated by other members I guess) the very-high rated won't show up in your search results.

And POF profiles are divided into (income-based) leagues.

I've read once an article by a real-egalitarian feminist about pof complaining how its system prevents women to see men with lower income in their search results.

Now do you think that such huge businesses are doing this just because they're evil immoral bastards or they're doing this based on extensive research on their female and male members' behaviors in order to boost customer sanctification and hence profitability?


Do this little fun test in okcupid :

Take a pic of yourself with no beard. Put information closely matching yourself when it comes to income. Lets say you're not poor but not rich...you work for your living You earn 30-40k a year.

Then make a new profile and copy/paste the previous profile except change the pic to you with a beard and you having a very well paid job (100k+).

Sit back and see how the 100k pay profile gets flooded with very pretty and younger girls while your 'close to real' profile gets a fraction of the messages and most are from women that are far from what you're looking for ( in my case it was women who had weight problems or had kids or were very close to or older than me).

I assure you its not the beard that's getting you the attention :P



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12 Jun 2013, 2:26 pm

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If a 5'2" woman turns down a 5'8" man, then she's a hypocrite.


Maybe they don't get along.



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12 Jun 2013, 3:04 pm

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Yeah, all you have to do is google the image from the People Magazine issue where they did a spread showing celebrities without makeup, she looks nothing like that without makeup, even in an airbrushed photo


By photographing celebrities on a day with facial bloathing, a bad hair day and when they're hungover, the magazines are taking it out of context. I'm not saying that regular women look like Zooey Deschanel without make-up or that most 46 year olds look like Halle Berry without, but it clearly shows that highly feminine women have traits that the make-up is supposed to emulate.


They actually did photoshoots and took really nice photos of them, which were clearly airbrushed, but it shows she looks nothing like the photo you posted(in which she was very clearly wearing makeup)


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12 Jun 2013, 9:02 pm

Het' bloke here. I've read few of the posts in this thread but I can never understand how personal health can be conflated with genetic determinants.

I'm short. If I'd kept fit between 11 and 19 and eaten a bit better I'd maybe be an inch taller, but still a short height. I don't have a great face, or an interesting face, or a face with much nuance to it. I played little part in having unremarkable features.

I exercise well, eat well and groom myself (come to think of the latter, I need to sort out this hair a bit!). I want to look decent as I age, be healthy enough to do the things I want, live long, and live a healthy enough lifestyle to maximise any positive things about my body. I am proud of what I've made with it.

I'm never going to be 6'4 with a brilliant jawline, but what I've come with genetically is me and that's the only thing I'd be OK with. I also want to present it well and keep it oiled. I wouldn't call fat itself a choice the majority of the time, but modicums of personal upkeep do partly come from choice whereas I will never be able to help my height any more than my skin and hair. What's more an athletic physique comes from a well-maintained lifestyle and healthy living can be common ground in a relationship. I greatly resent how much my height plays a part in me being eligible, but the most I let out about it is saying things like this once in a while and I usually prefer to spend my time making good of what I've got. Some people wallow so much in self-pity that it takes up all time and energy they could spend on taking the world on.

I wouldn't rule out dating a fat woman, but fat people I find attractive have been very, very few and far between. I don't like extra flesh like I'm not keen on a lot of loose clothing, unnecessary wires, whatever. Some of the best parts of my life involve sport, running and walking. I know they're not in the dictionaries of many slimmer people either and it's just a shame we hold such a sentiment of otherness to exercise. Some things I don't like aesthetically (a lot of slap), some things don't match in lifestyle (maybe she's hardly home), and flab usually fits in both with me. Conversely, I like thin women. Athletic runners' bodies are the best in the world to me.

'Spec to those dealing with weight problems. Oh! And for the record a woman's height wouldn't bother me, as for ugliness I have limits like almost anyone else but my idea of what's beautiful frequently doesn't agree with others. Like almost anyone else.



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12 Jun 2013, 9:56 pm

I have a personal preference, and my preference is not to date fat women. Remember, attraction isn't a choice. With that said, I will also not date women with short hair or who are shorter than 5'8".



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13 Jun 2013, 2:14 am

Dantac wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Even Okcupid is aware of the (looks-based) leagues thing, if you are let's say for example very low-rated in looks (rated by other members I guess) the very-high rated won't show up in your search results.

And POF profiles are divided into (income-based) leagues.

I've read once an article by a real-egalitarian feminist about pof complaining how its system prevents women to see men with lower income in their search results.

Now do you think that such huge businesses are doing this just because they're evil immoral bastards or they're doing this based on extensive research on their female and male members' behaviors in order to boost customer sanctification and hence profitability?


Do this little fun test in okcupid :

Take a pic of yourself with no beard. Put information closely matching yourself when it comes to income. Lets say you're not poor but not rich...you work for your living You earn 30-40k a year.

Then make a new profile and copy/paste the previous profile except change the pic to you with a beard and you having a very well paid job (100k+).

Sit back and see how the 100k pay profile gets flooded with very pretty and younger girls while your 'close to real' profile gets a fraction of the messages and most are from women that are far from what you're looking for ( in my case it was women who had weight problems or had kids or were very close to or older than me).

I assure you its not the beard that's getting you the attention :P


lol ... 30K would do here.



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13 Jun 2013, 2:28 am

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Looking for
Girls who like guys
Goats who like guys
Ages All
Near me
Who are single
For 3rd wife position

Job
Merc Jihadist warrior

Income
60K+ $1000 per head


That would work eh? :lol:



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13 Jun 2013, 2:40 am

Dantac wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Even Okcupid is aware of the (looks-based) leagues thing, if you are let's say for example very low-rated in looks (rated by other members I guess) the very-high rated won't show up in your search results.

And POF profiles are divided into (income-based) leagues.

I've read once an article by a real-egalitarian feminist about pof complaining how its system prevents women to see men with lower income in their search results.

Now do you think that such huge businesses are doing this just because they're evil immoral bastards or they're doing this based on extensive research on their female and male members' behaviors in order to boost customer sanctification and hence profitability?


Do this little fun test in okcupid :

Take a pic of yourself with no beard. Put information closely matching yourself when it comes to income. Lets say you're not poor but not rich...you work for your living You earn 30-40k a year.

Then make a new profile and copy/paste the previous profile except change the pic to you with a beard and you having a very well paid job (100k+).

Sit back and see how the 100k pay profile gets flooded with very pretty and younger girls while your 'close to real' profile gets a fraction of the messages and most are from women that are far from what you're looking for ( in my case it was women who had weight problems or had kids or were very close to or older than me).

I assure you its not the beard that's getting you the attention :P


Or put Dr. next to your username and go play Yahoo pool. Trust me, girls will swarm to you like flies because of that title and actually spend more time wanting to chat rather than actually playing the darn game.



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13 Jun 2013, 2:46 am

^ Dr. CumInTheSock

Would that work?



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13 Jun 2013, 3:25 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Looking for
Girls who like guys
Goats who like guys
Ages All
Near me
Who are single
For 3rd wife position

Job
Merc Jihadist warrior

Income
60K+ $1000 per head


That would work eh? :lol:



:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

Hey I reckon it is worth a shot. :thumleft:


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13 Jun 2013, 1:11 pm

billiscool wrote:
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To be honest, I don't enjoy being single either, but I'm still happy with it all at the moment.
And at least your honest too. I still have a chance, quite a good one. Who knows, maybe there are women who like bitter old men?


oh. there are plenty of women that would date you. But get them fast, before they get taken.


I'm 19 dude, I was referring to you. I'm not bitter, and I exercise outside instead of the gym a lot. I know your not bitter, just a little vocal in expressing your loneliness.


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13 Jun 2013, 5:17 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Looking for
Girls who like guys
Goats who like guys
Ages All
Near me
Who are single
For 3rd wife position

Job
Merc Jihadist warrior

Income
60K+ $1000 per head


That would work eh? :lol:



I'm dying from laughter


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