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14 Jul 2021, 9:32 am

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i'm beginning to really warm up to the concept of traditional arranged marriages.
Yeah ... I can see it nnow ...

•••

Momma: "Have I got a girl for you!"

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "She's a college graduate..."

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "... she has a job..."

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "... she is active in church..."

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "... she loves cooking and baking..."

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "... her apartment is immaculate..."

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "... she adores children..."

David: "What does she look like?"

Mama: "... and she has a great personality!"

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You get the idea.


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14 Jul 2021, 9:35 am

with all i have experienced, at least that would more or less give me something i have no hope of having now, somebody to help me in my dotage.



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14 Jul 2021, 10:27 am

Does an RV count as a place of your own?


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14 Jul 2021, 10:33 am

only if it is late-model, well maintained, with evidence of a paid place to park it.



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14 Jul 2021, 4:42 pm

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If Elliot Rodger couldn't get a girl to kiss him, let alone [copulate] him, then he most certainly WAS NOT good-looking. If anything, he was hideous-looking, like I was at his age. So it's unsurprising that girls wanted nothing to do with him.


You can make up your own mind

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I'm assuming he's part Asian and maybe introverted? He perhaps didn't know how to talk to girls.


Kinda looked like Bruno Mars.


They aren't a bad looking bunch are they

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14 Jul 2021, 4:47 pm

the one in the middle is fit, good genes/breeding in general, sharp features, very low body fat. he was not raised properly.



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14 Jul 2021, 7:03 pm

Certainly nothing wrong in the looks department with any of the incels who go on to murder.

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These two killed themselves after murdering 3 people in Canada.



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14 Jul 2021, 7:06 pm

there is something underneath the looks department that is wonky. un-apt and inept body language for starters. no social intelligence. putting out all the wrong signals, beneath their consciousness. it would not surprise me if the pheromones [sending and receiving] were all wrong as well.



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14 Jul 2021, 9:14 pm

auntblabby wrote:
there is something underneath the looks department that is wonky. un-apt and inept body language for starters. no social intelligence. putting out all the wrong signals, beneath their consciousness. it would not surprise me if the pheromones [sending and receiving] were all wrong as well.


One of them is an HP Lovecraft fan. A lot of those on WP :lol:



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14 Jul 2021, 9:29 pm

cyberdad wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
there is something underneath the looks department that is wonky. un-apt and inept body language for starters. no social intelligence. putting out all the wrong signals, beneath their consciousness. it would not surprise me if the pheromones [sending and receiving] were all wrong as well.


One of them is an HP Lovecraft fan. A lot of those on WP :lol:

i LOVED the delightfully rude uncut version of "Reanimator." :heart: :lmao: 8) :nerdy:



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14 Jul 2021, 9:48 pm

auntblabby wrote:
there is something underneath the looks department that is wonky. un-apt and inept body language for starters. no social intelligence. putting out all the wrong signals, beneath their consciousness. it would not surprise me if the pheromones [sending and receiving] were all wrong as well.
Pheromones are tied to physical attractiveness. If their pheromones scream "ugly man!! !", then their faces and/or bodies actually are ugly. The body can be corrected with weightlifting and/or steroids---both being noninvasive. The face can be corrected only with extensive plastic surgery. Which, as I learned the hard way---by going to a consultation---is very pricey and time-consuming.



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14 Jul 2021, 11:07 pm

One thing I don't understand is why from the photos, the incels are quite young looking. Wouldn't they more likely explode when they are older and haven't had sex for a long time compared to snapping so young?



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14 Jul 2021, 11:49 pm

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One thing I don't understand is why from the photos, the incels are quite young looking. Wouldn't they more likely explode when they are older and haven't had sex for a long time compared to snapping so young?

Those last two are named Kam McLeod and Bryer Schmegelsky, Canadians who killed 3 people along the ALCAN Highway, then killed themselves. Their motives remain unclear. No definitive proof that they were incels or identified as such.

It's important not to assume all men who commit senseless murders are incel. That's not what the term even means.



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14 Jul 2021, 11:51 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
there is something underneath the looks department that is wonky. un-apt and inept body language for starters. no social intelligence. putting out all the wrong signals, beneath their consciousness. it would not surprise me if the pheromones [sending and receiving] were all wrong as well.
Pheromones are tied to physical attractiveness. If their pheromones scream "ugly man!! !", then their faces and/or bodies actually are ugly. The body can be corrected with weightlifting and/or steroids---both being noninvasive. The face can be corrected only with extensive plastic surgery. Which, as I learned the hard way---by going to a consultation---is very pricey and time-consuming.

So, even if an ugly guy hits the gym and can afford cosmetic surgery to make himself studly, his body's natural pheromones will still scream "ugly!" Unless "pheromones" is just a euphemism for attractiveness.



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14 Jul 2021, 11:52 pm

ironpony wrote:
One thing I don't understand is why from the photos, the incels are quite young looking. Wouldn't they more likely explode when they are older and haven't had sex for a long time compared to snapping so young?


Raging hormones...when you are older your sex drive diminishes



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14 Jul 2021, 11:55 pm

cyberdad wrote:
ironpony wrote:
One thing I don't understand is why from the photos, the incels are quite young looking. Wouldn't they more likely explode when they are older and haven't had sex for a long time compared to snapping so young?


Raging hormones...when you are older your sex drive diminishes


I'm not trying to stand up for incels. I just like facts. How do you know McLeod and Schmegelsky identified as incels and went on a killing spree because of it? Elliot Roger was absolutely an incel who killed because of it, it was his main motive. But to lump all young men who spree kill as incel defeats the purpose of the term.