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I think the Bible was written solely by humans and has nothing to do with any deity. Having read it several times, I came to the conclusion that it contains too many contradictions and philosophical problems to make divine inspiration at all likely. Sure, there are nice scriptures scattered here and there, but just about any more recent piece of literature provides better moral instruction IMO.

I’m an atheist, but some of my first, tottering steps towards atheism came through reading the Bible.

1) bangs in about ex but refuses to take ANY responsibility for their part in all of it

2) making pendulous swings from one extreme to the other

3) acts up when they feel they have support / bit of a wimp otherwise

4) has to engage with the slightest criticism
/ generally gives way to many f***s what people think

5) won't listen, will not take heed, is way to busy trying to prove a point no one gives a s**t about
.

- can’t handle a debate/disagreement/argument without yelling, screaming, insults, and/or other abusive behavior.

- Mocks you for speaking up even if you've been holding something in for like .... years, so that you could protect other people.

- Mood swings and inconsistency

- Hypocrisy

- Hair Trigger reactions without knowing the whole story or giving a crap to learn it

- OBSESSED with serial killers, reading and watching shows about them and even reading books that they’ve supposedly read

- ^that person thinks your interest in video games, sci-fi, and fantasy is weird

Red flag:

Does not like animated sitcoms (Simpsons, South Park, Family Guy, et al)

Is saving herself for marriage, or will only do missionary. If I were married to somebody like that, the chances of me having an extramarital affair are almost 100%.

^ What if she’ll only do one specific position that’s not missionary?

Thinks they're one of the Three Musketeers.

Someone who doesn't cook and clean and bring me a cup of tea in bed in the morning.
At the same time, 1 out of 3 ain't bad, I'm not fussy.

- tells you that you have to do something or else "you'll be found stinking" in a decomposing body sense.

After some thought, I've come to the conclusion that that was not a very nice thing to say.

Simping* is a big red flag that every woman should
be wary of in a man.
And a lot of times it is hard to see and I bet can be mistakenly perceived as « like-mindness ».

*a heterosexual man who is constantly and openly in agreement on everything what women (plural) say all the time. Blindly agreeing with them on any opinion or idea they say.

Hint: Observe if they behave the same with men, if there’s a huge difference then that’s usually a sign of a simp.

^ In addition to the simping issue, demonstrating that he can disagree in a nonconfrontational manner without belittling or mocking his date's opinions or invalidating her experience is important. The people I've been with (groomers and otherwise) were incapable of this.