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TeaEarlGreyHot
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03 Oct 2010, 8:56 pm

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Erisad, you sound like an alcoholic. Just sayin'.

I don't even drink that much! I never have more than 2 drinks an outing. I'll go out with friends twice a week at most. I just turned 21 back in July so of course I'm going to be experimenting with alcohol. I'm expanding my palette, finding what I like and what I don't like. That's all. D:

...Besides, alcoholics go to meetings.

Eh... you said you were drinking more to deal with your problems. Are you taking that statement back?

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03 Oct 2010, 8:58 pm

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You know what? f**k it. I tried explaining myself and that doesn't do any good. Maybe I should never open up emotionally to anyone. After all, who gives a f**k about me? No one does. You all laugh at me just like everyone else.

Lots of people on here care & lots of us are not laughing at you but you keep accusing all guys & everyone here of being the same. Your bringing things on yourself by refusing to give others a chance & then ranting about how guys will not give you one

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03 Oct 2010, 9:00 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

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Erisad, you sound like an alcoholic. Just sayin'.

Eh... you said you were drinking more to deal with your problems. Are you taking that statement back?

On some nights, not all. Besides, I find that I enjoy myself more and am not as depressed. Although if I'm depressed or angry beforehand, I won't drink. That will cause trouble. In those cases, I just go back to my room and cry quietly so I won't disturb my roommate. I'm not taking anti-depressants anymore either. I've been off them for 3 months now and I won't take them again. Although, I don't know what to do with the extra pills. Do I give them back to the doctor when I'm done? I won't do anything illegal with them either. I'm not stupid. >.<

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03 Oct 2010, 9:04 pm

Throw them out. :-\

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03 Oct 2010, 9:09 pm

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Wow, I didn't know that joking about how I should be forced into sex with someone I don't know and then posting pictures mocking what I'm going through counts as caring. Oyyy....

I've given people plenty of chances and what did it get me? Nothing. I'm kicked around, abused, and mocked because I'm not like other girls. :/

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03 Oct 2010, 9:11 pm

Yeah and I get mocked all the time for not being "manly" enough (as in, I absolutely refuse to become an a**hole...)

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03 Oct 2010, 9:12 pm

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There's lots of people here who would be interested in you including me & Toad but you would never give guys like us a freaking chance or listen our advice because you'd rather rant about how you cant find anyone. Your sounding like a hypocritical self-deprecating narcissistic

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03 Oct 2010, 9:17 pm

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Lots of people on here care & lots of us are not laughing at you but you keep accusing all guys & everyone here of being the same. Your bringing things on yourself by refusing to give others a chance & then ranting about how guys will not give you one

Erisad, you just proved Nick's point in bold. Take a look around you. Did EVERYONE joke about forcing you into a sexual relationship?

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03 Oct 2010, 9:19 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Throw them out. :-\

Really? I thought I had to go through some procedure to make sure they didn't fall in the hands of a drug dealing ring or whatever. That's simple but I don't think I'll want to throw them out on a college campus. It just seems like a bad idea. >.>

nick007 - It's because I don't f*****g know you guys, okay? Don't make me feel guilty for not throwing myself at the first couple "white nights" that "rescue" me online. That's not how the world works. Also, aren't personal attacks against the TOS? I haven't launched any insults against any particular user in this and yet you point out that I'm a "hypocritical self-deprecating narcissistic." Hell, who cares if I am or not? See what happens when I try to get some support from people? I feel like everyone's attacking me, even if they won't admit to it.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:23 pm

Erisad wrote:

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Throw them out. :-\

Really? I thought I had to go through some procedure to make sure they didn't fall in the hands of a drug dealing ring or whatever. That's simple but I don't think I'll want to throw them out on a college campus. It just seems like a bad idea. >.>

nick007 - It's because I don't f***ing know you guys, okay? Don't make me feel guilty for not throwing myself at the first couple "white nights" that "rescue" me online. That's not how the world works. Also, aren't personal attacks against the TOS? I haven't launched any insults against any particular user in this and yet you point out that I'm a "hypocritical self-deprecating narcissistic." Hell, who cares if I am or not? See what happens when I try to get some support from people? I feel like everyone's attacking me, even if they won't admit to it.

You do NOT appear to be seeking support here because you are attacking people who are trying to help

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03 Oct 2010, 9:23 pm

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Erisad, you just proved Nick's point in bold. Take a look around you. Did EVERYONE joke about forcing you into a sexual relationship?

There was an exchange several pages back where most of the users present were participating in it. It eventually stopped but it was ridiculous. I was pissed that people would think that's funny or even an option. They were making light of my situation and it wasn't appreciated. :/

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03 Oct 2010, 9:23 pm

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Throw them out. :-\

So flush them. Throw them down the drain. Just get rid of them.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:26 pm

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Several =/= all.

I understand why you would be upset, but you need to stop lumping everyone together and claim we're all attacking and abusing you.

Trust me, if I was attacking you there would be no doubt in anyone's mind it was happening.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:29 pm

Erisad, you're ridiculous. Just plain and simple ridiculous. Nobody asked to be thrown at! We're just sick and f*****g tired of giving you the same goddamn advice day in and day out and you never take it WOE IS ME I AM ERISAD! Everyone tries to make things easy for you but you just don't get it. I wish I could post a 20 page thread about how I hate being fat and have at least a dozen people fueling responses saying I've got a pretty face and blah blah blah.

I for one spend a lot of time trying to help you in my own blunt way and guess what? I wouldn't want you thrown at me, not in my lifetime!

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03 Oct 2010, 9:31 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

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Throw them out. :-\

So flush them. Throw them down the drain. Just get rid of them.

That'll clog the toilet. The janitor would be pissed at meeee. >.<

TeaEarlGreyHot - I know. It's tiring having to defend myself on almost every page that I post something related to my personal life. WP is for support, not to have users shoot each other down. I don't try to come off as a generalizing b***h but it happens when I get emotional. I speak honestly, which doesn't sit well with some users apparently.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:34 pm

Erisad, there have been plenty of people that tried to help you and got attacked for it.

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