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03 Oct 2010, 9:34 pm

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Erisad, you're ridiculous. Just plain and simple ridiculous. Nobody asked to be thrown at! We're just sick and f***ing tired of giving you the same goddamn advice day in and day out and you never take it WOE IS ME I AM ERISAD! Everyone tries to make things easy for you but you just don't get it. I wish I could post a 20 page thread about how I hate being fat and have at least a dozen people fueling responses saying I've got a pretty face and blah blah blah.

I for one spend a lot of time trying to help you in my own blunt way and guess what? I wouldn't want you thrown at me, not in my lifetime!

I know it okay? I've tried leaving these threads so many times but I get reeled back in. I'm tired of it. Not everyone is being positive you know, a lot of them are and I appreciate it but I'm just trying to get myself together okay? I don't need people attacking me right now. God, I wish I never posted in this thread. >.<

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03 Oct 2010, 9:36 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad, there have been plenty of people that tried to help you and got attacked for it.

Sometimes I can't tell if someone's trying to help me or not. I have difficulty reading people. I'm sorry okay? Everyone leave me alone! >.<

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03 Oct 2010, 9:49 pm

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Yeah and I get mocked all the time for not being "manly" enough (as in, I absolutely refuse to become an a**hole...)

I haven't seen anyone on this forum Mocking you, Toad.

Erisad - The face of boo always posts those pictures. e is a troll and posts them to get a reaction. Ignore it and instead look at the people who actually ARE trying to be helpful.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:51 pm

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ToadOfSteel wrote:

Yeah and I get mocked all the time for not being "manly" enough (as in, I absolutely refuse to become an a**hole...)

I haven't seen anyone on this forum Mocking you, Toad.

I didn't think he was talking about WP.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:51 pm

I have...RICKY5 among other will always say things like "you're like toad" or "If you keep that up you'll end up like Toad".

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03 Oct 2010, 9:53 pm

Now that's just mean.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:53 pm

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Erisad - The face of boo always posts those pictures. e is a troll and posts them to get a reaction. Ignore it and instead look at the people who actually ARE trying to be helpful.

I don't see how he thinks it's productive but whatever. :shrug:

I have noticed that Toad gets harassed WAY more than I do and I do feel that it's unjustified. So what if he's not a testosterone-fueled f*****g machine? Does that make him less than a man? I don't think so. :/

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03 Oct 2010, 9:53 pm

Pistonhead wrote:

I have...RICKY5 among other will always say things like "you're like toad" or "If you keep that up you'll end up like Toad".

That really doesn't have anything to do with Toad not being Manly enough. I'd say its more to do with the attitude Toad displays towards himself here.

And as far as Ricky 5 is concerned he has some very unhealthy views so don't take it seriously.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:55 pm

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Dilbert wrote:

AS girls must get approached by guys, but maybe they blow it off because they set their guy-standards too high. Just like guys with AS and their desire for naturally beautiful women. Except with women, the high standards go beyond just looks. (Men are the shallower of the two genders!)

While this may be true for some AS women, I have trouble accepting this generalization for myself. I do not get approached by men, the only times I have were in bars.

I'm totally clueless when it comes to guys even though in general I know what they want.

This is true for me too. Even when I was in college, I never got a single catcall.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:56 pm

Erisad wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Erisad - The face of boo always posts those pictures. e is a troll and posts them to get a reaction. Ignore it and instead look at the people who actually ARE trying to be helpful.

I don't see how he thinks it's productive but whatever. :shrug:

I have noticed that Toad gets harassed WAY more than I do and I do feel that it's unjustified. So what if he's not a testosterone-fueled f***ing machine? Does that make him less than a man? I don't think so. :/

Its not productive, ignore it.

In regards to Toad all I've seen is him posting that hes unlovable and not trying to change the way he thinks. I did not say toad is not manly, please don't swear at me.

Also In the pic thread of hot aspies, your picture got swarmed all over with compliments. Thats got to mean something doesn't it?

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03 Oct 2010, 9:59 pm

Erisad wrote:

That's because you're a woman. In our society men don't make women cry and women stand up for each other. Man cries and suck it up you big fat pansy.

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03 Oct 2010, 9:59 pm

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Erisad wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Erisad - The face of boo always posts those pictures. e is a troll and posts them to get a reaction. Ignore it and instead look at the people who actually ARE trying to be helpful.

I don't see how he thinks it's productive but whatever. :shrug:

Oh, I wasn't swearing AT you, really. Sorry. >.<

Maybe? I can never tell who's being genuine and who isn't with text. I think it was a pic of just my face though, either way who knows? :shrug:

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03 Oct 2010, 10:02 pm

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Erisad wrote:

That's because you're a woman. In our society men don't make women cry and women stand up for each other. Man cries and suck it up you big fat pansy.

Which is a terrible double-standard, but society clings to them for whatever reason.

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03 Oct 2010, 10:03 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

please don't swear at me.

Goddamn, what is with people like you? She said toad isn't a f*****g machine, do we seriously have to replace f**k with sex in our vocabularies so you don't get your feelings hurt Lord Vader?

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03 Oct 2010, 10:04 pm

Jesus, calm down. I was trying to help. My feeling aren't "hurt" but swearing in conversation when one is angry enforces agression and it may come in useful in real life convos.

I didn't read that as "sex machine" I read "f*****g" as a verb. I probably took it out of context now I read it again.

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03 Oct 2010, 10:06 pm

There are all kinds of double standards in our society concerning gender.

You know what I get sick of? Men are considered the best father in the world if they manage to dress their child. If a mother brings her child out in a mismatched outfit or the child has an uneven pony tail, she's horrible.

Women are now allowed to go into the work force, but we best get our asses home and clean up after our men and devote all our non-working hours to our children. Men get the 'man cave' and women are told to let them have their 'alone time' and not to 'nag'.

I could go on if you really want to get into double standards.

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