Following the Weight bandwagon.

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Thanks Bethie, although omitting parts of my quote can cause some misunderstanding. Oh well. XD

It was just for brevity. Sorries.

Now nerds suck too?

not all.
just like not all alpha males/bad boys suck.

It's okay. Hopefully no one will take offense without reading the rest of my post first. XD


Grisha - The ones that dated me suck. *shrug*

Wisdom that.

I've actually met more respectable alphas than non-respectable, I'm just too envious to admit it.

From my experience geeky guys are bigger a***holes than normal guys.

Just from my experience.

It sucks even more not to get a break-up message at all, and to have to hack into your nerd's email to find out he's been leading a secret double life.

Husband-stealing sluts suck big time. They suck so much that your husband films them sucking, apparently.



Back to weight.

Who all weighed themself today?

I think a lot of the time, the key is the honesty of the person, (guy), and their desire to communicate and invest themselves in the relationship. I guess whether it is an aspie or NT, this is the main factor in deciding the success of the relationship, at least from their efforts.

And maybe I am weird, but I have often been madder at the "husband" than the "husband stealing slut". The other woman really doesnt care about the woman left behind, but the husband is supposed to care as he has a relationship with her.

I didn't. I don't weigh myself, pretty much ever. In my case, the numbers play games with my head. I'm in the whole healthy eating/healthy lifestyle thing for the long haul, so I decided a while back I'm just not going to deal with the scale. I can't play the game where I'm a good girl if I maintain, or I'm a bad girl if I'm retaining water - too much pressure.

I think that approach is working out - I took my daughter to see a pediatric neurologist today (childhood migraines), and her doctor turned out to be all about holistic approaches to healing (an unexpected plus). He told me that having her do yoga could really help, and he stressed that yoga was all about breathing, and not about getting a "yoga butt" - which made me laugh. I said, "Oh, gosh - she's beautiful. I'm not -" and I paused ever so briefly to try to find the right words to say that I'm not concerned in the least about how she looks, cause she's just a little girl (although she is absolutely beautiful). And her doctor immediately said to me, "What do you mean you're not? God, you're a beautiful woman." My face must have turned about ten shades of red, and I was just stammering, trying to tell him that I just hadn't completed my sentence, that I wasn't fishing for a compliment, whatever....after I recovered, I think that made my day.

Way to patronise people by stating the obvious and trying to teach them about something that's nothing to do with you or your life.

Are you honestly assuming I am so moronic I don't know any of that?

You have no idea how much s**t I've been through.

I'm going to assume you've never been through it yourself because if you had you wouldn't muse about it in that philosophical way.

Gee you know, thanks. It had just simply never occurred to me until this day that I ought to be mad at my husband. He was only an innocent victim.

It never occurred to me to get mad at him and throw things around. Or scream at him. Or sob my throat raw for nights on end. I see now that that might have been a good idea.

Stating that one party in an adulterous affair is guilty in no way excuses the other. They're both guilty. If I say she's a slut it's because she is. They're both sluts who cheated on their spouses.

Hey, I used to play that.

I must watch my copy of Terror Express soon. I love misogynistic 1970s Italian sleaze.

Ok, I guess that is me then. Patronising person to have roll-eye emoticons aimed at.

I apologise. It was an insensitive thing to write. I had my reasons for writing it but I guess it is more related to my life, I dont think what I was saying applied to your situation, which has some different factors.

I found really simple way to gauge whether I need to lose weight or not. If I find it difficult to bend down to tie my shoes or clip my toe nails because my big stomach is in the way, then I need to lose weight. No embarrassing weighing in or complex calorie counting. If there is any reason to lose weight, it's so you can easily bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails, because with a big stomach in the way it really suffocates you. You women have it easy. It would be much better to have the weight on your hips, thighs, and butt because it would be so much easier to bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails. Maybe that's why I like women with big butts.

Just my two cents.