men who won't date fat women
I have a cousin who is fatter than I (and I am 24st). She eats healthily, she walks many miles at a time (every week or so she goes on 10 mile walks), she goes swimming twice a week, and she exercises every day. She is 40 and she is what you'd consider ugly, but I think she is very attractive.
You can be very fat indeed and also really quite healthy.
The_Face_of_Boo
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I am 5'4 and I WILL turn down a 5'8 man. I don't see how that is hyprocrite. He has the right to turn me down because of my height as well.
That's like saying: if a woman with big boobs wont date a man with big boobs then she's a hypocrite.
Whatever
I can see right there why you're struggling in having a bf.
Turning down a guy just because he's not *way taller* than you shows an illogical stubborn pickiness and somehow greedy personality, and that itself isn't attractive at all.
It's like that woman I know who's mid class yet she wants only to marry a millionnaire, 5 figures aren't enough for her.
Nothing more unattractive than greediness in any way (whether for looks or money or iq...), that's why most guys hate gold diggers to bones.
Just think of the plain guy who wants to f**k only supermodels.
The woman I've dated today is taller than me btw..
And no, heights and cock size aren't correlated, do your research.
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I am 5'4 and I WILL turn down a 5'8 man. I don't see how that is hyprocrite. He has the right to turn me down because of my height as well.
That's like saying: if a woman with big boobs wont date a man with big boobs then she's a hypocrite.
Whatever
I can see right there why you're struggling in having a bf.
Turning down a guy just because he's not *way taller* than you shows an illogical stubborn pickiness and somehow greedy personality, and that itself isn't attractive at all.
It's like that woman I know who's mid class yet she wants only to marry a millionnaire, 5 figures aren't enough for her.
Nothing more unattractive than greediness in any way (whether for looks or money or iq...), that's why most guys hate gold diggers to bones.
Just think of the plain guy who wants to f**k only supermodels.
The woman I've dated today is taller than me btw..
And no, heights and cock size aren't correlated, do your research.
Meh whatever, people have preferences. It's their business whatever they are.
In dating If you don't meet them or they don't meet yours then you just move on.
Cafeaulait, you sound like an extremely shallow person and I think you should review yourself, I wouldn't give a woman like you the time of day if I knew how shallow you were and we were on a date.
People like you are the reason other people develop disorders like anorexia, bigorexia, bulimia and insecurities about their height.
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I am 5'4 and I WILL turn down a 5'8 man. I don't see how that is hyprocrite. He has the right to turn me down because of my height as well.
That's like saying: if a woman with big boobs wont date a man with big boobs then she's a hypocrite.
Whatever
You must see kurgans logic.
You are a short woman you are rejecting a guy for being to short(not only that but he has to be a certain height above you).
Like a fat man wanting a skinny woman and a rejecting a woman that is fat, when he is fatter than her.
But yes I agree with you whatever!
I don´t see his logic to be honest. Just because you are short, that doesn´t mean you are per se more attracted to taller men. Also, a taller woman doesn´t necessarily have to be attracted to taller men. A woman with long hair, doesn´t necessarily want to date long haired men.
If a fat man rejects a fat woman, that is not hyprocritical.
If a blue eyed man rejects a blue eyed woman, that is not hypocritical either.
It´s ridiculous to assume that someone must be attracted to something because that is more natural or logical. What is beneficial is subjective.
People like you are the reason other people develop disorders like anorexia, bigorexia, bulimia and insecurities about their height.
To be honest, I don´t care. In fact you know what? I am also multiracial, with green eyes, freckles, and wavy hair. MANY white (or black) have rejected me for that. I am supposed to sit down on the floor and go cry about it and say 'this is the reasons why people develop insecurities about their race'?
Please. Everyone has their preferences.
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I am 5'4 and I WILL turn down a 5'8 man. I don't see how that is hyprocrite. He has the right to turn me down because of my height as well.
That's like saying: if a woman with big boobs wont date a man with big boobs then she's a hypocrite.
Whatever
False analogy.
Big boobs are beneficial in a woman, but not in a man. Nobody said that you didn't have the right to turn him down; you have every right to make hypocritical decisions if you want to. Turning him down exclusively because he's a little shorter than average, might also mean that your own self-image is a little high.
Completely irrelevant wether big boobs are benificial to a man or not. 'Beneficial' is completely subjective.
Would it be HYPROCRITICAL if a woman of 5'10 wouldn't want to date of 5'8? If so, what does the hypocrisy consist of, exactly?
And if not, why wouldn't it be hypocritical?
We're talking about a 5'4" woman here, not a 5'10" woman. "Beneficial" is what natural selection favours.
I am ASKING YOU: Would it be HYPROCRITICAL if a woman of 5'10 wouldn't want to date of 5'8? If so, what does the hypocrisy consist of, exactly?
No--it wouldn't be hypocritical. Many women like to date taller men and many men like to date shorter women.
And some do not.
And now what?
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I am 5'4 and I WILL turn down a 5'8 man. I don't see how that is hyprocrite. He has the right to turn me down because of my height as well.
That's like saying: if a woman with big boobs wont date a man with big boobs then she's a hypocrite.
Whatever
You must see kurgans logic.
You are a short woman you are rejecting a guy for being to short(not only that but he has to be a certain height above you).
Like a fat man wanting a skinny woman and a rejecting a woman that is fat, when he is fatter than her.
But yes I agree with you whatever!
I don´t see his logic to be honest. Just because you are short, that doesn´t mean you are per se more attracted to taller men. Also, a taller woman doesn´t necessarily have to be attracted to taller men. A woman with long hair, doesn´t necessarily want to date long haired men.
If a fat man rejects a fat woman, that is not hyprocritical.
If a blue eyed man rejects a blue eyed woman, that is not hypocritical either.
It´s ridiculous to assume that someone must be attracted to something because that is more natural or logical. What is beneficial is subjective.
Yes, it is hypocritical if a fat guy like a hippo rejects a woman *because* she's bit fat with no other reason.
Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 29 Jun 2013, 4:38 am, edited 1 time in total.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
The_Face_of_Boo
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I am 5'4 and I WILL turn down a 5'8 man. I don't see how that is hyprocrite. He has the right to turn me down because of my height as well.
That's like saying: if a woman with big boobs wont date a man with big boobs then she's a hypocrite.
Whatever
You must see kurgans logic.
You are a short woman you are rejecting a guy for being to short(not only that but he has to be a certain height above you).
Like a fat man wanting a skinny woman and a rejecting a woman that is fat, when he is fatter than her.
But yes I agree with you whatever!
I don´t see his logic to be honest. Just because you are short, that doesn´t mean you are per se more attracted to taller men. Also, a taller woman doesn´t necessarily have to be attracted to taller men. A woman with long hair, doesn´t necessarily want to date long haired men.
If a fat man rejects a fat woman, that is not hyprocritical.
If a blue eyed man rejects a blue eyed woman, that is not hypocritical either.
It´s ridiculous to assume that someone must be attracted to something because that is more natural or logical. What is beneficial is subjective.
Yes, it is hypocritical if a fat guy like a hippo man rejects a woman *because* she's bit fat with no other reason.
Wikipedia:
Hypocrisy is the state of pretending to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually have.[1] Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.[1]
So, whether this is hypocrite completely depends on the reasons he dislikes fat women.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
