Male disposability in life & dating

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Last edited by Sweetleaf on 18 Oct 2017, 7:57 am, edited 1 time in total.

You being married doesn't change anything. And nice personal attack assuming I'm bitter because I'm actually not. I agree there are many ways people can appear attractive to one another, however my problem is with people assuming certain qualities matter as if they are actually a make or break in importance when in fact they are not.
I don't see how conversation skills would steer you out of fights on family gatherings but alright.

Actually I would love an example of how your skills steered a fight to be honest.

f**k. If only I did live in a tribe.

My ancestors are Indigenous Australians and my philosophies on life are more align with their culture than modern society.

Hunting and fishing and building huts/canoes/weapons everyday sounds like paradise.

Humans aren't evolved to deal with The pressures of modern life.

Things like about buying a house, mortgage, etc.have only been around for the past thousand year or two when humans have been around at least 10,000-500,000

Research shows our ancestors "worked" less hours then people do today, and those living a tribal life aren't necessarily unhappier and it may even be the oppoute. Very developed countries like the USA have some of the worlds highest depression rates.

I am physically able and enjoy being in nature.

My only concern being fishing and catching kangaroo/emu/other large animals and helping the other men build huts would be pretty cool. As well as defending our tribe from other tribe of course.

I know there are negatives. I don't care.

It's all because of overpopulation.

There's only one way to solve this problem.

Exactly, my issue is, and please understand that this is not aimed at you magz, because you seem fairly genuine. Alot of women, when they say they want an intelligent man, what they're really attracted to is really the money that intelligence can bring in, it's not the intelligence in itself. So for example a janitor with an IQ of 190 is not attractive. Or like I said, engineers or medical doctors(which is what I aspire to be), suddenly aren't that attractive anymore if they earn similarily to everyone else. And like SilverBoltsisWmax already pointed out, when a woman says she wants someone capable of good conversations, all she means is a guy who's got game, and is a smooth talker. Again nothing to do with intelligence. The guys who are best at that kind of thing are usually about average intelligence, and are naturally good at it.

Point being: For the most part, intelligence is sexy if it makes you alot of money. Otherwise it doesn't f*****g matter.

Or equating "confidence" with extraverted charisma, when plenty of quiet men are confident internally as well.

I have quiet confidence. I like.myself (mostly) and believe in myself, in conversations I come across as completely.normal when I do speak and its rare people can tell I have ASD unless the get to know.me.much better.

But people think I'm "shy" because I don't speak when they talk about subjects I merely have no interest in.

Unfortunately this happens a lot even though I try to interject my.own thoughts on a subject or ask question but when I just don't give a damn I can only feign interest out of politeness so far.

Intelligence is sexy if you can communicate. Intelligence on its own is boring. Dull conversationalists are not people I enjoy spending time with.

I don't know any smooth talking players so can't imagine what they're like to talk to. Easiest guy to talk to at my work is a gay scientist. He's not talking to me to win me over. He's just easy to talk to. Very engaging and very smart.

But that is all part of NT biology, and doesn't need to have anything to do with the biology of NDs. The number one mistake NDs make is to think that they too have an origin in tribal societies, which makes no sense for our adaptations, especially not those in the relationship area.

Again, then it has nothing to do with intelligence. It's pretty much just good conversational skills being mistaken for intelligence.

I don't buy that intelligence helps a man at all with being more attractive.

My least intelligent male friends, are the ones who drown in women.

Good for them....the question is: would the women that your buddies are "drowning in" hold my interest?

Last edited by kraftiekortie on 18 Oct 2017, 9:14 am, edited 1 time in total.

Did anyone say it does in general? The type of women who use this site like non stupid men, but that doesn't mean society in general does.

We want intelligence and conversation.

And that's what I want.

A person's physical looks really only goes SO far.

Doesn't matter.

I would like to drown in women for a while... I've always been jealous of men who can get one night stands so extremely easily.

It's a luxury reserved for 10% of all men.

I wouldn't want the hassle of having to attend to all these women at the same time.

When people become polygamous, they then begin to understand the hassle of trying to appease and satisfy more than one "partner."

One at a time is enough for me.....

I'm talking about one night stands.

I would never want an open relationship.