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19 Jul 2023, 9:40 pm

I want a partner who views me as a human being - not a devil or angel.

Of course, given my signature...


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21 Jul 2023, 9:19 pm

- you can’t express any admiration or appreciation for a male actor, singer, or other person without him getting jealous and saying something gross like: “Do you want to smoke him? Do you want his pen-nis?”

:eew:

As far as I was concerned, other men didn't have penises. One was bad enough.


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21 Jul 2023, 9:27 pm

-squeezes your hand in public, when pointing out all the people they'd like to F.

- pretty much breaks your wrist for some people.


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21 Jul 2023, 9:32 pm

- only expresses a modicum of physical affection when he wants sex. :roll:

It's only a matter of time before the modicum of physical affection stops altogether.


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21 Jul 2023, 9:36 pm

Mansplains.

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- asks you what period products you use and then tells you what kind you should use. I don't recall asking them for their opinions. :roll: I'm in my 30's. I've got this stuff figured out.

- is jealous of tampons

- disapproves of your use of hormonal birth control even if your doctor prescribes it to treat specific conditions

- asks you how you masturbate and then tells you that you're doing it wrong


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21 Jul 2023, 9:36 pm

Physical affection? What's that exactly? :|


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21 Jul 2023, 9:38 pm

^ I have no idea. I haven't experienced it in many years.


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22 Jul 2023, 9:41 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Mansplains.

Mature, kind of gross content:
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- asks you what period products you use and then tells you what kind you should use. I don't recall asking them for their opinions. :roll: I'm in my 30's. I've got this stuff figured out.

- is jealous of tampons

- disapproves of your use of hormonal birth control even if your doctor prescribes it to treat specific conditions

- asks you how you masturbate and then tells you that you're doing it wrong


I had to buy some period products yesterday but not what I'm usually told to get, I was given a criteria and told to choose. I narrowed it down to 3 products but couldn't choose so I took photo's of said products (to txt) just as 4 other women decided to have their period at the same time and surrounded me. I'm sure a guy taking photo's of period products is a red flag lol


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22 Jul 2023, 9:43 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Physical affection? What's that exactly? :|


Here is an example of physical affection.

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22 Jul 2023, 9:45 am

^^ :lol:

I would’ve assumed that you were doing exactly what you were doing. I never had a husband or boyfriend buy anything like that for me. Based on my husband’s opinions, that’s probably for the best.


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22 Jul 2023, 9:49 am

^ It's never a good day when you spend longer choosing a period product than you do choosing what you want for your tea. :lol:


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22 Jul 2023, 10:04 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Mansplains.

Mature, kind of gross content:
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- asks you what period products you use and then tells you what kind you should use. I don't recall asking them for their opinions. :roll: I'm in my 30's. I've got this stuff figured out.

- is jealous of tampons

- disapproves of your use of hormonal birth control even if your doctor prescribes it to treat specific conditions

- asks you how you masturbate and then tells you that you're doing it wrong



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One partner: Borrows your tampons to wear in his butt, when he's also wearing your panties to work. Begs you to insert the tampons and punishes your children if you say no. You don't need birth control because he won't sleep with you, because of various excuses which surprisingly end up meaning that he's gay. Surprise? - I have nothing against being gay but lots against deception when it's just used to get your money and a place to live. Other partner: Yup. Masturbating wrong was a big problem. It had to be his way. Reminds me of my mother saying I menstruated wrong. And that brings us back to doe, a deer ...


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22 Jul 2023, 10:05 am

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^^ :lol:

I would’ve assumed that you were doing exactly what you were doing. I never had a husband or boyfriend buy anything like that for me. Based on my husband’s opinions, that’s probably for the best.



Builder's and burgers please.

Whoops. Wrong quote. That was for Recidivist and the menstrual quandaries.


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22 Jul 2023, 10:07 am

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TwilightPrincess wrote:
Mansplains.

Mature, kind of gross content:
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- asks you what period products you use and then tells you what kind you should use. I don't recall asking them for their opinions. :roll: I'm in my 30's. I've got this stuff figured out.

- is jealous of tampons

- disapproves of your use of hormonal birth control even if your doctor prescribes it to treat specific conditions

- asks you how you masturbate and then tells you that you're doing it wrong


I had to buy some period products yesterday but not what I'm usually told to get, I was given a criteria and told to choose. I narrowed it down to 3 products but couldn't choose so I took photo's of said products (to txt) just as 4 other women decided to have their period at the same time and surrounded me. I'm sure a guy taking photo's of period products is a red flag lol



I love your GF. :heart:

What did you pick? Curious minds wanna know. I hope it didn't involve beach towels.


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22 Jul 2023, 10:09 am

Recidivist wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Physical affection? What's that exactly? :|


Here is an example of physical affection.

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Oooh is he single?! :heart: :heart: :heart:


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22 Jul 2023, 10:10 am

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Is jealous of tampons because he wants to be the only thing in there. It’s his “property.” “Mine, mine, MINE.”

He should’ve just gotten a doll. :roll:


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