29 Jan 2018, 5:11 pm
fluffysaurus wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Marknis wrote:
It feels like a punch in the face when someone tells me they are engaged or just got married. It makes me feel unlovable. 
And people can be really f*****g tactless
I thought you meant friends and family tell you they're getting married, which I find they can be really tactless about.
But if you meant the girls you are interested in then Kraftiekortie's right it's best that they are honest and their saying no is not a rejection of you if they have a husband/boyfriend already. People in your area seem to settle down early.
Not just friends and family tell me they are getting married but strangers as well.
They do settle early partly because of the reverse psychology brought on by "Save sex for marriage!" and the teen pregnancies that result from it.
kraftiekortie wrote:
Them being married and engaged has nothing to do with the "loveability," or the "nonloveability" of you.
Think about it: how does their marital status make you unloveable?
Think about it: how does their marital status make you unloveable?
It's more that I wonder why they are so far ahead of me while I can't even get a date.
