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18 Mar 2012, 4:40 pm

Vigilans wrote:

MXH wrote:

Vigilans wrote:

MXH wrote:

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Well, I am not really looking to get into a relationship right now... But I realize that I seem to attract women who are not my type and are only interested in me because of my looks.

wanna trade?

Its not that much fun, and the shallow women who often go for me can also be extremely catty when I reject them. This has caused me a lot of problems.

sure beats being the one rejected no? Hell last friday i had a girl approach me then walk away within 15 seconds of it. wtf

I'd rather be rejected and never have to think about the girl again, than reject her and hear about her working at sullying my reputation months later

like i said, wanna trade then?

That's nice that you find something amusing that has caused me great personal distress

not that i find it amusing, id just like to feel in some way as anything close to attractive. Which obviously isnt happening

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18 Mar 2012, 4:46 pm

MXH wrote:

Vigilans wrote:

MXH wrote:

Vigilans wrote:

MXH wrote:

Vigilans wrote:

MXH wrote:

Vigilans wrote:

Well, I am not really looking to get into a relationship right now... But I realize that I seem to attract women who are not my type and are only interested in me because of my looks.

wanna trade?

Its not that much fun, and the shallow women who often go for me can also be extremely catty when I reject them. This has caused me a lot of problems.

sure beats being the one rejected no? Hell last friday i had a girl approach me then walk away within 15 seconds of it. wtf

I'd rather be rejected and never have to think about the girl again, than reject her and hear about her working at sullying my reputation months later

like i said, wanna trade then?

That's nice that you find something amusing that has caused me great personal distress

not that i find it amusing, id just like to feel in some way as anything close to attractive. Which obviously isnt happening

I'd listen to Vigilans on this one. I had a girl trying to do that to me once just because she tried to ruin one of my early relationships (which I am now happy it's over), and it just made things awkward between us as she's just an immature b***h.

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18 Mar 2012, 4:57 pm

Whos to say i havent experienced women doing things behind my back? Though they did it for fun not jealousy. As someone thats been rediculed for his looks from pre-k to college ill gladly take having unwanted people approach me. Hell ill take a guy approach me as a positive

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18 Mar 2012, 5:02 pm

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Are you proposing something. :twisted:

Seriously though, it's not worth it mate, when you find someone who will love you regardless of looks, you'll look back at this and think "Man, I am glad some cow didn't do that to me!"

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18 Mar 2012, 5:05 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

and she wants you why?

I see I offended a lot of people here but if I did then I'm sorry. Anyway, you guys take what I wrote here too seriously.

If I offended someone here then again, I'm really sorry.

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18 Mar 2012, 5:14 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:

MXH wrote:

Are you proposing something. :twisted:

Seriously though, it's not worth it mate, when you find someone who will love you regardless of looks, you'll look back at this and think "Man, I am glad some cow didn't do that to me!"

Lol. No really. I even went with some friends to a gay club. Not even there lol.

Obviously. But the feeling of being an undesirable and years of brutal treatment have taken their toll

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18 Mar 2012, 6:13 pm

MXH wrote:

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:

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Are you proposing something. :twisted:

Seriously though, it's not worth it mate, when you find someone who will love you regardless of looks, you'll look back at this and think "Man, I am glad some cow didn't do that to me!"

Lol. No really. I even went with some friends to a gay club. Not even there lol.

Obviously. But the feeling of being an undesirable and years of brutal treatment have taken their toll

I've found gay people go for that "off" aspie vibe.

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18 Mar 2012, 6:14 pm

Because I don't know how to manipulate a women in to liking me or heaven forbid love. I could elaborate though I'm close to been baned here so I'll keep my mouth shut , its seems honesty and sarcasm ain't appreciated around here

So what is appreciated around here ?.

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18 Mar 2012, 7:21 pm

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Theres a difference between honesty and being rude. Honesty is something that many treasure, but you often say things that you may think are honest but arent yet are very rude to many people. And usually do so unprovoked.

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18 Mar 2012, 7:58 pm

Why am I still single? If I honestly knew, I imagine I wouldn't be single anymore. :lol:

On a serious note, probably because sometimes I try too hard to be 'one of the lads' and friendzone myself.

Oh and not really being interested in sex and the such.

Wait, that's 3 reasons. I ramble on too much as well....that's 4 reasons.

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19 Mar 2012, 12:08 am

I think my biggest reason for being single is not knowing how to meet additional people. I haven't found any women around me so far who I seriously think I could spend the rest of my life with, who aren't already taken. My appearance standards are minimal, but my interests are narrow and I do have very high honesty/directness standards (in other words, don't expect me to catch hints!)

I might have to try a dating site or two. I do much better at writing than at speaking.

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19 Mar 2012, 1:33 am

Im too shy in person unless I have a few drinks.

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19 Mar 2012, 2:05 am

Because I always happen to chicken out or act awkwardly to or friendzone them when guys confess to me. Plus, at this age, relationships won't last very long either, so it would be weird to be to be in a relationship knowing that. :lol:

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19 Mar 2012, 2:06 am

A combination of a weak sex drive paired with a busy schedule. Mostly the former, if you need a single reason.

I'm honestly alright with it. Saves me quite a bit of drama, as it were.

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19 Mar 2012, 7:01 am

Because I have an Xbox.

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19 Mar 2012, 7:10 am

Other than a temptation to say "none of your business" to anyone who asks, I'd say one main reason is I'm simply not robust or dominant enough a guy.

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