But it’s all about personality >.>
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You should look into that, Sly.
Nope as you have to be consider permanently disabled meaning they review your case every 5+ years. They review my case every 4 years 11 months just so I’m not classified permanently disabled though clearly they believe I am otherwise they suppose to do i every 2-3 years. I’ve been disabled officially since age 5, been in ssi since middle school.
So about 20ish years. Anyways it would matter. The forgiven loans then become tax debt and tax debt can be take ssi as payments. Tax debt is the only debt that has no limits,mits the only debt that can deduct money from social security payments. The government makes the rules and so they aren’t held to the same standards as us people. Credit debt can’t touch social security cause the government says that’d hur the person and make them homelsss. But when it’s the governments debt they say f**k that person. Maybe they shouldn’t used me to go to college and given me loans they reasonable knew I wouldn’t be able to pay back. But that’s the whole us debt problem, banks giving people loans who they know they won’t be able to pay back under the idea that they make tons on interest. So we get housing bubble collapse, bank bail outs(surprise people defaulted on the loans they could afford so the banks were going to bankrupt but big government stepped in and forgave their debr(my debt))
I ow 10,000 to credit card companies that they got wiped out by the government. So they get double money now. How’s that for fair
Anyways so the student loans will never go away it’s a guillotine hovering over my neck that’ll drop one day. I could file bankruptcy and get the credit debt wiped though.
The other day, I saw a 250 lb woman making out with a man of average weight (in average shape). The man seemed sincerely turned on. Chubby woman find ways to satisfy men; they really work at it.
I’m not average and i dont know what average is cause most women here fat or him have gorgeous faces. And they certainly don’t think they average, I doubt any woman in my area thinks he’s less then hot, atlseems thst way from their attitudes.
Probably liked her personality, most guys have a much larger range of what we find sexually attractive then women. Mine is from thin to near super obesity. The lady who rejected me last week at work was near super obesity(What I’d call obesity and what society calls obesity differ, so I added super) but her face was still really pretty and she seemed nice, but I misjudged thst.nts are good are artificially appearing nice and kind. I’m terrible at reading that deception.
It's true: the instant we hit 200 pounds, we're initiated into an exclusive club. It's dedicated to learning black magic for the sole purpose of pleasing our men.
You’re not cubby
I dont know if he meant sexually which I’m guessing is how you took it. The age old “fat women are great at blow Jobs cause they compensate for their fat bodies” guy attitudes I’m guessing. I wouldn’t know the few women I got sexual with I spent most the time pleasing them. They didn’t reciprocate much. I didn’t ask them to. I hope you don’t believe most guys think that women have to please them to compensate. I don’t. Though perhaps that’s part of why women don’t like me. Real men would demand pleasing from their women I’d suppose.
It is advantageous for me to have excellent posture because of my short stature. Mine is only “decent,” though, for my age.
Tall people tend to slouch, perhaps out of respect for shorter people. They don’t want to seem to be looming over people in conversation.
I stand up straight. When near women I look down or away from them.
At work a lot of stuff is below my eye line too. So I’ll have to look down a lot.
You're right, we don't.
I don't think people with poor posture are dishonest. I think they look like dorks but most of all I think they lack self-awareness. They would stand up straight if only they knew what they looked like.
It's bad news for aspies because it takes a great deal of empathy to see yourself from someone else's point of view without the aid of a mirror.
I don’t care or notice women’s postures.
Where do women tell you you're ugly? In what kind of situation did they do so? Did they outright say so, or is that your interpretation of their reaction or something else they said that might imply you're ugly?
Aside from school kids I do not see many people calling each other ugly. Sure some people are very rude about rejecting someone but, assuming that the majority of those thousands of women rejecting you were on dating sites and not in real life, were those calling you ugly also from dating sites? Did they bother to reply to you just to tell you they don't want to date you because they think you're ugly?
You don't look unusual therefore I can't imagine it's random strangers walking up to you just to insult you, unless maybe on rare occasion some teen but that happens to most.
Unattractive is ugly. Just more fancy way of saying it.
Women tell me I’m unattractive all the time,. I message them and they like sorry you’re not attractive.
Some have plain said I’m ugly.
Unattractive may be similar to but not the same as ugly. It doesn't need to refer to looks and it's more subjective. Like, I'm usually not attracted to men a lot older than myself, but that doesn't mean I think they're all ugly. Obviously most of them look average. The reason why I'm not attracted to them is because I don't feel particularly mature (not even for my age, let alone compared to someone 15 or more years older than me) Also obviously, I shouldn't tell them they're unattractive because they won't know the reason why I'm not attracted to them is very subjective.
Obviously most of these women won't have felt not attracted to you because of age but maybe at least some of them meant it in a very subjective way due to some other subjective criterion and don't think you're ugly and most definitely not hideous. In some cases the wording might just have been clumsy rather than them being mean spirited and thinking in very negative ways about you.
The ones who directly called you ugly likely were just jerks whom the internet enables to act that way because on the internet there are usually no consequences to being a jerk. You tried with a lot of people. Naturally you also met some jerks. Some of them might be arrogant and think they're a lot better looking than they actually are.
Of course that doesn't change your reality of being single.
Honestly, if you live in an area with high obesity rates you're probably average looking (some men thinner than you, some fatter and an average face for someone your built). If you live in an area where almost all men are slim then your looks would be below average right now (or at least at the time you shared those photos) but they may go to average if you lose a little more weight.
When people reject me they meant my looks. They liked my personality. They usual like you’re a great guy and we have a lot in common but sorry I don’t find you physically attractive or I find you unattractive.
And reddit am I ugly everyone said yes and said I’m like 1/2 out of 10.
Which makes sense why I get rejected and ignored so much on dating where physical looks is the first gate to dating. If they don’t like you looks they won’t talk to you.
Never said mean spirited, in fact to most people saying they find you unattractive is the nice way of letting down someone you find ugly. I don’t blame or hat them as much they can’t change they find me ugly and I wouldn’t kiss or be with someone I find ugly. It just sucks that there isn’t any women who find me physically attractive or handsome.
I live in a college area with a high pop of youn thin hot women and men. There’s a lot of fat older men40+. But my age range is mostly thin and hot. They come from all over the world to attend the university. Interesting fat women don’t seem to come from Japan, Europe, Canada, etc to attend college half way around the world. I dont know why do fat women not go to college further away or do those other places have few fat people?
Also bunch of women from other states.
Local college I went too had probly 50/50 except dentist and nursing where they were all smoking hot women 0.o(side note had to put down our family dog Tuesday:(. The two nurses were really pretty) the university on the other hand is 90% thin attractive people. And has 60% women/40% men. Do attractive people get special treatment for grants and loans to expensive colleges? I bet they do get preference. The ones going to the community college get federal grants anyone can get but that won’t cover the 10,000-18,000 a term for the university. Community college is 3,000 a term.
I dont know I’m just making guess as to why the pop of the university is as such.
Clearly I don’t stand a chance with hot women or any women going to either college so it’s irrelevant, sadly du to public funding nearly every woman here goes to college and it’ll get worse as the state is planning to pay for 2 years of college for every ne graduating high schoolers, so in the future every single woman will go to college and thus be too good for me
Again.....I don't know what to say, Sly. You've just been talking to the wrong women. There are women out there who don't think like that. I promise you that. The ones in the "meat market" online dating sites tend to reflect stereotypes.
I was in that sort of position in high school---maybe even worse than you. It was even worse before high school. A teacher, point-blank, told me I wouldn't make it out of junior high.
I was the outcast among outcasts. But I said to myself: screw all the demographics, all the statistics. I decided I am my own man, and I don't care how short I am, how weird I am, how nerdy I am, etc. You would have probably thought me an "outcast" as well. I once had a guy tell me, "if you step foot in my neighborhood, I'll kill your ass!" It was that bad.
I said to myself that I am my own man, and I'm not the man in the stat sheets. I'm going to be a success on my terms.
And no....it has nothing to do with "blow jobs"------In my experience, chubby woman have been more attentive to me. I don't see anything wrong with saying what my experience has been.
It doesn't mean that there are not normal-weight women who are attentive to men, or chubby women who don't give a damn.
I don't base my impressions upon a generalized notion. I base it on the individual people I've met.
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If I could live my life again I might become a male nurse, in nursing school I'd be surrounded by beautiful nursing students.
It’s terrible, why would yiu want to be surrounded by women out of your league. Plenty of attractive women post their pictures online if yiu want to see attractive women. I’d rather be surrounded by chubby fat women who may date me.
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Who said anything about them being out of my league?
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