AS Standards-Likes and dislikes in the opposite sex

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Dislikes: I hate guys who whine and blame everyone else for their problems.

Likes: It all depends but I think a great one is respect and the ability to have some insight on many different feelings and perspectives....this is rare to find in people especially guys.

It's also a plus but not necessarily a requirement if he were to share some of the same interests as me like music, art, history astrology, astronomy, and mysticism.

His astrology sign needs to at least be in the cusp or sun of Aquarius, Libra or Gemini...Saggitarius is an acception.


Oh and there's nothing more sexy than a guy who likes cats...

I'd be content with someone with average looks (or above wouldn't hurt ), besides that....meh, i actually get out so little that i can't think much of anything, honesty would be nice though. I'm most of the time rather honest, so i'd enjoy having someone i can trust. I've been told by my family that i'm overcontrolling o.O As in, i try to make them respect the "laws" they've set themselves... Or appeal to their senses into doing the right thing -.- But most of the time, they won't listen and just tell me to shut up & you're annoying. I myself look pretty average... Small beer belly forming, but nothing major. =/ Been told i often forget to take showers... I do use a stick for odors though.

Oh and miss C, i do have interest in occult stuff (even tried getting information when i was younger <.<), but sadly i'm a Scorpio <.< but on the other hand, my chinese zodiac is Tiger of Fire! So i'm like a big cat >=3 And i fuse those two together, i suppose it would give off something like a manticore (xcept with a tiger's instead of a lion's)

I do enjoy all kinds of animals (xcept BIG spiders....do not try to get me to touch your pet tarantula please o.o). We have 3 cats and 1 dog, so hum.... Yeah

I'm half deaf, so i can't really say i enjoy music (and i wouldn't mind it from a potential mate as long as it's not "loud" music), i can appreciate art from time to time under most of its shapes...

Bottom point, there's only a minimum of likes, and a bunch of uncertainties about dislikes, i'd have to have gone through much relationships to be able to comment about this further. =/

I don't get why anyone even mentions looks to be honest, it's not as if you're going to want someone who you're not attracted to is it? What do average looks look like? How do you know whwen they're above or below average? What to do if they're only a few degrees lower than your 'minimum requirements'?

My only requirement is that I fancy the poor girl and that she's not into cats or astrology lol

likes: ADHD mind (i'm not even joking, it's great for conversations and fun to be around), impulsive, open mindedness, kind, and spontaneous
dislikes: overly serious, no real interests, manipulative

The things that I look for in a woman are: 1) long or semi-long hair, 2) slimness, 3) outgoing, and 4) very open and playful.

I refuse to date women that look like and dress like ordinary men.

Likes: Curiosity, creativity, communication (especially written), artistically/musically inclined, considerate, patient, loyal, shared interests, appreciates forms of beauty and the beauty of forms, passionate.

Dislikes: Deception, manipulation, insincerity, does not see things through, superficial, greed or avarice, someone who seeks to be defined by their social station.


M.

I dont think I could put to pen what I like and dislike, character-wise, if I knew that, i'd just go out and find it =P.

But i'll post some interesting things I've come across that I've found oddly attractive. Those strange little things that always strike me as sexy and attractive. Wouldnt base any kind of relationship on these things, but they wouldnt hurt =P.

Likes-
English Accents
Women who can sing
Glasses
Red hair with green eyes.
Women who wear sweat pants/pajama pants
Dirty mouths (as in vulgar, there is just something about a women dropping an f-bomb that I find attractive haha)

Dislikes
Too much make-up
Blonde hair (nothing to do with blondes being dumb or anything, I just rarely find any women with blonde hair more than just generic looking)

Define shallowness.

Shallowness:

1. Lack of depth of knowledge or thought or feeling.

2. The quality of lacking physical depth.

The only person I loved had the following qualities:

Kindness
Candidness
Conscientiousness
Empathy
Intellect
Humour
Open-mindedness
Attentiveness

Likes:

Big ass
Big tits
Cute face
Emotional stability
Well rounded as a person (not extremely nerdy or ditzy)
Smart in a multi faceted way (kinda related to the above)
Freaky


Dislikes:

Bitchy
Corny
Naive (Kinda related to the above)
Ugly (Ooohhh no so mean!! Well so is making fun of people for being stupid, which is also something people are born with to an extent)
Hypocritical

Likes: Witty, open-minded, somewhat independent, considerate, funny, easy-to-talk-to, and probably most importantly; physically attractive.

Dislikes: Doesn't care about anything really, closed-minded, overly-clingy, and obesity.

Basically I like physically attractive smart girls that are easy to talk to and aren't really needy all the time.