At what age did you lose your virginity?

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Most of the people that post on craiglist are openly gay guys or overweight women or just spam ads.

true but im sure the average person could still get laid using that site

lost min at 18.
tossed it from me like a hand grenade and ran for the hills.

ever since i've been getting offers up the ying yang, it's way too easy in retrospect.
but thankfully i have a girlfriend now to get it from regularly. Oh baby!

I'm 43 and I can't answer it either!!

I chose "Above 28" because I'm still a virgin and not planning on losing it, unless I have a really good reason to, which I don't.

Okay, I'm feeling really insecure after reading all of these. I always thought my AS was the cause of the lack of sex or relationships in my life, but apparently even most aspie guys lose their virginity in their teens. I think there's something wrong with me.

Well, if just putting it in counts, then I say either 11 or 12. The problem was, that the girl I lost it to is now my stepsister that I have not heard from since last Christmas.

I'm saving the moment till my wedding night.

Quite the opposite. If you look at the message boards of any Aspie site/forum you will see huge numbers of men who have never had any form of relationship with a woman. I strongly doubt that many true Aspie males lose their virginity in their teens and therein lies the problem: whilst I am a formally diagnosed Autistic and possibly so are you, most people on these sites are self-diagnosed and probably not truly Aspie/Autistic at all. Not to be taken the wrong way, I am not accusing people of being fakers but not everyone who has a personality disorder is automatically an Aspie/Autistic. I am of the opinion that people should seek formal diagnosis before labelling themselves.

I think if you were to look at studies (if there are any) into sexual experiences of the Autistic, I suspect you would find a very different picture than what is painted here.

I was 27 when I finally got round to doing the deed : ) Been in a few relationships since and sex has always been a big issue for me. I'm now single, aged 43 and no longer bothered now that AS has just been formally diagnosed so I feel happy in myself now.

I've been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, but I lost mine when I was 13 to my first and only girlfriend. I've been dating her for two and a half years now, and I'm surprised to find that most of my normal friends lost theirs when they were 15, 16, and 17! I felt awesome.

Somehow I managed to lose it at 18...

Keep looking, you may find it....

Um, cyber sex from an internet girlfriend doesn't count

I was 19.

Honestly, probably somewhere around 10, it was kind of a secret relationship with a girl in my street and class who would sometimes sleep over. To this day I have told no one, sometimes I think maybe I should admit I was dating her to feel less guilty, it was just lust though.